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Losing sensation after drinking

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By *ornyal138 OP   Man
over a year ago

bromley kent

Hey after any advice or tips please. My other half tends to get her horny libido once we have been out drinking. Now I’ve never had an issue getting and staying hard but it simply takes forever to cum regardless of position.

This can result in her having a great time and multiple orgasms but then getting too sore.

Any help would be appreciated. Thank you x

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

I love my alcohol. Drink most night. Husband incourages it as I am hornier and more sexually active because of the alcohol. X

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By *ornyal138 OP   Man
over a year ago

bromley kent

Totally agree with that from a woman’s perspective but I want to enjoy it too and cum with her

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

I think the only advice would be for you to drink slightly less. Maybe swap every other for a soft drink or water.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Drink less when out op so you can keep your edge going easier

Alcohol affects the body so it’s a given in most men it will delay orgasm

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By *ornyal138 OP   Man
over a year ago

bromley kent

Thank you

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Sorry to hear that OP. Alcohol affects people differently. For me (Mr.) I don't lose sensation, but makes recovery time until hard again much longer, and not as hard, so I tend to cut down on alcohol when going out swinging.

Of course, drinking less on the day you go out is great advice, but alcohol effects build up during the week so reducing alcohol or even go sober the days before you plan to go out will help.

And if you find it's too late in the night, or socially difficult to cut down on your drinks (peer pressure) and you have already drank too much, then communicate with your partner, let her tell you when she's getting close to be sore even if she's enjoying it, and at that point see if she can help you finish with mouth or hand, etc.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Ben definitely lasts longer after four or five pints and I’m definitely hornier after alcohol.

A lot of our spontaneous meets have come at the end of a night out. I definitely lose my inhibitions

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Am I missing something?

The obvious answer is to drink less

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I’m the exact same . Have to drink a hell of a lot to not get hard but once I’ve had only a bit to drink can never finish

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By *ornyal138 OP   Man
over a year ago

bromley kent

Accept it’s the alcohol and to drink less but at end of night there is no guarantee sex is on the tables so to speak.

Didn’t know if any lotions or interesting positions to try to help ?

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