FabSwingers.com forum: Fetish and BDSM peeps

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just rejoined a fetish lifestyle website and wondered if there any other people from here on there.

Please look me up and drop me a message if you are.

WolvesGent

Same name as on here.

Let me know your favourite fetishes or BDSM activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be bound then face fucked..

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I'm submissive

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By *ylonlickMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love bdsm and femdom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to be bound then face fucked.."

Very hot

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like a variety of events and impact play

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You'll find me under my fab name!

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

we are also on fet, under the same name. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the other site but still very much a baby fetishist

Trying to find someone I can trust enough to explore is so incredibly difficult

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'm on as, "mindbender."

There's far more kink on Fab, POF and Tinder.

Chat, meet, have a drink, get the ropes out!

On the other site, it's all midweek board games munches and sitting around talking about red flags!

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"we are also on fet, under the same name. xxx

Me too.

same name as on here.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I'm on as, "mindbender."

There's far more kink on Fab, POF and Tinder.

Chat, meet, have a drink, get the ropes out!

On the other site, it's all midweek board games munches and sitting around talking about red flags!"

You're not following the right accounts then

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I'm on as, "mindbender."

There's far more kink on Fab, POF and Tinder.

Chat, meet, have a drink, get the ropes out!

On the other site, it's all midweek board games munches and sitting around talking about red flags!

You're not following the right accounts then

I'm obviously not, but scene is very small up may way, especially for someone of my age!

I love the vibe from your profile.

It's right up my street and I'll take some inspiration from it!

Would you mind if I sent you a PM?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I'm obviously not, but scene is very small up may way, especially for someone of my age!

I love the vibe from your profile.

It's right up my street and I'll take some inspiration from it!

Would you mind if I sent you a PM?

Aberdeen can't be worse than Cumbria. I have to travel a lot to get to any fun events.

Go for it

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I also enjoy this side of the lifestyle.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

Not on the other website. But I am a submissive. Love impact play, pegging, spit play, food play, wax play, cuckolding, watersports and humiliation.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The kink scene is great, enjoy a lot of the events there

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

We are both on the other site, it's where we met

need to get more active on there again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are both on the other site, it's where we met

need to get more active on there again!"

How!?

I find that site so difficult to navigate like how do you even search for people

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"We are both on the other site, it's where we met

need to get more active on there again!

How!?

I find that site so difficult to navigate like how do you even search for people"

How what?

agreed it's bloody awkward. You have to search for location and hope for the best tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are both on the other site, it's where we met

need to get more active on there again!

How!?

I find that site so difficult to navigate like how do you even search for people

How what?

agreed it's bloody awkward. You have to search for location and hope for the best tbh

I meant how did you even manage to find someone you like on there

I tried search by location and gave up. Its such a difficult site to use

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I'm obviously not, but scene is very small up may way, especially for someone of my age!

I love the vibe from your profile.

It's right up my street and I'll take some inspiration from it!

Would you mind if I sent you a PM?

Aberdeen can't be worse than Cumbria. I have to travel a lot to get to any fun events.

Go for it

Yes, you're probably right with that one.

I go to Riga in Latvia regularly.

I can fly there in the same time that it would take me to take the train to Edinburgh!

I look forward to chatting with you!

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

We are on there under two different profiles.

We will look you up and add you.

Like others I find it a bit difficult. We nearly went to a munch last night near where we live, was hoping to find some riggers to give us a bit of guidance. But looked in to see a group sat in a circle like a seance so we just went for a drink instead.

Have a lot of fun at swing events, not that we swing but most clubs have good dungeons that can be put to good use.

We have been to a couple of play events from the other site. Both were good.

Can find the kink community a little cliquey and because we tend to travel out of our local area for events we don’t know anyone else. Swing events we will at least chat to a few other people on the night.

As said we end up in the dungeon at most venues. And at a swing event they don’t tend to get used that much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on fe t too, but more active on here. It seems to be very US orientated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd love to make a few new friends on there.

Please, feel free to send me your names on their if you wouldn't mind me adding you as a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just rejoined a fetish lifestyle website and wondered if there any other people from here on there.

Please look me up and drop me a message if you are.

WolvesGent

Same name as on here.

Let me know your favourite fetishes or BDSM activities.

It is interesting for chat but terrible for meets unless you travel to their socials.

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By *om_Sub69Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Dom_Sub69 is ours on the other site. We would like to watch others / further explore kinks in the BDSM world xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on fe t too, but more active on here. It seems to be very US orientated. "

More "Antarctica" oriented

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

Yes on that site, Hubby had been in the scene for 40 years and he got me into it when we met 8 years ago. Love extreme dressing and full range of BDSM activities, and recently completed our own playroom. The pandemic and breast cancer derailed us but hoping to get back in the swing soon

Unfortunately our profile name contains a banned word on here but hopefully you can figure it out: FuckDollSexSlxxx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I'm on fe t too, but more active on here. It seems to be very US orientated.

More "Antarctica" oriented "

Antarctica is what the site puts if you don't want your location publicly available. I think mine says that until we're officially friends.

I find it excellent for finding events and meeting people there. As long as you get into the relevant to you local groups and actually look there's plenty to be found. And once you know the specific club and event profiles to follow its easy to keep up with what's going on that you want to go to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm on fe t too, but more active on here. It seems to be very US orientated.

More "Antarctica" oriented

Antarctica is what the site puts if you don't want your location publicly available. I think mine says that until we're officially friends.

I'm glad I saw this. I've been seriously contemplating moving to the Antarctic due to all the hot submissives I was envisioning cuddling up to

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we are over there.

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

I used to be on there, but think I lost my account due to inactivity.

As many have said, It should have been a gold mine for likeminded fun and exploration, but the user experience feels rather like being left down a mine with just a book of matches for navigation..

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By *ou SlippsMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Phwoar

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By *ou SlippsMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Hi sexy,love your photos

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Regular kink event at Liberty Elite, first Sunday of each month called Embargo. Check their calendar for details, guestlist only, message the organisers through fet

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By *andJDubaiCouple
over a year ago

Dubai, with visits to Glasgow, Edinburgh and London

These other sites. Do they allow a couples profile but allow you to be more overt in kinks and fetish preferences?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We are both on the other site, it's where we met

need to get more active on there again!

How!?

I find that site so difficult to navigate like how do you even search for people

How what?

agreed it's bloody awkward. You have to search for location and hope for the best tbh

I meant how did you even manage to find someone you like on there

I tried search by location and gave up. Its such a difficult site to use "

Our experience too. We take a peek from time to time but it’s so difficult to get to grips with we always come back here.

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By *e and HerCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

It is difficult

But also very good

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By *ou SlippsMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Would so love to oblige you with that

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By *ou SlippsMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I like to be bound then face fucked.."

Would love to oblige you with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on as SerenRose3 I think?

I find it tricky to navigate but I like reading through the posts.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"We are on there under two different profiles.

We will look you up and add you.

Have a lot of fun at swing events, not that we swing but most clubs have good dungeons that can be put to good use.

We have been to a couple of play events from the other site. Both were good.

As said we end up in the dungeon at most venues. And at a swing event they don’t tend to get used that much

I met some canny people from your neck of the woods at kinkfest last month. In your shoes, I’d try IMPS?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on there a while myself although hardly ever log in as find it tricky to navigate. Which I’ve heard quite a few mention….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a variety of events and impact play

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Cumbria to Yorkshire and vice versa must be viable

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By *ulcanriderMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I like to be bound then face fucked.."

Those tits will look great bound tight xx

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

I just wish I had the internet and had started dressing when I was 20 .

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By *inkyfuckery69Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

CNC ...

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By *ulcanriderMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I was on fet but came of as found it very clique, and even went to a munch to try and make some friends and integrate but was made to feel very unwelcome as i wasnt part of the group !

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By *ulcanriderMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"CNC ... "

Love a bit of cnc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge smoking fetish

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

I enjoy a good many kinks, Daddy, Dom, Sadist and Senualist.. and much more.

Same name add a - at the start

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've been on that site a long time. Have met some lovely people but I find much of the drama there tiresome. Always happy to chat with fellow kinksters

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I love alot of bdsm type play. Definitely want to explore more with the right person

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By *inkymalexdfunTV/TS
over a year ago

teesside

I'd love ti find some one dom in kinky around middlesbrough northeast area xxxx

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I love being sub, into bondage, s&m, spanking, mild cbt, and a few other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get summoned weekly to a lady who uses me for her pleasure. I was working in her house and noticed a couple of kinky toys. Asked the question and she told me she was a dominant.

Can’t keep away

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

I am n there with my fab name. Like others I find it doesn’t work for me. I tend to get better matches on fab. Most of the guys are miles away on there and either just want pictures or want to dominate me remotely. I very much need a more hands on approach. My profile says what I like xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So hate to ask, but what is the name of this fetish page of joy? Could anyone send me a message with the site name please

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

Was on there years ago, unsure of username!!

Tastes have changed, always a sub , but would now liked to be pegged and used by a couple xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on the other site too.

I find it quieter and not as overwhelming with messages etc. There’s a lot of information there but can take a while to find what you’re looking for as it’s more global than here.

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By *ulcanriderMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I love alot of bdsm type play. Definitely want to explore more with the right person "

I enjoy bdsm to from a dom/top point of view, love using impact play, shame we are so far apart x

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By *hank you sirMan
over a year ago

colchester

I love that, such a hot answer

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

I've been on Fet for a while (DolphinFriendly).

It's NOT a hook up / dating site. Yes, it can be difficult to navigate, but once you get your head around it, it's fine.

The munches are fun, but you sometimes need to persevere - keep going back!

There are several kink events & clubs "down south" Hellfires has a couple of kink related nights a month, there is Dark in Southampton, house of Rua at DV8 and O&I at Eurekas, a fair few at House of Poitier in Sutton, to name but a few.

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We're both on there, in fact we met via an event that was organised via that site. Just have to remember it is NOT a hook up site, that's why the search function isn't that great and is designed that way. What it is great for is finding events and some bits of learning too, though the good bits take some finding through all the desperate s type men.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"So hate to ask, but what is the name of this fetish page of joy? Could anyone send me a message with the site name please "

Fetlife. Apparently we’re allowed to say it out loud now.

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

Kinked to the core! Been on FL longer than here

Always looking for new couples or fem subs/Dommes.

Drop us a line kinky’s

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"So hate to ask, but what is the name of this fetish page of joy? Could anyone send me a message with the site name please

Fetlife. Apparently we’re allowed to say it out loud now. "

I got a ban at the weekend for referring to the first 3 letters of the site in a thread, so I would still suggest caution and euphemism.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I like to be bound then face fucked.."

Perfect

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *annabarberaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

"I like to be bound then face fucked.."

Me too

Miss P x

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"We're both on there, in fact we met via an event that was organised via that site. Just have to remember it is NOT a hook up site, that's why the search function isn't that great and is designed that way. What it is great for is finding events and some bits of learning too, though the good bits take some finding through all the desperate s type men. "

Mainly this.

Find events, meet people in real life, become their friends or follow them. You will find out about more events and information and meet more people and be more informed. It is a virtuous circle of friendship and learning but no guarantee of sexual interaction.

People (mainly men) using the site just to hit on submissive or dominant women are likely to be disappointed.

Although there is an increased kink/swing crossover, and an increase in events that are mainly swing orientated, my guess from talking to people, is random hook ups are rare without some personal interaction, genuine knowledge and ability kinkwise, and an interesting personality.

But that is just my view, as these events are not my thing. I prefer classic BDSM events where sex us not the major point. I accept there are other views and preferences.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

I'm on Fet as Estopper. mainly show casing a few of my female images I've taken over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really got into more hardcore fetishes but I’d be happy if I could explore it more with an experienced couple

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

I miss informed consent site from years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried Fet life but found it confusing to be honest

So we decided to take some pictures instead lol

Enjoy all

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