FabSwingers.com forum: What is swinging????

By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Matlock

So..... We've been on the site for around 14 years, we've had all sorts of meets, socials, one on one, private parties, group socials, club meets, but what is swinging?

The amount of messages that say "want to fuck?" is not a turn on. Clubs.... Too many single guys just hoping to get a fuck, parties, they don't happen enough, we think this is proper swinging, not the whole keys in a bowl but sits more comfortable with us, however like going to a club, it's very sexy. Oh the questions

Thoughts people. What is swinging to you????,

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

It’s deviance from monogamy

Suspension from the norm x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Swapping partners and group play?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's what the individual wants it to be. I don't think anyone can tell others how they should do it

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

"It's what the individual wants it to be. I don't think anyone can tell others how they should do it

Well sed

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

In some cases not what others perceive

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By *oyInTheSquareMileWoman
over a year ago

Central London

Bum on here, maybe stand back a bit to get you going... Then you put your legs fowards like this and bend them back at the knees like that...

Can be done standing up or with ropes if you're feeling adventurous...

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

How hard is it for single guys at clubs ? Is the best way to mingle without any expectation ?

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By *izzmonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's obviously different things for different people but for us it's about pushing boundaries and exploring sexuality in ways that wouldn't be possible without the help of others. Ultimately though it's hot horny fun

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By *ankman69Man
over a year ago

WILLENHALL

Swinging to me is whatever you and the people your with feel comfortable with or doing, the where when and how is up to the people involved

In the past I have live out fantasy’s with couples and singles abd we have all enjoyed the experience

And it should be fun

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By *hakespears SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Swinging is a very broad definition of consensual non-monogamy - which can come in as many different flavours as there are swingers out there.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Well put x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s deviance from monogamy

Suspension from the norm x"

Not necessarily I think exhibitionism and voyeurism, dress up, flirt sex chat with couples, having sex with your partner around others in a club or party is swinging for sure- add spice and adventure to a marriage within monogamy, works for us!

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Whatever works for you x

Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what you make of it, kind of a title where anything goes with consent

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By *hakespears SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

"It’s deviance from monogamy

Suspension from the norm x

Not sure I agree with this. If we’re going to be pedantic, I would say what you describe is certainly what the Americans would call ‘in the Lifestyle’ - which actually I prefer - but it isn’t swinging, which is non-monogamous.

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Matlock

Interesting reading on your thoughts and personal preferences, we enjoy all sorts of meets, just like to hear other people's opinions. Everyone has their own thoughts, as long as everyone enjoys it. Xx

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

i think op knows what swinging is...

its more like the majority of folk on here arent true swingers, as op said just users looking for a fuck.

to an extent you can kinda tell from some of the usernames there not real swingers be it males, females or couples...

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Matlock

"i think op knows what swinging is...

its more like the majority of folk on here arent true swingers, as op said just users looking for a fuck.

to an extent you can kinda tell from some of the usernames there not real swingers be it males, females or couples...

Yes, it seems like it's "tinder" sometimes. But we enjoy what we do and just tell the randoms who ask for a fuck to puss off.

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