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Swinging- lifestyle or sex

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By *NV14INV OP   Couple
over a year ago

Inverness

We are new to swinging and are confused weather it’s about a social life that could result in sexual satisfaction between whoever else is involved in a solid relationship or is it just about unadulterated sex for mutual pleasure? Obviously there is a place for both.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I mean. That's kind of up to you.

Everyone does things differently. Find people compatible with what works for you and work it out from there.

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By *NV14INV OP   Couple
over a year ago

Inverness


"I mean. That's kind of up to you.

Everyone does things differently. Find people compatible with what works for you and work it out from there."

So you’re saying both reasons but depending on personal choice?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"We are new to swinging and are confused weather it’s about a social life that could result in sexual satisfaction between whoever else is involved in a solid relationship or is it just about unadulterated sex for mutual pleasure? Obviously there is a place for both. "

The answer to that question is yes - some people are here for the social aspect and some purely for the sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do this stuff exactly how you want to.

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By *emptingInDerbyMan
over a year ago

Notts

You do you, it's whatever you want it to be.

Be careful what you ask for on here though. There's always men, women and couples that will fail to understand your wants, take them out of context, or just simply troll you because your views on swinging differ to theirs.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We enjoy both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely depends on what your looking for,for us it’s definitely for sex,we already have what we want in a relationship but as Mrs is bi sexual it would be wrong to deprive her of sex with other women, Mr doesn’t need to be with another woman so this has lead us to being a soft swapping couple predominantly to play with bi sexual women

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Entirely upto you, I wouldn't say it's a lifestyle for us, more a hobby, we dip in and out as we wish, we enjoy the social side as well as the sex.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be lifestyle for me. Now it's just to scratch an itch as I don't have time to invest in anyone

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

For us it's a complete lifestyle as it spills over into everyday life in terms of having a relaxed attitude, being open. giving and welcoming etc. Do we enjoy swinging for sex...yes of course but at some point in the future sex may stop but we will still be swingers.

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By *itman777Man
over a year ago

Inverness

As like everyone on here we are on it for different reasons, most are here for exploring the sexual side of it others for meeting new people and making friends. You do what is best for you, and of course you can stop at anytime when you want to. But talk to each other about what you both want from this and then you can decide what's best for you as a couple.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

It’s what ever you want it to be.

I don’t class myself as a swinger.

I enjoy the clubs whilst I’m single. That’s all.

Each to their own. No hard and fast rules about how you should use the site x

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By *randMrs397Couple
over a year ago

durham

Hopefully ends up being both. But currently more towards the sex side of things.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

It’s a lifestyle for us.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

It's lifestyle for us . It's definitely not lust as we look for that social spark with a couple .

Our attraction is based on other aspects too apart from physical features .

If we can't vibe then we don't play with them.

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By *ibbleboisMan
over a year ago

ascot

The fun of it is make it what you want to, should be no pressure one way or the other to do stuff you're not 100% happy / turned on with - and that's not set in stone either one week lust, next week social..it all works.

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