FabSwingers.com forum: Looking for advice / guidance.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good evening everyone, I'm after some help. Is there a secret to getting some acknowledgement on this site? I don't seem to be getting anywhere. I send messages to people I'm interested in or in response to requests but I ended just being deleted. I'm always polite and courteous but it gets me nowhere. Does my profile give out red flags, or am I just that much of a lost cause?

Any insights or advice would greatly appreciated, thank you in advance.

By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I think you’ve been a bit too honest in your profile. This might be a bit of a cold hearted thing to say, but I’m sure you appreciate honest feedback, you pretty much describe yourself as someone who is exactly the opposite to what the majority of women on here are looking for.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good evening everyone, I'm after some help. Is there a secret to getting some acknowledgement on this site? I don't seem to be getting anywhere. I send messages to people I'm interested in or in response to requests but I ended just being deleted. I'm always polite and courteous but it gets me nowhere. Does my profile give out red flags, or am I just that much of a lost cause?

Any insights or advice would greatly appreciated, thank you in advance."

My advice;

If you don’t match what women are looking for aesthetically….they won’t be interested.

But keep trying because someone is out there and don’t dwell on those that don’t want you or don’t message you back!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God knows mate. I've sent all types of messages dirty and nice and tried sending pics and tried not sending pics and it doesn't really make a lick of difference. Just experiment with different types of messages, pictures and profiles I suppose.

I have noticed that women get a RIDICULOUS amount of messages compared to men. Too many to read in one sitting so most messages either go unread or deleted. Just have to keep experimenting and trying.

By *ysonfuryMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Hi profile doesn't look too bad maybe add a few more pictures. It's been said many times single guys outnumber couples and single ladies massively. I'd just say be polite when you message. If it looks like you have any common interest mention those. Dont get down hearted if you don't get response. We all get knockbacks. A local social event is always a good place to meet people and get to know them. There are lots of nice people out there so keep plugging away and good luck with the fab adventure