FabSwingers.com forum: Hiding verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone find that if they have verifications shown that men they're not interested in think it's OK to go on those profiles, message you ripping them apart and then message the guys talking shit about you?

I usually keep mine hidden but decided to display them a few weeks ago, since then the amount of men who have messaged asking why I met those guys and not them and then proceeded to pick apart those guys pictures and insult them is

Surely I'm not the only person who has experienced this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a man I haven't experienced it personally but my has on her solo profile. She's even asked why she's with me instead of then. Rude!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a man I haven't experienced it personally but my has on her solo profile. She's even asked why she's with me instead of then. Rude!"

Literally just had someone say that to me!!!

One of my best friends joined and I verified her, she was new to the site so didn't really understand the verification system, and she displayed the verification, the amount of men who were outside of her filter who would then message me asking to put a good word in for them, I had to ask her to hid the verification!

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By *icohxxxMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

That’s because there are too many shallow people on here who think they are gods gift and base everything on looks only.

They don’t understand that some people are on here wanting to explore various experiences with similar minded people which can be more attractive than just looks.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Occasionally I get negative comments about the people I have verifications from.

But usually only after it's already been established that I am utterly uninterested in the person who then makes such comments.

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By *ohemianBristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Does anyone find that if they have verifications shown that men they're not interested in think it's OK to go on those profiles, message you ripping them apart and then message the guys talking shit about you?

Surely I'm not the only person who has experienced this?"

I have a hilariously written review from a meet that women still message me about! I sadly have to forward what I left as a review or else it would just be slander

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes when I was single I've had similar

Ie telling me well you've met so & so ,I'm so much better ,why won't you meet me.

It's not a good look

Miss

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I've 'only' had this twice - where the women for whom I've left a verification have been contacted by (supposedly) resentful men who have taken it upon themselves to villify me.

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By *sianTravellerMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I have always had my verifications on show as it provides a sense of what to expect.

There are people who i have met and have gone off fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t show verifications…

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I haven't had it but one of our meets mentioned being messaged because of her verifications and them people getting messaged, it's super creepy!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t show verifications…"

The topics isn't aimed at you then.

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By *sianTravellerMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"I haven't had it but one of our meets mentioned being messaged because of her verifications and them people getting messaged, it's super creepy!

Mrs "

I have had the same but it sometimes provides a insight of what someone can expect.

It can work in a positive way or a negative way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I haven't had it but one of our meets mentioned being messaged because of her verifications and them people getting messaged, it's super creepy!

Mrs "

I used to be really active on here on an old profile and had a lot of verifications, one of the guys I met messaged me once to ask me to hide the verification because men kept sending him abuse cause I had met him but wouldn't met them.

It's so strange how people think this is normal behaviour

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I haven't had it but one of our meets mentioned being messaged because of her verifications and them people getting messaged, it's super creepy!

Mrs

I have had the same but it sometimes provides a insight of what someone can expect.

It can work in a positive way or a negative way "

It's not ever positive for someone to message you and ask why you've met x y z but you won't met them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That’s because there are too many shallow people on here who think they are gods gift and base everything on looks only.

They don’t understand that some people are on here wanting to explore various experiences with similar minded people which can be more attractive than just looks. "

100%

All the guys I've met look different but the common dominator is that they're kind and respectful

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