FabSwingers.com forum: What do people mean when they say 'open minded' on here?

By *ubyMoon OP Woman
over a year ago

Newport, Isle of Wight

It's the most common phrase I see in messages but I'm never sure what exactly they're open about. Open minded like... would meet anyone? Any gender? Married? Lots of questions...

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By *ereFlix75Man
over a year ago

Hitchin

"It's the most common phrase I see in messages but I'm never sure what exactly they're open about. Open minded like... would meet anyone? Any gender? Married? Lots of questions..."

I keep it simple as I'd play with another man in the right situation; a quick wank/suck never hurt anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the most common phrase I see in messages but I'm never sure what exactly they're open about. Open minded like... would meet anyone? Any gender? Married? Lots of questions..."

Generally means that nothing will shock them, and open to suggestions. Not always the case. Lol

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By *ack201895Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I usually think of it as open to kinks, or at least they won't react badly to them if it's not for them.

I imagine the crowd a swinging site attracts are all pretty open minded anyway though

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By *emptingInDerbyMan
over a year ago

Notts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have guys saying they are open minded until I mention a few things and suddenly they are not so open.

I guess it all depends on their baseline of open mindedness is.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

In our experience open minded people are not so open minded at all. We are open minded within reason.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I usually only see that term in a sort of weird attempt to shame me for not being into whatever they're vomiting into my inbox.

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By *oconaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Texas

People are open minded, until they’re not…At some point, along the fantasy and reality axis, the two values will diverge. This is precisely the point when a person might stop using the phrase, “open minded”.

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By *ad_buddiesCouple
over a year ago

London

We've met a few that claimed to be but circumstances proved otherwise.

Our interpretation is someone that will try anything once before rejecting it

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It's a very subjective term, meaning different things to different people, so I would take it cautiously and expect only a very limited degree of open mindedness.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I think it's one of the pointless filler words for fab bios personally

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably that they're not judgemental of others choices. I don't really know

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"I have guys saying they are open minded until I mention a few things and suddenly they are not so open. "

Oh my. Enquiring minds need to know. Don’t worry, I’m open-minded….

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

It usually means they can't think about what they actually like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It usually means they can't think about what they actually like"

Yeah I’d say it’s this. You can’t think of what you like so it’s a way of saying you’re open to ideas and suggestions.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I’d define it as not being judgmental about others choices. It doesn’t mean that they will do anything but won’t react in a negative way to something that isn’t for them.

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