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By *ookiewithcream OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct.

Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you want to squirt?

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By *ookiewithcream OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Why do you want to squirt?"

To see how it feels and whether it’s more intense than a normal orgasm. I feel it’s possible but it’s just not happening for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe do a forum search on 'squirt'. This one might be useful. Good luck. X

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1505747

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Squirting I hear is just pee? But I’m still open minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you want to squirt?"

I imagine because it's something they want to experience?

I've no advice really though. I only do it when I'm really turned on and relaxed. Try not to try too hard and go with the flow! Good luck experimenting op x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Edging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct.

Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "

On You Tube there are lots of information what squirt is and how to make it. First thing you have to wake up woman's nervous system - very long foreplay, you have also learn technique how to play with fingers and your tongue.

She needs to be very well hydrated. Good thing is if she has a strong pelvic floor, for that she needs to exercise and know how to work with her internal muscles.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Best advice is don't make a big deal out of it. Concentrate on your orgasm, clit and g spot stimulation helps but if you start over thinking about squirting it probably won't.

The most important things are being relaxed and turned on, if it's going to happen it will but it's not the end of the world if it doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is tied to my submission. How submissive I feel is how often I squirt. My most recent play date I squirted about 6 times.

Watch some videos on porn sites, hook fingers forward towards her navel and stimulate there. It's about pushing past the sensations. Try and fully relax, It will feel weird at first, however it is like a pringle can once you pop, you can't stop.

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Squirting amazing experience love it

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By *ookiewithcream OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

Thank you, some great advice, please keep them coming. Will look at YouTube with Mr and see. I like the idea of being tied up in bed too, I am guessing being submissive is part on working of letting go.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

My best bit of advice would be to get an Njoy (or copy if happy with quality) wand and practise on yourself F.

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct.

Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom?

On You Tube there are lots of information what squirt is and how to make it. First thing you have to wake up woman's nervous system - very long foreplay, you have also learn technique how to play with fingers and your tongue.

She needs to be very well hydrated. Good thing is if she has a strong pelvic floor, for that she needs to exercise and know how to work with her internal muscles."

Sounds like you are a pro?

Do you squirt?

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By *akes coupleCouple
over a year ago

Ambleside

Middle two fingers hooked up towards the front, not to deep and definitely not to fast works for me most times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squirting I hear is just pee? But I’m still open minded"

Very different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Middle two fingers hooked up towards the front, not to deep and definitely not to fast works for me most times. "

Finds her g-spot, feels like a rough textured area on the wall on my wife.

Gets her squirting, so different from her peeing

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

A womaniser is what did it for M quite literally opened the floodgates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct.

Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom?

On You Tube there are lots of information what squirt is and how to make it. First thing you have to wake up woman's nervous system - very long foreplay, you have also learn technique how to play with fingers and your tongue.

She needs to be very well hydrated. Good thing is if she has a strong pelvic floor, for that she needs to exercise and know how to work with her internal muscles.

Sounds like you are a pro?

Do you squirt? "

Come and try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its definitely a knack a very particular type of movement. When the spot is reached you will know it immediately. My ex husband was the one that got me squirting .

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

I squirt and for me it has nothing to do with orgasm.

I squirt when my gspot is touched in a particular way, touching my gspot is pleasant but I don’t feel the squirting itself.

My advice is play with the gspot, all different angles, strengths of touch and toys.

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

My current GF can do it and she only started doing it after having kids.

What works is a "come hither" motion on her g spot. Can happen when I do it slowly or quite rough but I dont like being rough with her. Roxy on pornhub has a good tutorial

Also if she's sat on my face it sometimes happens just with my tongue on her clit which is epic when it hits my throat. She likes the smell on my beard.

Think sometimes she holds back due to not wanting the messy sheets.

Not been able to do it with my dick unfortunately....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My FWB had never done it before I used the Njoy stainless steel curved Dildo on her I wasn't aiming to make her squirt it just happened

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"I squirt and for me it has nothing to do with orgasm.

I squirt when my gspot is touched in a particular way, touching my gspot is pleasant but I don’t feel the squirting itself.

My advice is play with the gspot, all different angles, strengths of touch and toys. "

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This reply matches my (male) experience. Have experienced quite a few women squirting when playing with them, including Mrs. Arpeggio. First time it was by chance, which took me by surprise, while now after so many times I have a pretty good idea what are the likely triggers in women that do squirt, but my focus is always in getting women as much pleasure as I can give them, not about getting them to squirt just for my own satisfaction. Never had any women asking me to make them squirt, therefore i do never make a goal out of it.

Squirt liquid I found arousing and pleasant. What comes gushing is a clear liquid and tastes sweet, nothing like pee at all. So if anyone is still thinking it's pee, you are wrong. Just because it comes out of the same orifice as pee comes from, it does not make it pee, same as semen is different grom pee despite coming out the same hole.

Also, squirting has nothing to do with orgasms: in my experience, some women did orgasm when squirting because of the intense and prolonged stimulation, but other women did not orgasm at that point, they just told me they found it pleasurable when it happened. And a few others didn't even notice they had squirted. So, be ready to be disappointed if it does not lead to the intense orgasm you are hoping for. My opinion is that the orgasm, if there's one at the moment of squirting, will come from this specific type of stimulation, but not from the actual squirting (liquid coming out of the urethra).

I like to think of squirting as "sweating", a natural involuntary reaction to a certain type of stimulation (g-spot in my personal experience, but I have seen squirting from other stimulation), but not something that she can will out by merely thinking about it.

Being relaxed about it, is crucial, both of you but specially her. Stimulating the g-spot is the most usual way for women to get to squirting, in my experience, and for their playing partner (women or men) helping a woman to experience this. Also, I'm no expert but in my limited experience I have learnt that women squirt more often if I take time and I do not go too fast nor too rough with my fingers, otherwise you will get her either irritation and discomfort or a quick orgasm with your fingering without giving her enough time for the "well" of squirt liquid to fill up inside, to the point it needs release.

Finally, again in my personal experience, it comes to a point where all feels very wet and "squelchy" when you are fingering her, and you wonder if she has already squirted. Usually she has not. If you keep stimulating the g-spot in the same way and at the same time apply good pressure on the area above her clítoris tip, with the palm of the other hand or cup you same fingering hand to apply pressure there, that usually triggers the release. If still not there, talk to her, kiss her, suck a nipple, kiss her neck... do anything to get her to stop thinking about the pleasure "down there" and relax, and "let go", similar to the moment between holding your pee and relax to start the peeflow. Hope this helps.

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By *orset.JMan
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct.

Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "

Try tantric massage/ Yoni massage- done properly it’s amazing. I have made a few women squirt for the first time using it.

I think other methods will work but this type of massage is a very slow build up and is kinda of edging you towards an orgasm slowly. Breathing/ talking/ tactile touch all critical.

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By *kmegoodWoman
over a year ago

bradford/ halifax

For me to squirt I need to be completely relaxed If I’m trying to squirt or aware it’s desired it rarely happens for me

The come hither with fingers usually gets it going and then any motion inside sets it off again

It’s not related to an orgasm for me so I’d rather orgasm than squirt

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Go watch a Seymour Butts video and you will learn.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct.

Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "

One woman in my experience expelled urine when her clitoris was stimulated quickly with the palm and middle two fingers of hand every time. She couldn’t control her bladder. You could clearly see the fluid was urine and it smelled of it.

However, the same woman when on all fours and with me gently probing the tip of a single digit into the opening of her pussy suddenly engulfed me with copious amounts of fluid and it just kept on coming. This was completely clear and had no smell whatsoever.

This confirmed to me there are two types of squirting. One is indeed actual urine, the other is female ejaculate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pam often couldn't squirt at the start of our relationship as her ex thought it was disgusting.

Took her relaxing enough to be able too.

She always held back when she felt the desire to 'let go'

Now she squirts like a fire hydrant

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By *ookiewithcream OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

Loving all these responses. It’s really appreciated and your advice is very helpful. We have lots of different things to try thanks to you all

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

make sure she has a full bladder

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By *nked_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

1 thing that helped K squirt the very first time was finishing in the shower. Whenever we would get close to it and she felt like she was about to, the mind block would kick in and stop it. More than like because you spend you entire life preventing yourself from making that kind of "mess". So what we did was work her up until she felt like she might and then we went to the shower and continued. That way her mind and body relaxed a little knowing if she did make a mess it would be no problem. After that it wasn't a problem again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all in the technique , tbh i havnt failed some ladies are harder than others ..some its quick , some its slow ...its all just a gift from god tbh hahahaa

jokes

when u have mastered it , its really not hard to do ..to the point u dont even have to use your fingers , just get her into a nice postion and it can happen hehehe

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By *onnydayzMan
over a year ago

preston


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OK so this is the method I use to make my other half squirt.

Licking around and across the clit whilst 1 or 2 fingers in her vagina (nail side up) and doing a come here motion and sometimes holding the fingers still whilst pushing down on the floor of the vagina - always licking on and around the clit.

Hope this makes sense and some of the ladies on here can advise that it works for them or a similar method

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"Edging

OK so this is the method I use to make my other half squirt.

Licking around and across the clit whilst 1 or 2 fingers in her vagina (nail side up) and doing a come here motion and sometimes holding the fingers still whilst pushing down on the floor of the vagina - always licking on and around the clit.

Hope this makes sense and some of the ladies on here can advise that it works for them or a similar method"

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In your case, is your half lying on her back or us she on all fours (doggy). Just to understand the mention of nail side up for your fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come hither motion with fingers gets me squirting, and I can’t mind block it if I wanted to, if they are doing it right it happens, mine is with orgasm so it is very very intense, too many times and my tummy spasms and it’s game over from cramping, I’ve only had it happen once from a cock, it was really curved and hit the right spot, unfortunately because of this I didn’t last very long lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine works with lots of sensual but brisk thumb action. Its almost like a tap now can turn it on when i need to. Mrs loves it too.

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By *abonTedCouple
over a year ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

Lie back, get fingered beautifully, cum fully…and then keep getting fingered lots more.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

not all women can squirt this is a scientific fact there is alot of info online explaining..

also alot of women think they are squirting but accually have Coital incontinence this is true of women who squirt loads mainly...

look up skene glands that the fluid that gets mixed with urine to produce ''squirting''

i can squirt in little amounts and only if done by the right guy most cant make me squirt and infact have no clue nothing worse than a man on a mission can make things very painful then and for days after ... i can make myself squirt easy with my wand and another toy i can also switch off so if i dont want to then i wont ... i prefer my normal orgasms that roll out one after another anyday unless but with the right guy (and they are very rare) squirting can be enjoyable

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

OP, it's possible that you're desire to squirt is part of the problem. Ideally, you want to be relaxed. Also, be aware that squirting does not necessarily involve an orgasm, though they can co-exist.

If you go to the hub of porn, there are actually a couple of good tutorials there on the subject (along with some nonsense!).

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd would recommend drinking plenty water, and go for a pee before trying to squirt. This helps me relax.

Also, I have 2 waterproof sheets on my bed as I'm a prolific squirter at times, and not worrying about soaking the mattress helps lol

Also, can just peel a sheet off afterwards and relax afterwards haha

In terms of technique for me - squirting isn't linked to orgasm, I can have one without the other. So, a good strong orgasm first, then continue with good, firm fingering and boom haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirting is not just pee it is how some people orgasm such as myself . It is a very hard mind blowing orgasm when done properly but can be messy just so you know. Edging helps build it up

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
over a year ago

Thurrock

Practice, practice, practice! It’s very much about technique and what works for you personally. A vibrating stimulation externally with toys or fingers internally can help. Hydration is important drink plenty of water during the day. The hardest factor is to be relaxed and in the right zone mentally. Hope you manage to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I know & from other threads here on Squirting & quoted by Squirters....Squirting isn't an orgasm & some have claimed it is pee....I personally have no idea as I've never squirted as of yet....

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By *icohxxxMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I use my middle two fingers. Slide them inside along the front inner wall until my finger tips reach a small type of shelve lol.

That is the area generally where the woman’s g spot is.

Then I slowly stroke my fingers towards me until you can feel it starting to swell. Keep stroking your fingers using a little bit more pressure and a little bit more faster until you find a rhythm and pressure that starts getting things started

You will get a sudden urge to pee but try to relax and go with it. Trust the process, practice makes perfect.

Hope that helps and let me know how you get on

X

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By *isfun2023Couple
over a year ago

wakefield


"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct.

Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "

Get your man to finger you hard with two fingers doing the 'come hither' hand motion ... try standing position first it's amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't make a big deal out of it.

Watch "Hunk Hands"

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

D got me to squirt for the first time a couple of weeks ago. I loved it.

We were on holiday and enjoyed 7 days of nudity on the beach, sex on the balcony and lots more. C.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct.

Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "

I’ve only recently discovered I can do this. It seems for some reason it only happens when I’m stood up or riding on to of my husband or partner. My husband tied my hands above my head last night and slowly played with my pussy gradually working two or three fingers inside me and massaging the area around my g spot whilst softly grinding his palm on my clit as I got more excited he built up speed/ rhythm until I climaxed absolutely soaking the floor. It feels different to my usual orgasms but extremely nice. Hubby says he can feel me swell up inside just before it happens. I’ve just posted a video of the aftermath.

Mrs x

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