FabSwingers.com forum: Advice?

By *oneybee1001 OP Woman
over a year ago

North West

For those of you who have been on here a while, what bit of advice would you give to a new FABber?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Reexamine your expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never check fab at 3am, it's full of horned up silhouettes who want to steal your women.

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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

The only advice i would dare to offer is simple, Have NO expectations and be resilient

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Be afraid be very afraid

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

To think about what you want and talk before you even sign up. Too many not knowing what they like or being open minded, but actually not.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Be honest with others and yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write every message as if you’re speaking in person.

Be respectful and honest

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Start by going to clubs and use Fab to stay in touch with people you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the forums and posting up pics,engage in as many messages as possible even if you politely refuse

If your messaging a profile of interest read it!

Patients is needed and don’t become desperate

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

People here are not just a cock or a pussy. Engage with the people, not with their genitals.

Also, consider deeply what people want, rather than what you want, so you can focus on finding a match for both, not just for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get stuck in with the forums and meet new people. And don’t expect meets right out the gate, if you’re a single guy just be you’re genuine self and you will stand out.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"For those of you who have been on here a while, what bit of advice would you give to a new FABber?

Don't take negative comments to heart.

Join in as you see fit in forums but try not to engage if it makes you annoyed

Dont post a forum topic of "its not fair, I deserve the sex"

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest with others and yourself.

This...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Don't expect anything, anything above that is a bonus.

Make some profile effort.

Mrs

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By *oneybee1001 OP Woman
over a year ago

North West

My advice would be to be your authentic self, don't pretend to be dead popular or interesting if you're not!

If you're lively (I'm guilty of that) then show it in your profile, conversely, if you're miserable and negative - let that shine through, no surprises then! There's enough folk on here for connections to be made ... and you soon get found out if you're pretending to be something you're not.

Similarly, don't take it too bloody seriously! It's a fuck site, most folk aren't here to find the love of their life, they're here for Mr/Miss right now (or maybe tomorrow night)

Basically take it all with a pinch of salt, have fun with it and ignore the haters, life is far too bloody short!

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