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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so difficult for a single guy to get anywhere on this? My self have been on and off this for years and only ever managed two meets. I get some guys can be rude and disrespectful when dont get messages but not all are like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s difficult for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely is a lot of time wasters here I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, it's difficult for everyone. We all have our thing and looking for like minded to share it with.

Maybe only a few are looking for any sex?

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

OP, so many responses from women in so many threads about this. Scroll a bit in the Advice forum and you will have a myriad of answers. What I wonder is: why the expectation that it would be easy? Why the surprise that it is difficult? What made you think that the amount of conversations, meet and sex you would get here would be any different from what you would get in a dating site, or chatting up ladies at a pub or club on a Saturday night?

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By *amRod64Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

The simple answer is the males outweigh the females.

Wouldnt worry about it, keep trying luck can change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club. Alot of people stick to clubs.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

Just my views ,but get rid of the bit about having a rubbish sex life and doing all the work,it comes off very negative.

Write about what you can offer meets ,you do need to try and sell yourself on here due to the numbers of men.

If someone doesn't like your profile then you're not gonna get a response ,make it the best you can.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

The better you look, the easier it is.

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By *te_correaMan
over a year ago

Great Harwood

Experiment a little, there are plenty of horny guys out there who'll happily pleasure you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, we all struggle. I get like 6 messages a day, all of which is from old men or straights. You just gotta stick in there man, eventually you'll find someone! You just gotta keep searching and make sure you advertise yourself as the best version of yourself. You've got this!

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'm relatively new to this, but have noticed that for many people in this lifestyle, it's not all about sex and having a "shopping list" of things that you'd like to do!

Having nice company and interesting chat is all part of the event!

Many women have profiles that state, "If you want to stimulate me down there, you'll need to stimulate me up there first!"

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

there is no struggle.

there is life away from fabs.

find it

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

It’s as not easy as it was before rona.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, as a single guy on here I spend hours sifting through all the messages, filtering out all the titty pics and 'fixk me tonight' messages..

It is hard deciding on which of the ladies I should meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your level of fun is directly correlated with the effort you put into yourself and profile

Minimum effort = minimum fun

Maximum effort = you guessed it

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Your level of fun is directly correlated with the effort you put into yourself and profile

Minimum effort = minimum fun

Maximum effort = you guessed it "

I couldn't agree more!

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Why is it so difficult for a single guy to get anywhere on this? My self have been on and off this for years and only ever managed two meets. I get some guys can be rude and disrespectful when dont get messages but not all are like that. "

It doesn't matter how you take rejection, after all, it's a bit late by then anyway, no?

Are you expecting women to flock to you because this is Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so difficult for a single guy to get anywhere on this? My self have been on and off this for years and only ever managed two meets. I get some guys can be rude and disrespectful when dont get messages but not all are like that.

It doesn't matter how you take rejection, after all, it's a bit late by then anyway, no?

Are you expecting women to flock to you because this is Fab?

"

Yes......

LoL just kidding!!

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By *ensualplay69Man
over a year ago

slough

It's not the end of the world lol its just life. Theirs more men then women so women have the upper hand and men sleep with anything so even if she's an average girl she gets plenty of attractive guys trying to boost their ego. If your an average guy that she can get in real life I think she will pass on you unless she's looking for substance. You just got to be real with yourself and up your game or don't take it serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so difficult for a single guy to get anywhere on this? My self have been on and off this for years and only ever managed two meets. I get some guys can be rude and disrespectful when dont get messages but not all are like that. "

You sah you've been here before .. nothings changed its always been difficult for all sex's

If its not working change something

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