FabSwingers.com forum: Defeated ?

By *ubman50 OP Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Just curious to what others think or have experienced on this site.

If you have been looking for something peticular but haven't found it, how long did you search before you gave up looking?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

The experience changes at times from chatting to meeting whether sexually or become bff to fwb but it is what it is

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I find that if I'm trying to find someone to fit into a little box for a fantasy then I'm not actually into or appreciating the person. And I can understand why that wouldn't appeal to people.

So I guess it depends on just what you're looking for OP.

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By *ubman50 OP Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I find that if I'm trying to find someone to fit into a little box for a fantasy then I'm not actually into or appreciating the person. And I can understand why that wouldn't appeal to people.

So I guess it depends on just what you're looking for OP."

I've been looking to be a sub/ cuck to either a fem or a couple for quite some time now but had no luck so was just thinking its time to admit defeat and give up looking

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

please polease dont take this the wrong way but you've labeled yourself a cuck ;ooking for a woman or a couple but that is not how cuckold works so people are not reacting to be a cuck you need to be in a real relationship in the first place you cant be a cuck without the relationship.

if i was looking for a cuckold relationship from the start i would advertise my self as a sub guy looking for female led relationships or femdom and try and work my way to the cuckold lifestyle the main problem is for you is that there are 1000s of wannabe cucks or subs with very few women looking yes that same old men out do women by stupid numbers.

i see myself very very lucky to have met my wife all those years ago alot of men just will never experience it tho want it wish you all the luck in the world.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I find that if I'm trying to find someone to fit into a little box for a fantasy then I'm not actually into or appreciating the person. And I can understand why that wouldn't appeal to people.

So I guess it depends on just what you're looking for OP.

I've been looking to be a sub/ cuck to either a fem or a couple for quite some time now but had no luck so was just thinking its time to admit defeat and give up looking"

What have you been doing to try and find this OP?

Given the huge volume of subby men seeking FLRs it's not easy to stand out even if you do look in the right places. So what do you offer or present that makes you more worthy of attention than the 200 others in the inbox of any remotely dominant presenting woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just looking for good banter with someone im attracted to that leads to great sex now n then, years ago when I 1st joined the quality of guys was great (no offence) chat and banter was brilliant and often led to great meets nowadays I feel my inbox consists of cock pics, hi messages from picless profiles or guys just wanting to tell me what they wanna do to me without actually chatting and finding out if thats what I like, gave up looking about a year ago.

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By *ubman50 OP Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I find that if I'm trying to find someone to fit into a little box for a fantasy then I'm not actually into or appreciating the person. And I can understand why that wouldn't appeal to people.

So I guess it depends on just what you're looking for OP.

I've been looking to be a sub/ cuck to either a fem or a couple for quite some time now but had no luck so was just thinking its time to admit defeat and give up looking

What have you been doing to try and find this OP?

I dont know if i offer any more or less than any other submissive guy on here but when i do message or get lucky enough to chat i try to be honest and explain about my ED problem and offer myself to be completly submissive and willing to serve in anyway they wished

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

"Just curious to what others think or have experienced on this site.

If you have been looking for something peticular but haven't found it, how long did you search before you gave up looking?

Mix and match but overall came across some amazing folks..

Maybe it is what are you looking for or other do? How did you approach search for specific people/person?

Prior to approaching, do you think they are looking for something similiar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife found some great regulars, I am still looking and our couples profile soon we will see.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I dont know if i offer any more or less than any other submissive guy on here but when i do message or get lucky enough to chat i try to be honest and explain about my ED problem and offer myself to be completly submissive and willing to serve in anyway they wished

But they all offer 'complete submission.' Often with no apparent interest in what the Domme actually wants in a sub, just a list of what gets them off. Do you seek out actually compatible D types and make an effort to get to know them first or jump straight to the ED and what you want to get out of them?

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