FabSwingers.com forum: How far would you go for a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wandered just how far people would travel for a meeting.

Say that absolute ideal person or persons messaged you to meet.

What distance would you travel?

I’m in Portsmouth so as far south as you can go so quite often people message from north of England and Scotland.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve flown to Edinburgh. Not a problem.

If I am interested enough, I make it happen.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

we limit to 2 hours

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve flown to Edinburgh. Not a problem.

If I am interested enough, I make it happen.

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wow that’s commitment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn't travel longer than an hour for a sex meet. I wouldn't travel that far for a cup of coffee. Who wants to spend more time traveling than meeting?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Wouldn't travel at all! X

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It depends on whether you feel that it would be worthwhile and how much time you spent meeting. Furthest I’ve travelled was from Manchester to March (Cambs) but it was entirely worth it. Usually I might try to arrange a meet when away on business so I’m already in the area.

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

30mile though have travelled further once and i was sat having a coffee on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel all over the UK for work and will often look at the local fibbers for places I frequent. That could be 4/5 hours away in some cases. Lazy...probably. Does it work? Oh my no..haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my early days on fab.I've travelled over 100 miles, these days its unlikely I'd do that distance as I'm looking for different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to the North East before. First it was work, but after it was because I wanted to

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

For a first meet nowadays ,not too far .I've seen so many threads by men and women who have been stood up after going a fair way & getting hotels.

Maybe if I'd met someone a few times and we had a connection I'd travel further .

I only meet socially first time ,so I prefer locals.

When I was single many years again,I went to Leicester for a meet from yorks.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't really get why people wink or message when they're hours away and don't visit the area I'm in .

I've had winks from people in America & Dover recently.

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

No limits for someone who can go the distance

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By *ongtallsillyMan
over a year ago

Telford

First meet 1 hour, after that if the vibe is right then the skys the limit.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

London or Bedford

I once met the woman of my dreams on here. Was willing to fly from Luton to Aberdeen to meet her.

But really...depends on how big the tits are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for something regular rather than one offs. So wouldn't travel more than an hour otherwise it just gets impractical really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe upto 2 hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About an hour an half travel time for us.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Ive met people travelling from as far as NYC.But usually Bristol and Plymouth,Devon,Dorset.Sometimes Wales.And London.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

A couple of hours is usually fine...

Further afield should baked delights be on offer

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd probably say a couple of hours.

Mrs

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Probably upto 4 hours as we like travelling

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

2 hours.

I live in the lakes in the middle of nowhere, so usually happy to club, party and hotel in the Manchester Preston and Liverpool areas x

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

candy cane lane

An hour

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Hour we say. So if meeting in middle 2 hours away unless we are on a roadtrip that's different xxx

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I don't really get why people wink or message when they're hours away and don't visit the area I'm in .

I've had winks from people in America & Dover recently.

I expect it’s just in appreciation of your profile. Take it as a compliment rather than an expectation for anything more.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Like people have said it depends on what potential you think the meet has

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

No further than Tunbridge Wells

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford

About and hours drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, at one point I was seriously considering travelling to America for a meet with a really cute guy! Unfortunately passport application didn't come through in time! Honestly, if they're someone I'm interested in, I'll make it happen.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

400 mile round trip is the maximum for me, so far. Distances like these are the exception rather than the rule, however because of the well-known 'Fab Curse' I'm wondering if this will become more common for me.

I hope not.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Like many others, I think it depends on how successful a meet is going to be but also on where they live. I mean, I wouldn't like to drive into London but would drive much further in the opposite direction. If I had made contact with someone whilst away from home, I could imagine going a really long way but, as I am retired, I'm free to do that.

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By *umbrian78Man
over a year ago

Ulverston

From where i live it takes an hour to get anywhere so 60-90 mins drive is someone near to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely depends on who it's with .

I wouldn't travel more than 2 hours for a first meeting

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By *isterE ManMan
over a year ago

Taunton

I would travel back up to Manchester for one or 2 people!! I live south of Bristol.

But typicaly 50 miles max.

If they are amazing, so long as i can travel there in a day, with enough time for a wonderful time! As far as I could get!

But they would have to be Amazing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It totally depends on the individual. There is unfortunately a very large number of time wasters, dreamers, fakes etc on here.

Even verified accounts! So unless I've built a degree of connection, feel the dynamic is right I'd not consider travelling far.

Conversely, if we're getting on like a house on fire, then I'm willing to travel.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I've gone to Wales before, and London....

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"400 mile round trip is the maximum for me, so far. Distances like these are the exception rather than the rule, however because of the well-known 'Fab Curse' I'm wondering if this will become more common for me.

I hope not."

I'm not 70 miles away.. just saying

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I travels to Cornwall Wales and scotland

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

No limit for the right person!

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By *azzler2Man
over a year ago

halifax

Up to 2 hours max

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

Recently a potential fabs date got annoyed because I tried to shift the date from a pub that is 20 minutes walking from me to a bowling hall that is 2 minutes walking from me.

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By *ister1Man
over a year ago

north west

Some of my best meets are not on my doorstep

If I was interested enough I travel no issue after all nowhere is far in the U.K.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in Portsmouth so as far south as you can go...

I'd check a map if you think that's as far south as you can go, Bournemouth is further south, hell pretty much most of the coast West of you to Lands End is further south...

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By *iscoman7771000Man
over a year ago

birmingham

South west as far as Taunton Bristol Gloucestershire

North Stoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve flown to Edinburgh. Not a problem.

If I am interested enough, I make it happen.

With those red shoes, you could just tap your heels together and do an Alice in Wonderland impression.

If so come to the south west lol

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I’ve flown to Edinburgh. Not a problem.

If I am interested enough, I make it happen.

With those red shoes, you could just tap your heels together and do an Alice in Wonderland impression.

If so come to the south west lol

Dorothy from the wizard of oz surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely traveled to Ireland it only cost 70 pound return ticket for weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hope not."

Fab curse?

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If I didn't have kids, the answer would be unlimited for the right connection.

But as I do, I'm heavily limited by available cash, time, and energy. So my local club it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right meet I’d travel upto 3 hours

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Social meet: 20-30 min tops

1st play meet: 1 hour max

Meet ( social or play) with swingers that we consider our friends: unlimited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was living in Barcelona at the time and I had a lady that would fly from London to see me stay for a week and in return id fly to London and stay with her for a long weekend, time wise from door to door maybe 4 hours , miles wise if you had to drive I think via France its about 1600 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We travel usually up to 5 hours, but we always go somewhere that has A- a club B- someone we have already met and enjoyed C- people we have been messaging, so if the meet doesn’t go to plan there’s always backups, if all the above fail then we have each other

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't travel. Firstly I don't drive. Secondly, you don't know if they're just messing you about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a couple fly out to Venus in GC to meet up with us again , that’s got to be some kind of record

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I did 300 miles to meet someone but wouldn't do it again even though it was a great few days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did 300 miles to meet someone but wouldn't do it again even though it was a great few days

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damn shame x

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By *ig Harry ManMan
over a year ago

ilford

I’ve done an hour and a half. Would happily do more if the chat sounded like there was a connection.

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