FabSwingers.com forum: What was your first swingers club experience like

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am curious about how people's first swingers experience. I am looking to join Club F, it's got stellar reviews. I am young and black and a bit worried I'd be the odd one out on a first try. LOL

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

It was great

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Our first club experience was awesome, and culminated in Anita popping her Bi cherry and a full swap with another couple.

BUT... Our experience isn't forced to be your experience. Clubs are great fun if you have the right mindset.

Personally I think that the key to having a good time in a club is to NOT make sex your primary goal. If you go and just chat to people, enjoy the experience of social interaction and not "try" to shag everything that moves, opportunities will present themselves.

Cal

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Our first club experience was last June and was great, we met some wonderful people and had some fun

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Our first club experience was awesome, and culminated in Anita popping her Bi cherry and a full swap with another couple.

BUT... Our experience isn't forced to be your experience. Clubs are great fun if you have the right mindset.

Cal"

The last paragraph here is key and so spot on. My first time was with a large group of friends at a social. The openness, the sights, sounds, conversations with folk about all manner of things both normal and sexual. It was a fantastic time and I specifically went there with no thoughts of playing, and found myself meeting people I might not have otherwise which allowed me to return ‘at ease’ again.

Find the right club, remember your manners and all will be well

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By *xxpineapplexxXCouple
over a year ago

Dorking

Ours was a odd experience, it was our first time as a couple and when we got there we was one of 3 couples which was OK but there was about another 20 single males who would not take no for a answer.

Even when we went into a couples only area to escape the constant hounding, multiple single guys would keep opening the doors and trying to enter even when we were telling them no constantly.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Had a meet there. We got followed around by guys wanking. Played with her a couple of times in the private room. Wasn't tempted to return

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We were bricking it and just played with each other in a room on our own.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I am curious about how people's first swingers experience. I am looking to join Club F, it's got stellar reviews. I am young and black and a bit worried I'd be the odd one out on a first try. LOL

My first visit to a swinger club (No.3 Chorley), was quite the anti-climax. All that nervous excitement beforehand, leading up to knocking on the door then going inside, disappeared fairly soon, after I spent what felt like a Sunday afternoon in a working men’s club, rather than what I imagined a Friday night in a swingers club might be. But I gave it a try

I’ve been to several clubs now OP, including Club f, and although no two clubs are the same, what makes any visit is the people you meet inside, and being a solo guy, you are on the back foot. You will have to make all the effort when it comes to speaking to people, no matter what anyone says in here about how friendly and welcoming ‘everyone’ is in clubs.

Club reviews are one way to get a feel for a club, but bear in mind that ‘less than positive’ reviews are frequently removed from these listings, and do look for reviews left by other solo guys

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By *teve691000Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

My first swingers club was 20 years ago at Xtasia with my now X wife. We were both very nervous and green but soon got into the swing of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a long time ago and I honestly can't remember details just that it was A LOT of fun. Went from room to room and was insatiable. I've gotten more selective with age.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Remember mine vividly…. Went to MILF Club at The Vanilla Alternative (VA) on a hot summer’s day in mid June of 2021…

Turned up knowing only one person (a female friend) who introduced me to a few people and I got chatting away. Was splendid chilling totally naked outside with the sun beating down on me. A first for me got ticked off that day too and haven’t looked back since

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Nervous really really really nervous so nervous that I couldn't get it up the girl me and K was playing was absolutely gorgeous but too polite to say anything but had that disappointed look in her eyes

But at least K kept her happy as she said she was amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’d be very popular in any club you went to!

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Ours was a odd experience, it was our first time as a couple and when we got there we was one of 3 couples which was OK but there was about another 20 single males who would not take no for a answer.

Even when we went into a couples only area to escape the constant hounding, multiple single guys would keep opening the doors and trying to enter even when we were telling them no constantly.

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Totally the same experience for us. We went back on a couples/women only night, and it was totally different and we had a great time. After that we have visited half a dozen clubs and great experiences overall. Lesson learnt was to know what is the theme of the night in advance so we attend only when the guests are what we are looking for.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We tried a club in Salou for our first time and it was a bit of an eye opener. Did get followed about for a bit by single guys which we thought was the norm back then.

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By *eeling0880Man
over a year ago

Pennines

My first experience was quite uneventful really. But I was able to see how it all worked and had no expectations of it being anything else. Still was glad I went and had some great times since. Go along talk to people, have no expectations of anything occurring if it does happen then great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only lasted half an hour. It wasn't for me at all.

I tried a different club after that and still not my thing.

I then went to a different style of club down south with a friend. It was a slightly better experience but we left early as being alone in our hotel room was way more fun.

Personally I don't find them sexy or erotic places. I think for the most part they are a bit tacky. I feel I'm often in the minority for this opinion though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I was very young and had an amazing time, meeting and getting to know lots of people.

Don't build it up to be anything significant. Go along just expecting variations on friendly pubs, where you have the chance to show yourself and your friendliness. Just do it and get it out of the way, after you've researched the best place for you and your budget.

Less is more. Don't overthink it. Stay less than getting uncomfortable, if you don't get on with the ONE. Expect just a brief night out.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Mine was back in the late 1980's with the then girlfriend.

Massively eye opening and had a great time. Possibly looking at it through rose tinted glasses but it seemed much nicer back then. Internet wasn't widely used so very much word of mouth and people seemed more genuine.

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

By accident. Was in Berlin we thought it was a normal club it just said club outside we should have realised when we heard no music

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By *heitaliandreamerMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Curiosity can lead us down unexpected paths, and that's precisely what happened to me on the fateful night I stepped into a swinger club for the first time. Intrigued by the allure of an unconventional lifestyle, I embarked on a journey that would forever change my perspective on relationships, friendships, and the boundaries of pleasure. Little did I know that not only would I be introduced to a new world of experiences, but I would also encounter a beautiful lady who would become my trusted friend with benefits.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Our first club visit was Eden in Gran Canaria. We were both quite nervous but we're quickly put at ease by the owners who not only gave us a tour, but took time to both chat with us a few times over the course of the night. Highly recommend.

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