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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What goes through someone's head when they message you, despite you not being anywhere near the crystal clear description of their type they have put on their profile ...

And when you remind them that you're not their type they tell you "they're willing to make an exception"

Are you supposed to be flattered when someone says that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please excuse any spelling/grammar mistakes

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I just say no thanks and wander off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just say no thanks and wander off."

I just deleted the message tbh

I think they thought I was Asian initially and when I pointed out that I'm not that was the response I got

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's intended as a compliment ie you're so gorgeous that they're willing to make an exception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please excuse any spelling/grammar mistakes "

None detected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few where, I don't think I'm what they're looking for, I reply by telling them why I'm not for them, repeat messages until I block them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's intended as a compliment ie you're so gorgeous that they're willing to make an exception. "

Under normal circumstances I would of taken it that way but knowing what I know about fab it came across as if his type wasn't interested so he had resorted to messaging random people on fab

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I fucking hate this. It makes it seem like said person is doing me a favour, and it's immediately a turn off. Even if I were to meet them, I'd have the constant nag in my head that I'm a consolation prize because Jason Mamoa wasn't available that day.

LvM

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I think it's intended as a compliment ie you're so gorgeous that they're willing to make an exception.

Under normal circumstances I would of taken it that way but knowing what I know about fab it came across as if his type wasn't interested so he had resorted to messaging random people on fab "

It does give a very "Fuck it, you'll do" kind of vibe on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's intended as a compliment ie you're so gorgeous that they're willing to make an exception.

Under normal circumstances I would of taken it that way but knowing what I know about fab it came across as if his type wasn't interested so he had resorted to messaging random people on fab

It does give a very "Fuck it, you'll do" kind of vibe on here."

Yessss that's exactly how I took it!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I delete and block.

Why some men think some women would take that as a compliment baffles me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my favourite meets was actually with someone who did not fall into any of my likes physically.

I contacted them. After a bit over a week of chatting, they pointed out they didn’t meet any of my “requirements”. I told them, they are my exception. I loved their personality and the way we communicated was so fun and carefree. They were very hot as well just didn’t have the hair of my preference.

What did I discover? Our connection goes deeper than some others I’ve had with someone who does meet all my “requirements”. They make me tingle, throb, and speaking wet in a way that not many can achieve. We laugh like two silly teens together. We are so well in sync it’s mad!

If they had told me, listen lady you clearly can’t be into me as I don’t meet your extensive and exhaustive list of wants, we’d never have been where we are. The things I didn’t want in a person that they have, aren’t things that I like in others. It’s them that makes me forget about these things because they are exceptional even without meeting all my requirements. They excel in so many other ways which allow me to not focus on the bits I typically seek.

I certainly hope I’ve not given them a “fuck it, anyone will do” feel as I truly fancy the pants off them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fucking hate this. It makes it seem like said person is doing me a favour, and it's immediately a turn off. Even if I were to meet them, I'd have the constant nag in my head that I'm a consolation prize because Jason Mamoa wasn't available that day.

LvM"

Agree with this totally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of my favourite meets was actually with someone who did not fall into any of my likes physically.

I contacted them. After a bit over a week of chatting, they pointed out they didn’t meet any of my “requirements”. I told them, they are my exception. I loved their personality and the way we communicated was so fun and carefree. They were very hot as well just didn’t have the hair of my preference.

What did I discover? Our connection goes deeper than some others I’ve had with someone who does meet all my “requirements”. They make me tingle, throb, and speaking wet in a way that not many can achieve. We laugh like two silly teens together. We are so well in sync it’s mad!

If they had told me, listen lady you clearly can’t be into me as I don’t meet your extensive and exhaustive list of wants, we’d never have been where we are. The things I didn’t want in a person that they have, aren’t things that I like in others. It’s them that makes me forget about these things because they are exceptional even without meeting all my requirements. They excel in so many other ways which allow me to not focus on the bits I typically seek.

I certainly hope I’ve not given them a “fuck it, anyone will do” feel as I truly fancy the pants off them. "

If someone, male or female, messaged me and on their profile it specified a 1) a race, that wasn't my race. 2) a body type/shape that wasn't my body type/shape. 3) a height that wasn't my height. Then I would absolutely get the vibe of "fuck it you will do" as I am very very clearly not what they are/were looking for

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley


"What goes through someone's head when they message you, despite you not being anywhere near the crystal clear description of their type they have put on their profile ...

And when you remind them that you're not their type they tell you "they're willing to make an exception"

Are you supposed to be flattered when someone says that?"

It’s easier to do it online than in person, there are no real consequences, if you rejected them face to face decent chance they’d be embarrassed.

Alternatively arrogance, like blokes who think they can “ turn lesbians onto cock”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I have tried this before, and every other "trick in the book". They all failed.

Its very easy to me misread.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"What goes through someone's head when they message you, despite you not being anywhere near the crystal clear description of their type they have put on their profile ...

And when you remind them that you're not their type they tell you "they're willing to make an exception"

Are you supposed to be flattered when someone says that?"

I'd say it's smells of desperation on their behalf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What goes through someone's head when they message you, despite you not being anywhere near the crystal clear description of their type they have put on their profile ...

And when you remind them that you're not their type they tell you "they're willing to make an exception"

Are you supposed to be flattered when someone says that?

I'd say it's smells of desperation on their behalf "

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby


"I think it's intended as a compliment ie you're so gorgeous that they're willing to make an exception.

Under normal circumstances I would of taken it that way but knowing what I know about fab it came across as if his type wasn't interested so he had resorted to messaging random people on fab

It does give a very "Fuck it, you'll do" kind of vibe on here."

Definitely would take it that way aswell.

I wouldn't be flattered nor convinced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fucking hate this. It makes it seem like said person is doing me a favour, and it's immediately a turn off. Even if I were to meet them, I'd have the constant nag in my head that I'm a consolation prize because Jason Mamoa wasn't available that day.

LvM"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What goes through someone's head when they message you, despite you not being anywhere near the crystal clear description of their type they have put on their profile ...

And when you remind them that you're not their type they tell you "they're willing to make an exception"

Are you supposed to be flattered when someone says that?

It’s easier to do it online than in person, there are no real consequences, if you rejected them face to face decent chance they’d be embarrassed.

Alternatively arrogance, like blokes who think they can “ turn lesbians onto cock”"

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

We get it a lot. From people that are not / or won't meet smokers.

We just pass them by with a polite thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my favourite meets was actually with someone who did not fall into any of my likes physically.

I contacted them. After a bit over a week of chatting, they pointed out they didn’t meet any of my “requirements”. I told them, they are my exception. I loved their personality and the way we communicated was so fun and carefree. They were very hot as well just didn’t have the hair of my preference.

What did I discover? Our connection goes deeper than some others I’ve had with someone who does meet all my “requirements”. They make me tingle, throb, and speaking wet in a way that not many can achieve. We laugh like two silly teens together. We are so well in sync it’s mad!

If they had told me, listen lady you clearly can’t be into me as I don’t meet your extensive and exhaustive list of wants, we’d never have been where we are. The things I didn’t want in a person that they have, aren’t things that I like in others. It’s them that makes me forget about these things because they are exceptional even without meeting all my requirements. They excel in so many other ways which allow me to not focus on the bits I typically seek.

I certainly hope I’ve not given them a “fuck it, anyone will do” feel as I truly fancy the pants off them.

If someone, male or female, messaged me and on their profile it specified a 1) a race, that wasn't my race. 2) a body type/shape that wasn't my body type/shape. 3) a height that wasn't my height. Then I would absolutely get the vibe of "fuck it you will do" as I am very very clearly not what they are/were looking for "

I hear you and equally get annoyed when people message me stating they aren’t my type but…

I was simply offering a situation where things turned out different. It’s not that their race or body type isn’t to my taste. It started out as friendly chat inspired by something else. It developed into an intrigue for the person.

Perhaps I’m odd. It’s definitely a first for me and if anyone had told me I’d do this, I’d have PMSL, but yet here I am. Enjoying them fully every day.

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