FabSwingers.com forum: Would you or have you

By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Let's keep the threads going of would you or have you added people on the thread to your hotlist. Ohh and would you be naughty with them

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By *ob123456Man
over a year ago

York

your on mine and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have nobody on our hotlist.

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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"your on mine and yes

Thanks xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep on mine xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping a eye out

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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"Keeping a eye out

On ours now x

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

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By *avesalldaysMan
over a year ago

Reading

_oots11 and Hornycouple8423 on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have nobody on our hotlist."
Really hmmmmm

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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"_oots11 and Hornycouple8423 on my hotlist

Thanks xxxx glad you like

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Keeping an eye on this thread already added a few!

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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"Keeping an eye on this thread already added a few!"

Oohh tell us who ????

You now on ours xxx

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Daisy? Yes, yes and yes.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Daisy? Yes, yes and yes.

Ugh. Autocorrect keeps changing your name Daizy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daizy is on mine

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Looking for people to add!

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

I’ll pop in

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

The only people I add to my hot list is people I have met and would meet again.

I have added some to friends list.

Many from the game forum.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Daisy? Yes, yes and yes.

Ugh. Autocorrect keeps changing your name Daizy.

You came of my hotlist ages ago when I got promoted to your friends list!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"You came off my hotlist ages ago when I got promoted to your friends list!

And yet we still haven’t got around to the third part. The being naughty part.

Yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll pop in "

You’re on mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not seen any one here yet that are on ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one so far

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By *RM1968Man
over a year ago

Northallerton

Yes you lol!!!!

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By *RM1968Man
over a year ago

Northallerton

Daisy too

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We have been removing people from our hotlist as they are showing no interest. We fab pictures of folk we find interesting and who may match what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few on here on mine

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"You’re on mine.

And you’re on mine. But I think maybe you knew that already.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We have a few on our hotlist

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We have a few on our hotlist

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By *oftandgentleMan
over a year ago

South London

I only add people that I could or would potentially meet, ie after chatting or local enough etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re on mine.

And you’re on mine. But I think maybe you knew that already.

The question is, what’s a hotlisted person mean to you?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

More than a few on mine! Phew!

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Nope

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Just _dwalu2 upto now.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three profiles from above are on mine

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"The question is, what’s a hotlisted person mean to you? "

That’s a good question. Threads like this tend to show up that it’s different for everyone.

For me, I add someone if I want their photos and updates to show up in my hotlist feed. A bit like following someone on social media. I want to see the stuff you post.

There’s all sorts of reasons I might want that. Maybe you post gorgeous photos. Maybe your status updates make me smile. Maybe I fancy you. Maybe, maybe, maybe …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see me being on any

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Some new ones added from my perv on the way down

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

"Let's keep the threads going of would you or have you added people on the thread to your hotlist. Ohh and would you be naughty with them

Squirtyfun on ours but can't see anyone else many should be lol x

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

A couple of recent posters are on mine

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By *ustyb555Couple
over a year ago

leeds

There is a few on our hotlist !-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The question is, what’s a hotlisted person mean to you?

That’s a good question. Threads like this tend to show up that it’s different for everyone.

For me, I add someone if I want their photos and updates to show up in my hotlist feed. A bit like following someone on social media. I want to see the stuff you post.

There’s all sorts of reasons I might want that. Maybe you post gorgeous photos. Maybe your status updates make me smile. Maybe I fancy you. Maybe, maybe, maybe …

So many possibilities but a surmounting attraction one way or another. Desirability for more whether it be photos, smiles…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple on our hotlist, and yes we would love to get naughty with them.

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By *r N Mrs BobCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes we have !

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

RTG and the knights on mine so far

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes have added and chatted to them too

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By *axFactaMan
over a year ago

Wirral

You're added and..most certainly yes Mxx

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By *axFactaMan
over a year ago

Wirral

You are on mine and, of course Mxx

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"So many possibilities but a surmounting attraction one way or another. Desirability for more whether it be photos, smiles… "

For sure. The more you see someone, the more you talk, the more likely you are to feel some attraction. To let it build. Savour it.

The forums let me get a feel for people. Personalities. Likes and dislikes. Sense of humour. Sensuality, too - it’s often in the way you write after all.

The hotlist lets me keep an eye on their pictures.

Both together is quite a lot go on, really. It works.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"RTG and the knights on mine so far

Bless your big black heart. x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's an ambush

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By *_and_K18Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

On the look out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve added a few on here onto our hotlist x

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By *randmrsnaughty2019Couple
over a year ago

Evesham

Are we on anyones hotlist?

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

"Let's keep the threads going of would you or have you added people on the thread to your hotlist. Ohh and would you be naughty with them

Squirtyfun on ours but can't see anyone else many should be lol x"

Aww thank you your on ours too

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By *ountryfansCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon

We have a few on ours. Not sure we are on many

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By *andB130Couple
over a year ago

northampton

We have a few on ours, nor expecting to be on many others.

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By *more226Man
over a year ago

somewhere wiltshire

"your on mine and yes

Thanks xxxxx "
your hot

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By *layfullMan
over a year ago

wakefield

Without any doubt

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By *cottishguy9Man
over a year ago

North Ayrshire

Yes and absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums let me get a feel for people. Personalities. Likes and dislikes. Sense of humour.

The hotlist lets me keep an eye on their pictures.

Both together is quite a lot go on, really. It works."

So, in short increasing desirability.

Whilst I hear you, it does also seem very single directional. I feel that’s where forums may be disadvantageous. Everyone doesn’t interpret continual interactions the same way. Some may see them as harmless friendly interactions capable of being had with anyone and everyone, others may think only those whom one is keen to get to know is whom one should pay attention to, and loads of in between views too, I’m sure.

Sometimes forums are brilliant though.

They allow people who may otherwise not have come across one another to cross paths innocently. Made only better when those paths cross outside the forums, and a fire is ignited. I reckon many are seeking this same thing, but bidirectionality in this is difficult. Starting a fire, a tough skill by most accounts is difficult enough. But stroking it, keeping it going, and making the fire smouldering hot over and over again is the next level and can be even more difficult. Those who find that are lucky bastards! I do like a burning hot fire in the autumn. Especially when it was first lit on a cool late summer night, and pushed forward into autumn. Propelled mikes ahead blazing hot with passion, desirability, and hunger. One can only hope to keep stroking it into winter when it’s that good a fire.

A bit perplexing I’m sure but I’m also confident there is someone who will understand my allegory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's keep the threads going of would you or have you added people on the thread to your hotlist. Ohh and would you be naughty with them

Definitely now

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

There's one

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