FabSwingers.com forum: Question...

By *ostelxxx OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have a question right? Im a 27 old lad and every woman in their profile are looking for fun, and if youre mesaging and tell them youre up for that why they dont want or reply back? Whats the problem? Im so fucking ugly? I need some opinions about that... Thanks everyoane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The approach maybe. Yes it's a site hat sex can and does happen on but not everyone wants a fuck and go or to just merely scratch an itch because they can.

Profiles will show what they're looking for and how they like to proceed. Make sure you match what they want.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

"I have a question right? Im a 27 old lad and every woman in their profile are looking for fun, and if youre mesaging and tell them youre up for that why they dont want or reply back? Whats the problem? Im so fucking ugly? I need some opinions about that... Thanks everyoane

Your profile is lacking content, however we'll done for no dick pic in public photos

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By *ostelxxx OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Thanks

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By *ostelxxx OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Its not that, i dont want just fuck and go? I want fuck buddy, we can have fun more often, just on the weekends, fuck partner im up for everything not just fuck and go

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

You have to do more than just say you're looking for sex. Most women here won't shag a guy just because you are looking for sex. They need to actually connect with you. You have to show you can hold a conversation and would be enjoyable to get to know to some degree. If you don't engage a woman's mind, most of the time you won't get anywhere.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

"You have to do more than just say you're looking for sex. Most women here won't shag a guy just because you are looking for sex. They need to actually connect with you. You have to show you can hold a conversation and would be enjoyable to get to know to some degree. If you don't engage a woman's mind, most of the time you won't get anywhere. "

So so true

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You're not ugly.

It takes a while for single men to establish themselves though. Be selective about who you contact and don't go straight in asking for sex.

What are your expectations, how soon to you hope to meet after messaging?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

When people message us the 1st thing we do is look at their profile, if there's not much on it to guage if we'd be a good fit we wouldn't respond.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If all someone is offering is undefined 'fun,' I'm not going to be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP,

As others have said, Bit more info in Your Profile (What You're looking for ie; social/fb/fwb) and it takes time..

FAB (usually) isn't a Greetings message then condom on straightaway place, us single guys have to work at it as there's a load more guys than ladies here and You have to put some effort in (make a couple of comments based on the profile and keep an eye out for "secret" words but even then that's not a promise of chat/social/sex )

Not having a cock pic in public view is sometimes a good move as then You've got that for if they ask for it..

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By *ostelxxx OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Even if you do that they dont care

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By *ostelxxx OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Im trying to arrange a meeting with womens with 2 3 days before but nothing

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By *ostelxxx OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Guys dont try tk explain me how is working with womens, i try IT everything with womens, nice Way naughty ways îs not working nothing, i Will quit this website because its a site full of nonsense people, everyoane îs looking for fun and stuff like that but when îs about to arrange a meeting or something nobody îs replying so IT sucks this website... Thanks for empty advices... If i Will meet a women and have fun together for long period of. Time i Will say its ok and worth IT till then îs just nonsense

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

" i Will quit this website because its a site full of nonsense people"

Bye then, but you didn't really need to announce your departure, Fab isn't an airport or train station.

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

It’s all about numbers, women have thousands to pick from on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys dont try tk explain me how is working with womens, i try IT everything with womens, nice Way naughty ways îs not working nothing, i Will quit this website because its a site full of nonsense people, everyoane îs looking for fun and stuff like that but when îs about to arrange a meeting or something nobody îs replying so IT sucks this website... Thanks for empty advices... If i Will meet a women and have fun together for long period of. Time i Will say its ok and worth IT till then îs just nonsense "

Not really gunna help your case meeting anyone anywhere , you’re not going to be everyone’s type but a good personality will get you a lot further. Throwing your toys out the pram will not help though. Swinging is a lifestyle it’s not just quick sex

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Just because someone is on fab doesn't mean that they're looking to shag anyone and everyone who asks.

Just like in the real world, they have to be interested in you and fancy you enough to want to do so.

Lower your expectations and drop the entitled attitude

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

" i Will quit this website because its a site full of nonsense people

Bye then, but you didn't really need to announce your departure, Fab isn't an airport or train station. "

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

It's how you approach them I'd say

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

You have been in Fab for 3 weeks and not had sex with any women yet? That's almost unheard of.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You're not ugly at all op ,but you won't be for everyone,none of us will.

You'll be too young for some ,others don't meet smokers etc.

Your profile doesn't say much about what you offer meets and what you're into ,so maybe expand a bit on that .Most women won't reply if they don't like the person's profile .

Always read a profile & only message if you think you could be what they're after ie age ,location,smoker.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you’ve been on the site for a short period of time, and because you haven’t got laid then the people are nonsensical ? It does beg the question as to why, if you’re going to be such a catch, you’re even on here - I presume that you’re having to beat women off with a stick.

You asked an interesting question about whether you are ugly. Assuming that wasn’t rhetorical, then “beauty” isn’t just the outside of a person, it’s the person’s attitude and personality also contributes to how attractive they are.

You asked for input, then with this message appear to impolitely and in a very derogatory fashion dismiss the very input you asked for. In doing that the impression here is that of narcissism and entitlement, and those are unattractive/ugly traits - so perhaps in some respects you might be considered ugly.

Please excuse us - we need to find a dark, quiet room to help us recover from the trauma that you are considering leaving this site because it “sucks” and will therefore be depriving so many of the blessing of you deigning to allow them to have sex with you.

“Hearts are breaking all over the world”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be to young for them or your not what there looking for. Karen

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Think he’s answered his own question tbh

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