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By *obthecameraguy OP Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Hi all you lovely fabbers. I have a question which I'm not sure how to fully explain

I have recently been getting into watching and researching men being dominated by a dominatrix. Which really turns me on imagining myself being in that situation...

But is there a beginners type/style I can try out to see if I like it? I wouldn't want to go into pain too much, or is there not really a low ground?

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

They have a long chat with you first x

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn

Find a dominatrix and explain what you want. You set the boundaries and limits.

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

Biggest miss conception of bdsm is who is actually in charge.

The sub is actually in charge with providing a long list of their likes, limits, hard limits, and a safe word or red,amber,green approach.

The dominant is taking full control within the session within those boundaries.

Communication is the number 1 rule and unlike most porn you don’t start at the extreme scale with any sexual experience you understand what you like and push limits etc.

There is a well know bdsm site/community that is great for newbies and seasoned pros alike

Enjoy and good luck

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Very well said

In the window of time they spend together it’s an illusion that the domme is in charge

But the sub/client has chosen to be subjected to and to submit this behaviour

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