FabSwingers.com forum: Bisexual for fun?

By *oneybee1001 OP Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

I've seen people change their sexual orientation from straight to bisexual and yo yo between these two. Can you be part-time bi? Or is it just something women put to attract guys? Maybe appear a lot more interesting than they are?

I've wonderful friends, in real life, who are definitely bisexual and they say no to this question, what's the view of FABber?

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

Hetro-flexibility - a sexual orientation or situational sexual behavior characterized by minimal homosexual activity in an otherwise primarily heterosexual orientation, which may or may not distinguish it from bisexuality.

Some call bi playfull

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think you can be a "part time bi" but I do think there's times when your more interested in one gender over the other, it could just mean they have no desire to meet with that gender at that time so changed it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi, occasionally attracted to the same sex as me, mostly the opposite sex, females obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely bi sexual, since coming out I won’t be pretending to be straight or hiding from the fact I find women attractive

Life changing and not to be played with in my opinion

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By *oneybee1001 OP Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

"Definitely bi sexual, since coming out I won’t be pretending to be straight or hiding from the fact I find women attractive

Life changing and not to be played with in my opinion

Yeah I think I'm with you on this, bisexual is different to bicurious. I find it curious that folk don't seem to understand that sexuality isn't a choice. I think that some women think it'll make men find them more attractive if they think that MFFs are a desired option - when in reality, it's something they'll just 'do' to appear more fun lol!

I can understand someone being straight and then bisexual, but not going back to straight again when the bloke they're interested in bins them off

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've seen this too op and wondered about it .couples have the woman as straight,yet their veries and pics suggests otherwise.

I assumed some women were fab straight ,as some men are .

I do agree that some ladies will put bi curious to make them appeal more ,I've seen people in the past say they have on the forums .

I think many couples will list her as bi curious,maybe driven by the man's wants/desires.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I am bi, but sometimes i just want to focus on one sex rather than be open to all. Im fickle like that. Lol

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I started as Bi-curious but I have always found women attractive, just when I joined here I'd not had experience hence the bi-curious. Then I had my first experience in a FFM and I loved it. So possibly my whole life I've been bisexual but never acted on it. Mrs M x

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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

Why do we need specific gender box's we have to tick would it not make more sense for FAB to simply have a box saying flexible or no specific

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my opinion is being bi is not something you can turn on and off and those that switch their profiles from straight to bi and back again are in my eyes chancers and liars,most people I know now know that I am bi and I will not hide the fact but that doesnt make me a cockmonster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bisexual and have been for almost 40 years it's not something I change on my profile it's always been bi.

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By *otsMan
over a year ago

Higham

I'm bi but don't always show it on my profile seems to put some people off!

No I don't fancy blokes at all however, if one decides to grab my cock and wank it or decides to suck it I won't freak out!

However, I wouldn't initiate any bisexuality on any couple I didn't already know they are.

Plenty say bisexual but often it's only the female not the male.

Now the latter comment seems in some cases the bloke likes to watch or in others they like their cakes and eat them (gready)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed this ha!

I think in my experience of being David Attenborough and observing the wild men of fab there are two cases that stand out to me.

I noticed guys go from "bi-curious/bisexual" to "straight", because they are messaging people who are only looking for "straight men".

And then others who change their status as they think about what they are into/their interests change... but they'll be back, once you like dick there is no going back

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

I knew a guy on here who was gay most of his early adult life and then decided he was bi. He said he found putting bi often stopped women from wanting to be involved with him so he would change his orientation to straight when he was hoping to meet women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I knew a guy on here who was gay most of his early adult life and then decided he was bi. He said he found putting bi often stopped women from wanting to be involved with him so he would change his orientation to straight when he was hoping to meet women"

and that there is what is called a chancer and a liar lol

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We're solely after bi males & couples to play with at the moment. No point in not being honest on our profile as we're after bi play and not straight, so folks know what they get

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"We're solely after bi males & couples to play with at the moment. No point in not being honest on our profile as we're after bi play and not straight, so folks know what they get

Exactly no point in lying ,it's nothing to be ashamed of .

That's why I don't get why some women don't say they're bi,it's encouraged and expected on fab.

I know people don't like labels ,but if my partner and I met a couple and she said she was straight,I wouldn't then expect her to then want to play with me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely bi sexual, since coming out I won’t be pretending to be straight or hiding from the fact I find women attractive

Life changing and not to be played with in my opinion

I can understand someone being straight and then bisexual, but not going back to straight again when the bloke they're interested in bins them off

Absolutely !

I’m lucky and have full support of my husband

He understands me like no other!

Yes he gets a bit of extra fun along the way but has always said take it or leave it he can live without the extra female company

It was actually the doorway into this lifestyle and the real reason we are a soft swap couple

I’m not here for men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think often bi guys don’t get much attention / women avoid them so easier to say straight. But also some people change depending on which sex they want to engage with at a particular moment (I’ve asked a few friends why they do it)

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By *antanaMan
over a year ago

The Upside Down

I'm bi on here but not in real life because it's not something I could do, sad as it sounds but it's just the way it is. I know it's easier for women to be excepted as bi just not for us men.

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