FabSwingers.com forum: Couples

By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

How difficult is it for you on this site to find a compatible single male to join you ? And what would catch your eye for you to respond ?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

If we want a single male we just go to a club...much simpler way of approaching things.

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Very easy not short of options. But to find someone decent local not as easy.

Most don't read profile and get a no before even starting a conversation xx

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"If we want a single male we just go to a club...much simpler way of approaching things."

Yeah I have seen that been mentioned on a few profiles before . Also a good option for a single male to find a couple also I guess

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Very easy not short of options. But to find someone decent local not as easy.

Most don't read profile and get a no before even starting a conversation xx"

Yeah I find the local options to me are limited also . I did see one couple write that mentioning a heading to a message in the profile easily separates the ones that have taken the time to read the profile from the ones that haven’t

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"If we want a single male we just go to a club...much simpler way of approaching things.

Yeah I have seen that been mentioned on a few profiles before . Also a good option for a single male to find a couple also I guess"

If you're looking for like minded people what better places than clubs, organised socials and swinger holidays.

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"If we want a single male we just go to a club...much simpler way of approaching things.

Yeah I have seen that been mentioned on a few profiles before . Also a good option for a single male to find a couple also I guess

If you're looking for like minded people what better places than clubs, organised socials and swinger holidays."

Yeah couldn’t agree more obviously better than having to civ through this site

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Actually we have found that it can be fairly difficult.

Given that me complain so much about not getting a meet when we do actually approach someone they usually have a list of unrealistic expectations and demands.

Such as: only want to meet Mrs

They always seem to assume that there's no male in a couple.

Can only meet during the week between 1pm and 2pm on a Wednesday or something like this.

Expect us to travel miles to meet them and we book a hotel.

It goes on and on.

We are pretty flexible and understanding yet we always seem to be the one's who make concessions.

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By *_hot_hornyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Actually we have found that it can be fairly difficult.

Given that me complain so much about not getting a meet when we do actually approach someone they usually have a list of unrealistic expectations and demands.

Such as: only want to meet Mrs

They always seem to assume that there's no male in a couple.

Can only meet during the week between 1pm and 2pm on a Wednesday or something like this.

Expect us to travel miles to meet them and we book a hotel.

It goes on and on.

We are pretty flexible and understanding yet we always seem to be the one's who make concessions."

We've had very similar experiences.

Also there seems to mainly be two types of guys; those who only want to meet within 15 minutes of messaging you or not at all, and those who want are happy to chat first... For weeks... And have no intention of meeting. Finding guys in between is difficult!

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Actually we have found that it can be fairly difficult.

Given that me complain so much about not getting a meet when we do actually approach someone they usually have a list of unrealistic expectations and demands.

Such as: only want to meet Mrs

They always seem to assume that there's no male in a couple.

Can only meet during the week between 1pm and 2pm on a Wednesday or something like this.

Expect us to travel miles to meet them and we book a hotel.

It goes on and on.

We are pretty flexible and understanding yet we always seem to be the one's who make concessions."

I’d say anyone who is interacting with a couple and only wanting the mrs is not actually aware of the great times to be had with a couple and have probably never met a couple before . But having to deal with all that from this site would suggest meeting at clubs is a great option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find club meets much easier to meet single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly they have to read the profile properly before messaging so they know what I want from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single males are easy to find and had a few good meets.

couples harder to find 4 way attraction.

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"single males are easy to find and had a few good meets.

couples harder to find 4 way attraction. "

That’s good to hear then that you have had a few good meets with single guys from here . Not all bad haha

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

For just a normal single guy, probably clubs are the best option, though not always easy to spark up conversation to find the right one on the night (we have had guys who's first sentence is asking to play, which isn't the way we prefer to do things). We prefer a bit of a chat first.

Finding a local fella is slightly more difficult.

Finding one that is genuinely single, reliable and up for regular meets, more difficult again.

Finding all of the above, and having a good connection, and them being bi - seemingly as difficult as finding single ladies...

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By *ackandviolet96Couple
over a year ago

Gateshead

We have found it abit difficult to find guys, alot of the time guys don't read out profile and we find they are not wanting the same fun as us. We have issues with alot of guys not wanting to send face pics, we don't push this as its a individual decision but we won't meet without one. We also get alot of messages that completely disregard me (jack) or can be abit nasty or degrading to me as I'm into bi play with guys. Alot just want to play with violet and Will say whatever in order to do so but its usally clear in replys that's what they want. Not sure if this is the same for other couples with bi male. We also get messages where violet is spoke of like an object that can be traded or something and that really boils my blood haha but as negative as that all sounds we have stillmetsomwreally Nice guys who get what Weare looking for and we have clicked with and always happy to chat with people of there is an attraction and interest for sure but we defo find ut difficult.

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"For just a normal single guy, probably clubs are the best option, though not always easy to spark up conversation to find the right one on the night (we have had guys who's first sentence is asking to play, which isn't the way we prefer to do things). We prefer a bit of a chat first.

Finding a local fella is slightly more difficult.

Finding one that is genuinely single, reliable and up for regular meets, more difficult again.

Finding all of the above, and having a good connection, and them being bi - seemingly as difficult as finding single ladies..."

From this thread definitely sounds like clubs is a lot easier for couples to meet single males

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's actually the rarest Unicorn of all for us on the scene (despite the numbers on paper). And that's no joke either, it's true. We have far more success finding the right couples and single females. However the right guy and chemistry for that illusive perfect free flowing MFM 3some where Mrs Misfit can be totally adored and ravished is so difficult. However we don't search on fab because we prefer to find people out in the real world. But one day we will find that guy, he is out there

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"It's actually the rarest Unicorn of all for us on the scene (despite the numbers on paper). And that's no joke either, it's true. We have far more success finding the right couples and single females. However the right guy and chemistry for that illusive perfect free flowing MFM 3some where Mrs Misfit can be totally adored and ravished is so difficult. However we don't search on fab because we prefer to find people out in the real world. But one day we will find that guy, he is out there

I would have never have thought it was the rarest unicorn

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

"single males are easy to find and had a few good meets.

couples harder to find 4 way attraction. "

Way easier with single males. Couples are way harder bc you have to please two people at the same time and only takes one of them to say no and you're history. Recruiting guys for a party was a piece of cake. Single females and esp couples was hardwork.

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By *ew2it.deCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

We’ve met some great single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found getting meets in general is very hard work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a lot harder to find the right person than most would think.. far easier to visit a club and chat to people that take your fancy face to face rather than ping pong messages that most of the time comes to nothing for one reason or another.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We find it easier either single males at a club, more conversation and less likely to mess us about than at a hotel

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By *amesKateCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Very difficult- looking for our first experience. Any advice very welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a lot harder to find the right person than most would think.. far easier to visit a club and chat to people that take your fancy face to face rather than ping pong messages that most of the time comes to nothing for one reason or another."

We are the same. Only go to clubs. Much much easier and like you said, no ping pong messaging for weeks on end

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