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"Ha yeah, but “preference” and all that I’ve given up trying to challenge people’s inconsistency with their views, it never gets me anywhere when I do. Any kind of -phobia or -ism is pretty much an instant turn off for me anyway no matter what or who it’s aimed at. "  | |||
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"What is dog whistle homophobia?" Little comments aimed at a certain demographic that to anyone else they seem harmless but are actually a quite offensive . Like for example someone made a little comment about white women, which from my POV I wouldn't register it but you would read it and realise that the person was being offensive . Not a great explanation(sorry, I'm rubbish at explaining things) but Google will be able to explain it better - unless someone on the thread can do a better job | |||
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"Yes it's not a desirable personality trait. However people also give of other traits too that are not desirable to us. I'm sure we maybe do to other people too. Obviously if someone displays traits or attitudes we dislike we pass them by. But just because we do doesn't mean everyone does because sometimes these people are fairly verified and/or we see them busy with others in the club. At the end of the day it's personal preference. And I would also argue for some (to varying degrees) people's personal opinions and beliefs are not very important when it comes to NSA fun (or a least these are trumped by physical/sexual desires). At the end of the day we can't always understand or like people's beliefs and opinions. Or understand why others would go with them. We can only consent to the people we want to be with and say no to those we don't. Leave others to do and play with who they see fit." I was asking a question from the POV of bisexual women Which I'm entitled to do, that doesn't mean I don't "leave other to do as they see fit"  | |||
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"Ha yeah, but “preference” and all that I’ve given up trying to challenge people’s inconsistency with their views, it never gets me anywhere when I do. Any kind of -phobia or -ism is pretty much an instant turn off for me anyway no matter what or who it’s aimed at. " I'm very much the same But doubly so when the -phobia/-ism is towards a group of people that I belong to | |||
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"Are there any other bi women who are very very uncomfortable being around homophobic men Surely if a man has an issue with same sex sex, he will also have an issue with the bi fem having it? Or is it OK for her to do it because "it doesn't count" or because he finds it sexy? Alsp about of 50% of bi fem profiles I see where I could possibly be interested, I end up seeing something either outwardly homophobic or some king of dog whistle homophobia Why do so many bi women ignore it and act like they're not in the demographic that it refers to? Obviously not all bi women are like this and neither are all straight men. Just curious based on a couple of messages that landed on my inbox yesterday and today " I was once with a woman (on another swing site) who was bi but she said bi and gay men where weird and wrong!!!! as a bi curious man, I dumped her rather fast (I think I was with her about 3 weeks until she came out with that comment). i just though you fucking hypopotimus!!! oops I mean Hypocrite. | |||
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"Are there any other bi women who are very very uncomfortable being around homophobic men Surely if a man has an issue with same sex sex, he will also have an issue with the bi fem having it? Or is it OK for her to do it because "it doesn't count" or because he finds it sexy? Alsp about of 50% of bi fem profiles I see where I could possibly be interested, I end up seeing something either outwardly homophobic or some king of dog whistle homophobia Why do so many bi women ignore it and act like they're not in the demographic that it refers to? Obviously not all bi women are like this and neither are all straight men. Just curious based on a couple of messages that landed on my inbox yesterday and today I was once with a woman (on another swing site) who was bi but she said bi and gay men where weird and wrong!!!! as a bi curious man, I dumped her rather fast (I think I was with her about 3 weeks until she came out with that comment). i just though you fucking hypopotimus!!! oops I mean Hypocrite. " This is pretty much the conversation I had earlier Seems people think it's OK to be nasty towards bi men when they're not that different towards bi women But bi/gay are a sexual desire for alot of men so I guess its OK  | |||
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"Are there any other bi women who are very very uncomfortable being around homophobic men Surely if a man has an issue with same sex sex, he will also have an issue with the bi fem having it? Or is it OK for her to do it because "it doesn't count" or because he finds it sexy? Alsp about of 50% of bi fem profiles I see where I could possibly be interested, I end up seeing something either outwardly homophobic or some king of dog whistle homophobia Why do so many bi women ignore it and act like they're not in the demographic that it refers to? Obviously not all bi women are like this and neither are all straight men. Just curious based on a couple of messages that landed on my inbox yesterday and today " OK I've got jump in here been a straight man with a bi girl friend I love women so I've no problem her loveing them too.I've no interest in men why should have as I'm sexually attracted to women.men who like to have sex with men can do what they want in the private.im just not interested in knowing about it and i also have no interest in bi men either.its not homophobic its sexual preference I just like women.why should that be a problem to you.actually I'm not great fan of men in general always preferred the company of women can I claim to be a honary lesbian.we like some people we don't like others and visa versa.if man like you and you like him.that should be more important and if loves respect you and your choice to like women too.where the problem. | |||
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"Are there any other bi women who are very very uncomfortable being around homophobic men Surely if a man has an issue with same sex sex, he will also have an issue with the bi fem having it? Or is it OK for her to do it because "it doesn't count" or because he finds it sexy? Alsp about of 50% of bi fem profiles I see where I could possibly be interested, I end up seeing something either outwardly homophobic or some king of dog whistle homophobia Why do so many bi women ignore it and act like they're not in the demographic that it refers to? Obviously not all bi women are like this and neither are all straight men. Just curious based on a couple of messages that landed on my inbox yesterday and today OK I've got jump in here been a straight man with a bi girl friend I love women so I've no problem her loveing them too.I've no interest in men why should have as I'm sexually attracted to women.men who like to have sex with men can do what they want in the private.im just not interested in knowing about it and i also have no interest in bi men either.its not homophobic its sexual preference I just like women.why should that be a problem to you.actually I'm not great fan of men in general always preferred the company of women can I claim to be a honary lesbian.we like some people we don't like others and visa versa.if man like you and you like him.that should be more important and if loves respect you and your choice to like women too.where the problem. " The question was aimed at HOMOPHOBIC MEN If you're not homophobic then guess what? It's not aimed at you. | |||
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"Are there any other bi women who are very very uncomfortable being around homophobic men Surely if a man has an issue with same sex sex, he will also have an issue with the bi fem having it? Or is it OK for her to do it because "it doesn't count" or because he finds it sexy? Alsp about of 50% of bi fem profiles I see where I could possibly be interested, I end up seeing something either outwardly homophobic or some king of dog whistle homophobia Why do so many bi women ignore it and act like they're not in the demographic that it refers to? Obviously not all bi women are like this and neither are all straight men. Just curious based on a couple of messages that landed on my inbox yesterday and today OK I've got jump in here been a straight man with a bi girl friend I love women so I've no problem her loveing them too.I've no interest in men why should have as I'm sexually attracted to women.men who like to have sex with men can do what they want in the private.im just not interested in knowing about it and i also have no interest in bi men either.its not homophobic its sexual preference I just like women.why should that be a problem to you.actually I'm not great fan of men in general always preferred the company of women can I claim to be a honary lesbian.we like some people we don't like others and visa versa.if man like you and you like him.that should be more important and if loves respect you and your choice to like women too.where the problem. The question was aimed at HOMOPHOBIC MEN If you're not homophobic then guess what? It's not aimed at you. "I'm just baffled by people who want lable people as phobic this phobic that when a lot of time people are nothing of the sort they just are not interested in whatever someone what's to lable themselves . | |||
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"Are there any other bi women who are very very uncomfortable being around homophobic men Surely if a man has an issue with same sex sex, he will also have an issue with the bi fem having it? Or is it OK for her to do it because "it doesn't count" or because he finds it sexy? Alsp about of 50% of bi fem profiles I see where I could possibly be interested, I end up seeing something either outwardly homophobic or some king of dog whistle homophobia Why do so many bi women ignore it and act like they're not in the demographic that it refers to? Obviously not all bi women are like this and neither are all straight men. Just curious based on a couple of messages that landed on my inbox yesterday and today OK I've got jump in here been a straight man with a bi girl friend I love women so I've no problem her loveing them too.I've no interest in men why should have as I'm sexually attracted to women.men who like to have sex with men can do what they want in the private.im just not interested in knowing about it and i also have no interest in bi men either.its not homophobic its sexual preference I just like women.why should that be a problem to you.actually I'm not great fan of men in general always preferred the company of women can I claim to be a honary lesbian.we like some people we don't like others and visa versa.if man like you and you like him.that should be more important and if loves respect you and your choice to like women too.where the problem. The question was aimed at HOMOPHOBIC MEN If you're not homophobic then guess what? It's not aimed at you.
I'm just baffled by people who want lable people as phobic this phobic that when a lot of time people are nothing of the sort they just are not interested in whatever someone what's to lable themselves ."You can be baffled and that is your right That doesn't change the fact that some people are homphobic though does it? | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree" "Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but | |||
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"Are there any other bi women who are very very uncomfortable being around homophobic men Surely if a man has an issue with same sex sex, he will also have an issue with the bi fem having it? Or is it OK for her to do it because "it doesn't count" or because he finds it sexy? Alsp about of 50% of bi fem profiles I see where I could possibly be interested, I end up seeing something either outwardly homophobic or some king of dog whistle homophobia Why do so many bi women ignore it and act like they're not in the demographic that it refers to? Obviously not all bi women are like this and neither are all straight men. Just curious based on a couple of messages that landed on my inbox yesterday and today OK I've got jump in here been a straight man with a bi girl friend I love women so I've no problem her loveing them too.I've no interest in men why should have as I'm sexually attracted to women.men who like to have sex with men can do what they want in the private.im just not interested in knowing about it and i also have no interest in bi men either.its not homophobic its sexual preference I just like women.why should that be a problem to you.actually I'm not great fan of men in general always preferred the company of women can I claim to be a honary lesbian.we like some people we don't like others and visa versa.if man like you and you like him.that should be more important and if loves respect you and your choice to like women too.where the problem. The question was aimed at HOMOPHOBIC MEN If you're not homophobic then guess what? It's not aimed at you.
I'm just baffled by people who want lable people as phobic this phobic that when a lot of time people are nothing of the sort they just are not interested in whatever someone what's to lable themselves .
You can be baffled and that is your right
That doesn't change the fact that some people are homphobic though does it? "and some people are whatever you going on about not going to change it people will do what they do your equally as baffled as me with regards this matter. | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but"Well I guess there's butt's for some hey..... genuinely though live and let live idc personally as it don't affect me guy wants have sex with another man let them same goes for females wanting have sex with another female yolo and that | |||
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"Are there any other bi women who are very very uncomfortable being around homophobic men Surely if a man has an issue with same sex sex, he will also have an issue with the bi fem having it? Or is it OK for her to do it because "it doesn't count" or because he finds it sexy? Alsp about of 50% of bi fem profiles I see where I could possibly be interested, I end up seeing something either outwardly homophobic or some king of dog whistle homophobia Why do so many bi women ignore it and act like they're not in the demographic that it refers to? Obviously not all bi women are like this and neither are all straight men. Just curious based on a couple of messages that landed on my inbox yesterday and today OK I've got jump in here been a straight man with a bi girl friend I love women so I've no problem her loveing them too.I've no interest in men why should have as I'm sexually attracted to women.men who like to have sex with men can do what they want in the private.im just not interested in knowing about it and i also have no interest in bi men either.its not homophobic its sexual preference I just like women.why should that be a problem to you.actually I'm not great fan of men in general always preferred the company of women can I claim to be a honary lesbian.we like some people we don't like others and visa versa.if man like you and you like him.that should be more important and if loves respect you and your choice to like women too.where the problem. The question was aimed at HOMOPHOBIC MEN If you're not homophobic then guess what? It's not aimed at you.
I'm just baffled by people who want lable people as phobic this phobic that when a lot of time people are nothing of the sort they just are not interested in whatever someone what's to lable themselves .
You can be baffled and that is your right
That doesn't change the fact that some people are homphobic though does it? and some people are whatever you going on about not going to change it people will do what they do your equally as baffled as me with regards this matter."OK Have a good evening x | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but
Well I guess there's butt's for some hey..... genuinely though live and let live idc personally as it don't affect me guy wants have sex with another man let them same goes for females wanting have sex with another female yolo and that "The topic doesn't relate to you then does it? | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but"There really is no but, live and let live I say Had no idea I would trigger so many people with this topic, especially since the topic doesn't affect then in the slightest LOL | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but
Well I guess there's butt's for some hey..... genuinely though live and let live idc personally as it don't affect me guy wants have sex with another man let them same goes for females wanting have sex with another female yolo and that
The topic doesn't relate to you then does it? "It would appear not however on this open forum I decided to give my opinion | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but
There really is no but, live and let live I say
Had no idea I would trigger so many people with this topic, especially since the topic doesn't affect then in the slightest LOL "Oh you didn't trigger me dear in fact quite the opposite I actually agreed with you | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but
There really is no but, live and let live I say
Had no idea I would trigger so many people with this topic, especially since the topic doesn't affect then in the slightest LOL
Oh you didn't trigger me dear in fact quite the opposite I actually agreed with you "Again, not speaking about you. | |||
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"Are there any other bi women who are very very uncomfortable being around homophobic men Surely if a man has an issue with same sex sex, he will also have an issue with the bi fem having it? Or is it OK for her to do it because "it doesn't count" or because he finds it sexy? Alsp about of 50% of bi fem profiles I see where I could possibly be interested, I end up seeing something either outwardly homophobic or some king of dog whistle homophobia Why do so many bi women ignore it and act like they're not in the demographic that it refers to? Obviously not all bi women are like this and neither are all straight men. Just curious based on a couple of messages that landed on my inbox yesterday and today OK I've got jump in here been a straight man with a bi girl friend I love women so I've no problem her loveing them too.I've no interest in men why should have as I'm sexually attracted to women.men who like to have sex with men can do what they want in the private.im just not interested in knowing about it and i also have no interest in bi men either.its not homophobic its sexual preference I just like women.why should that be a problem to you.actually I'm not great fan of men in general always preferred the company of women can I claim to be a honary lesbian.we like some people we don't like others and visa versa.if man like you and you like him.that should be more important and if loves respect you and your choice to like women too.where the problem. The question was aimed at HOMOPHOBIC MEN If you're not homophobic then guess what? It's not aimed at you.
I'm just baffled by people who want lable people as phobic this phobic that when a lot of time people are nothing of the sort they just are not interested in whatever someone what's to lable themselves .
You can be baffled and that is your right
That doesn't change the fact that some people are homphobic though does it? and some people are whatever you going on about not going to change it people will do what they do your equally as baffled as me with regards this matter.
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Have a good evening x"Thanks for posting your thread its good to hear all points of view.its strange and confusing world we live in.same to you . | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but
There really is no but, live and let live I say
Had no idea I would trigger so many people with this topic, especially since the topic doesn't affect then in the slightest LOL
Oh you didn't trigger me dear in fact quite the opposite I actually agreed with you
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but
There really is no but, live and let live I say
Had no idea I would trigger so many people with this topic, especially since the topic doesn't affect then in the slightest LOL "Exactly I think by now it’s pretty much proven that you are born gay or born straight so why the duck should hetero or homo sexual be even an issue | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but
There really is no but, live and let live I say
Had no idea I would trigger so many people with this topic, especially since the topic doesn't affect then in the slightest LOL
Exactly I think by now it’s pretty much proven that you are born gay or born straight so why the duck should hetero or homo sexual be even an issue"I know! | |||
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"For the love of God "nod and agree"
Yeah I don’t really get what the alternative is. “Homophobia isn’t great but…” there’s no but
There really is no but, live and let live I say
Had no idea I would trigger so many people with this topic, especially since the topic doesn't affect then in the slightest LOL
Exactly I think by now it’s pretty much proven that you are born gay or born straight so why the duck should hetero or homo sexual be even an issue
I know! "Shame not everyone does. Of all the things to be mad about these days, who you fuck should be way down the bottom of the list | |||
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"Perhaps your reading too much into it op. I would class as bi I guess as I like women on occasion. My partners have all been straight guys. I've got many bi male friends and trans friends... however sexually I have no interest or attraction to seeing two guys together. To be fair, I don't have any interest in watching 2 women either but I enjoy partaking myself. Does not make me phobic because I have no desire to watch others in that way" At no point in my post did I say that not wanting to watch same sex sex would make someone homophobic I was quite clear that I was talking about men who are openly homophobic | |||
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"Perhaps your reading too much into it op. I would class as bi I guess as I like women on occasion. My partners have all been straight guys. I've got many bi male friends and trans friends... however sexually I have no interest or attraction to seeing two guys together. To be fair, I don't have any interest in watching 2 women either but I enjoy partaking myself. Does not make me phobic because I have no desire to watch others in that way At no point in my post did I say that not wanting to watch same sex sex would make someone homophobic I was quite clear that I was talking about men who are openly homophobic " I can't say I've seen much of that in my many years on fab. Perhaps it's perceived as being but your misreading it? | |||
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"Perhaps your reading too much into it op. I would class as bi I guess as I like women on occasion. My partners have all been straight guys. I've got many bi male friends and trans friends... however sexually I have no interest or attraction to seeing two guys together. To be fair, I don't have any interest in watching 2 women either but I enjoy partaking myself. Does not make me phobic because I have no desire to watch others in that way At no point in my post did I say that not wanting to watch same sex sex would make someone homophobic I was quite clear that I was talking about men who are openly homophobic I can't say I've seen much of that in my many years on fab. Perhaps it's perceived as being but your misreading it?" Just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it's not there. | |||
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"Perhaps your reading too much into it op. I would class as bi I guess as I like women on occasion. My partners have all been straight guys. I've got many bi male friends and trans friends... however sexually I have no interest or attraction to seeing two guys together. To be fair, I don't have any interest in watching 2 women either but I enjoy partaking myself. Does not make me phobic because I have no desire to watch others in that way At no point in my post did I say that not wanting to watch same sex sex would make someone homophobic I was quite clear that I was talking about men who are openly homophobic I can't say I've seen much of that in my many years on fab. Perhaps it's perceived as being but your misreading it?" Perhaps the OP is pointing out the hypocrisy of men who like to see girl on girl (ie homosexuality) but react violently negatively to Mano a Mano | |||
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"Perhaps your reading too much into it op. I would class as bi I guess as I like women on occasion. My partners have all been straight guys. I've got many bi male friends and trans friends... however sexually I have no interest or attraction to seeing two guys together. To be fair, I don't have any interest in watching 2 women either but I enjoy partaking myself. Does not make me phobic because I have no desire to watch others in that way At no point in my post did I say that not wanting to watch same sex sex would make someone homophobic I was quite clear that I was talking about men who are openly homophobic I can't say I've seen much of that in my many years on fab. Perhaps it's perceived as being but your misreading it? Just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it's not there. " I've seen people getting their knickers in a twist or offended over stuff that really was not what they thought many times. I asked if maybe you were perceiving it as being one thing when actually it isn't. Although to be fair double standards on bi play run deep across swinging Clubs for instance only normally accept guys playing with guys on specific nights | |||
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"Perhaps your reading too much into it op. I would class as bi I guess as I like women on occasion. My partners have all been straight guys. I've got many bi male friends and trans friends... however sexually I have no interest or attraction to seeing two guys together. To be fair, I don't have any interest in watching 2 women either but I enjoy partaking myself. Does not make me phobic because I have no desire to watch others in that way At no point in my post did I say that not wanting to watch same sex sex would make someone homophobic I was quite clear that I was talking about men who are openly homophobic I can't say I've seen much of that in my many years on fab. Perhaps it's perceived as being but your misreading it? Just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it's not there. I've seen people getting their knickers in a twist or offended over stuff that really was not what they thought many times. I asked if maybe you were perceiving it as being one thing when actually it isn't. Although to be fair double standards on bi play run deep across swinging Clubs for instance only normally accept guys playing with guys on specific nights " So you're saying I'm perceiving things in a way they're not meant while simultaneously making my point for me LOL "Although to be fair double standards on bi play run deep across swinging" I know they do, it's the whole point of my topic! | |||
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"Perhaps your reading too much into it op. I would class as bi I guess as I like women on occasion. My partners have all been straight guys. I've got many bi male friends and trans friends... however sexually I have no interest or attraction to seeing two guys together. To be fair, I don't have any interest in watching 2 women either but I enjoy partaking myself. Does not make me phobic because I have no desire to watch others in that way At no point in my post did I say that not wanting to watch same sex sex would make someone homophobic I was quite clear that I was talking about men who are openly homophobic I can't say I've seen much of that in my many years on fab. Perhaps it's perceived as being but your misreading it? Perhaps the OP is pointing out the hypocrisy of men who like to see girl on girl (ie homosexuality) but react violently negatively to Mano a Mano " | |||
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"It baffles me why, on a NSA sex site, people are so obsessed with who others are fucking or wanting to fuck. It amuses me the amount of statuses stating no bi men. If I didn’t put bi on my profile, how would you know? You’re right though. No status ever says no bi women. Why? Because there’s a still a stigma, where as women have been fetishised. " That last half a sentence is a 1000% correct. Women are fetishised about everything | |||
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"Perhaps your reading too much into it op. I would class as bi I guess as I like women on occasion. My partners have all been straight guys. I've got many bi male friends and trans friends... however sexually I have no interest or attraction to seeing two guys together. To be fair, I don't have any interest in watching 2 women either but I enjoy partaking myself. Does not make me phobic because I have no desire to watch others in that way At no point in my post did I say that not wanting to watch same sex sex would make someone homophobic I was quite clear that I was talking about men who are openly homophobic I can't say I've seen much of that in my many years on fab. Perhaps it's perceived as being but your misreading it? Just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it's not there. I've seen people getting their knickers in a twist or offended over stuff that really was not what they thought many times. I asked if maybe you were perceiving it as being one thing when actually it isn't. Although to be fair double standards on bi play run deep across swinging Clubs for instance only normally accept guys playing with guys on specific nights So you're saying I'm perceiving things in a way they're not meant while simultaneously making my point for me LOL "Although to be fair double standards on bi play run deep across swinging" I know they do, it's the whole point of my topic! " your quite aggressive on here. And no wasn't making your point. I was saying that things can be misconstrued, especially in text. Its very easy to take something out of context x | |||
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"It baffles me why, on a NSA sex site, people are so obsessed with who others are fucking or wanting to fuck. It amuses me the amount of statuses stating no bi men. If I didn’t put bi on my profile, how would you know? You’re right though. No status ever says no bi women. Why? Because there’s a still a stigma, where as women have been fetishised. " I get that there's preference For example a straight woman only wanting to meet straight men, as long as people are respectable they are allowed preferences 100% The issue is when people start making hateful and nasty comments about bi/gay men, and it's even worse when the people making those comments are bi women and/or straight men in relationships with bi women | |||
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"Perhaps your reading too much into it op. I would class as bi I guess as I like women on occasion. My partners have all been straight guys. I've got many bi male friends and trans friends... however sexually I have no interest or attraction to seeing two guys together. To be fair, I don't have any interest in watching 2 women either but I enjoy partaking myself. Does not make me phobic because I have no desire to watch others in that way At no point in my post did I say that not wanting to watch same sex sex would make someone homophobic I was quite clear that I was talking about men who are openly homophobic I can't say I've seen much of that in my many years on fab. Perhaps it's perceived as being but your misreading it? Just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it's not there. I've seen people getting their knickers in a twist or offended over stuff that really was not what they thought many times. I asked if maybe you were perceiving it as being one thing when actually it isn't. Although to be fair double standards on bi play run deep across swinging Clubs for instance only normally accept guys playing with guys on specific nights So you're saying I'm perceiving things in a way they're not meant while simultaneously making my point for me LOL "Although to be fair double standards on bi play run deep across swinging" I know they do, it's the whole point of my topic! your quite aggressive on here. And no wasn't making your point. I was saying that things can be misconstrued, especially in text. Its very easy to take something out of context x" | |||
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"It baffles me why, on a NSA sex site, people are so obsessed with who others are fucking or wanting to fuck. It amuses me the amount of statuses stating no bi men. If I didn’t put bi on my profile, how would you know? You’re right though. No status ever says no bi women. Why? Because there’s a still a stigma, where as women have been fetishised. I get that there's preference For example a straight woman only wanting to meet straight men, as long as people are respectable they are allowed preferences 100% The issue is when people start making hateful and nasty comments about bi/gay men, and it's even worse when the people making those comments are bi women and/or straight men in relationships with bi women " Bi women seems to be cool, fun, everyone’s idea of a perfect party guest (aka “easy”) Bi men seems to provoke different reactions | |||
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"It baffles me why, on a NSA sex site, people are so obsessed with who others are fucking or wanting to fuck. It amuses me the amount of statuses stating no bi men. If I didn’t put bi on my profile, how would you know? You’re right though. No status ever says no bi women. Why? Because there’s a still a stigma, where as women have been fetishised. I get that there's preference For example a straight woman only wanting to meet straight men, as long as people are respectable they are allowed preferences 100% The issue is when people start making hateful and nasty comments about bi/gay men, and it's even worse when the people making those comments are bi women and/or straight men in relationships with bi women Bi women seems to be cool, fun, everyone’s idea of a perfect party guest (aka “easy”) Bi men seems to provoke different reactions" | |||
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