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By *icksucked OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel about

I've tried to experiment with anal sex but it always ends up hurting I'm fine with toys but as soon as a cock trys entering I find it painful have you got any tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More lube!

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By *icksucked OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel about

I tried lots of lube and everything got to slippery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you need to find a skinnier cock!

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By *icksucked OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel about

Haha yeh think that might be the case

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By *antricTrystCouple
over a year ago

Pershore

Ok so you have played with toys and that's OK I guess on your own so you have been relaxed, I guess when you are with someone you are less relaxed so you need to find a way to control your anal muscles in that situation. I would look at starting kegal exercises you will notice the difference in a couple of weeks. T

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By *icksucked OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel about

That's something I have been thinking about is it nerves so will definitely look it to kegal exercises it's a big fantasy of mine so would be amazing to fulfill even if it's just the once

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By *arkfemparadiseTV/TS
over a year ago

Bournemouth

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By *icksucked OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel about

Thank you that sounds like some brilliant advice

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By *arkfemparadiseTV/TS
over a year ago

Bournemouth

It can never been too slippery! You can get lubes which are specifically for anal, which are usually silicone. Water-based lubes tend to dry up quicker and can cause a little more friction during butt play, which is what you don’t want.

I agree with Tantric Tryst; relaxation is key. Anal is so much more enjoyable when you are comfortable and trust your partner. If you are tense, it’s most likely going to hurt. And if it hurts, you’re doing something wrong.

The reality is that a real life penis feels completely different to toys, so when your partner enters you, get them to hold it in there before you go deeper, inch by inch. This will get you used to the feeling of fullness.

The best thing to do is to push out (as if you’re going for a number 2) when they are inside you. This will relax your sphincter muscles and make it easier. But of course make sure you have douched before hand to avoid a mess!

Relax and have fun

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

More lube, take your time, possibly try a bigger toy to open you up a bit further.

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By *icksucked OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel about

Everyone seems to be saying more lube so definitely going to be pumping it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried to experiment with anal sex but it always ends up hurting I'm fine with toys but as soon as a cock trys entering I find it painful have you got any tips"

Spit on it!

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By *icksucked OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel about

Haha yeh i won't forget trying that one my ring was on fire

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Play with toys and use lots of lube and when the cock enters just relax it'll be uncomfortable but you will get used to it.

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By *icksucked OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel about

Thanks hopefully next time it will just slip in haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a cock that fits comfortably...avoid big cocks.

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Just the tip

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