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Paid fun vs Swinging ?

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By *ogerroger69 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

I’ve enjoyed paid fun alongside swinging meets for many years now. Any other people experienced this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I don't think swinging should involve any payment at all. Sharing hotel costs or travel expenses maybe if someone needs that kind of arrangement.

But other than that swinging should just be for fun.

If you want payments go open an OF or AW account.

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By *ogerroger69 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

They’re separate but both fun x

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By *andyman4uanddiscreetMan
over a year ago

oxford

I think paid fun is the way to go as finding like minded adults for fun is very hard in the so called swinging world, its full of fantasists at least if you pay you know what your getting

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By *ave HighlandMan
over a year ago

Inverness

I really enjoy paid fun. Especially that you get to have sex with women who wouldn’t look at you normally but have to for the cash.

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

2 compleately different things

just from our point of view you cant get what we get from swinging from a sexworker its impossible but if you like many men on here think swinging is about sex on a plate / empty balls sex then i can see a comparison but thats 100% not swinging not remotly close hence the 2 being compleately different.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

Braintree

I’ve paid a few times in the past, but it’s not for me.

To quote Jurassic Park...

“He doesn’t wanna be fed, he wants to hunt”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 compleately different things

just from our point of view you cant get what we get from swinging from a sexworker its impossible but if you like many men on here think swinging is about sex on a plate / empty balls sex then i can see a comparison but thats 100% not swinging not remotly close hence the 2 being compleately different.

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This

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By *p coupleCouple
over a year ago

near colchester

think paid is fine if its something you really want as you dont always get that swinging

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"2 compleately different things

just from our point of view you cant get what we get from swinging from a sexworker its impossible but if you like many men on here think swinging is about sex on a plate / empty balls sex then i can see a comparison but thats 100% not swinging not remotly close hence the 2 being compleately different.

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So true, we have seen many a person go to a club then start having a strop cos can't get anywhere but then don't even try at all.

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

I was on a stag do in Amsterdam and paid for a worker (when in Rome) It didn't do anything for me, I can understand people enjoy the power thing. But I'm a bit hippy dippy and belive in free love etc I also have to have some connection with a person.

Was given a 30 minute slot

"I'm wet just looking at you" err no you prelubed while I was in the shower.

"Oooo your cock is sooo big" it's average

"Oooo I'm cumming" no you're faking it

"Youre the best I've ever had, come back and see me tomorrow" yes I probably am but am going hole tomorrow sorry.

Thing is other people on the stag do actually believed this! Oh I made her come! No she was faking it! I can always tell! No really you can't!

It's just not for me

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Paid fun is what someone else said wham bam thank you man I do it even now as a back up to not meting anyone of here but meeting someone on here you go f the distance.

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

Its about mutual desire for me.

Pay as you go isnt that.

Id not like to be indured.

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By *teve691000Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Paid for is cold. The woman doesn’t find you attractive she just wants your money. Where’s the fun in that. Swinging is a little like going out on the pull. You’ve got the thrill of the chase and when it comes to it mutual attraction.

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

It's not always crap when you pay lol. It's about (just like on here) picking the right person. The ridiculous thing is that clients are often do much better than fab meets, makes no sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

I’ve paid in the past and had a really fun time. Mostly that’s been with couples though. I’ve also had meets on here that have felt like transactional sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the situation i suppose for me making a film with an older woman seems like an aw situation but it something i certainly want to do at some point

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

I could never pay, it’s just not my thing. I wouldn’t even pay for a lap dance when on a stag weekend. If they’re having to fake it I wouldn’t get anything out of it at all. Obviously I’m not talking about faking orgasms, I imagine they’ve all had to do that…..

I’d rather have a quick wank and get on with my day.

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