FabSwingers.com forum: racism or preference

By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

is it weird when people state that xclusive races as fetishes or when they don’wanna have relations with said races . is it preference or racism

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I’d say it’s just preference . Although I feel a can of worms has been opened here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slow morning?

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Sexually it’s preference

You can’t try to get into people minds on this site as that would be dangerous!

Surely everyone is a deviant on here anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it weird when people state that xclusive races as fetishes or when they don’wanna have relations with said races . is it preference or racism"

One or both.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"I’d say it’s just preference . Although I feel a can of worms has been opened here

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understand but i feel people are just saying that’s and don’t wanna admit they have same fetishes as rich racist plantation owners and that someone of the other race is a fetish for them and exites them or has a bias and says no i’d never sleep with them so in way the preference i think stems from some form of race topic debate and yeah i know my full point was to open up a can of worms and have people discus it

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Let me grab a popcorn

This question pops up from time to time and usually cause a lot of arguments. Everyone is entitled to have preference but they're often perceived as racism.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

true but that’s what it’s to show that’s it isn’t just one it’s clearly a hidden meaning

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

but isn’t it racism if your pretence is denouncing another race isn’t that actuall racism

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"is it weird when people state that xclusive races as fetishes or when they don’wanna have relations with said races . is it preference or racism"

My personal opinion is that when it comes to sex, and who does what with who, preference vs racist is somewhat irrelevant because if you don't want to have sex with someone for any reason at all, then that's OK. Clearly being racist is not "OK" but choosing not to have sex with a certain race is your choice, even if your reasoning for it is wrong.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

"is it weird when people state that xclusive races as fetishes or when they don’wanna have relations with said races . is it preference or racism

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Could be either without more info, and knowing the intent of the individual it's hard to say.

Some might say if your preference is the same race as your own race then it's probably racism but that's twaddle. It is also possible to be racist to your own race.

I have played with most races , but one of my ex gf who cuckold me preference was BBC.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

"is it weird when people state that xclusive races as fetishes or when they don’wanna have relations with said races . is it preference or racism

I like this reasoning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

so it’s using your preference to his your racism because if someone race is why i don’t wanna sleep with them to me that’s not preference that’s is a bias against said race regardless of ethnic colour

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

so did you ask here to explain why that was here preferring males because to me if your saying your female only wanted bbc because they are black then yeah i’d say that’s racism

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

You've asked a question but clearly already made up your mind.

This whole thread will be pointless

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

If you're straight and you don't wanna have sex with someone of the same sex then you must be homophobic.

That's the logic you're using

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

no i’m asking someone to explain this to me other than by just saying preference means it’s justifiable i want actual explanation as to how there a difference between liking someone who happens to be a difference race as a pose to only liking someone who is of a different race

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

Keep an open mind - read contacts or ignore, simple as that really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slow morning?"

- run out of topics to discuss but need attention?

- resurrect ye olde ‘racism’ topic! Guaranteed bluster & double bluster til next time

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

no but if you don’t wanna have sex with people who are fluid and swing both ways then it shows yeah i have a small subconscious bias to this who are by and homosexual

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"so it’s using your preference to his your racism because if someone race is why i don’t wanna sleep with them to me that’s not preference that’s is a bias against said race regardless of ethnic colour "

I believe that within dating there is also a massive crossover between racism, culture and stereotypes.

For example people may say "no Asians" because they believe their stereotypical culture is not compatible with their own. It's not because they view Asians as a negative in general, just don't have common ground.

For example, it's very common on all dating sites to see things like "no tories" that is likely due to lack of commonality and a general differing view on life.

I've commented this on a previous thread. Once someone feels that they can't have a preference due to society pressure or judgement, regardless of what that attribute is, and regardless of their logic or if their view is acceptable, then a massive part of consent is being removed.

You can ask the same about any group, Trans, Bi, etc.

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

It would be great if you could quote your replies so we know what you're talking about.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

no i have many topic to discuss a lot are of the dark side of sex that’s will get me band from the forum personally i just wanna hear everyone’s take on this i have some different race in my dms saying they are proud for me comment a comment that they wanted to ask

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

It's more preference in our view of what people find attractive.

To add another view to this, people from same background normally have same interests which makes them get along better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone/something doesn't float someone's boat, doesn't mean they are racist. It's a preference. Reasons behind this preference is another question. My humble opinion, nothing else.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"I’d say it’s just preference . Although I feel a can of worms has been opened here

understand but i feel people are just saying that’s and don’t wanna admit they have same fetishes as rich racist plantation owners and that someone of the other race is a fetish for them and exites them or has a bias and says no i’d never sleep with them so in way the preference i think stems from some form of race topic debate and yeah i know my full point was to open up a can of worms and have people discus it"

Yeah good debate to have though

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

yeah i see that a lot but if you have money and or rich then have a conservative mindset and would vote tory so that then is against them and thus shows a unwanted bias toward people who think like a tory and now u will say that’s ok. but for me your already singling out stuff about a person that’s shouldn’t effect why u like them or not if it does then it shows u just want another person just online with things you say and do and that’s not wanting to meet people that’s wanna have people regurgitating what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not racist not wanting to sleep with white people or black people.

It's a preference.

Some women just want black men, some say just white, some say no Asians.

Preference not racist.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

yeah and the only sort of reasoning is race or lack of common ground but tome it’s subconscious bias stemd down from both experiences in life and surroundings

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"no but if you don’t wanna have sex with people who are fluid and swing both ways then it shows yeah i have a small subconscious bias to this who are by and homosexual"

If I don't wanna have sex with someone who is fluid, that makes me have a subconscious bias?

Fuck it, you've convinced me, I don't wanna be biased towards anyone so I'm now officially bisexuality

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

ok but i hat you said there sounds like racism if i didn’t want you to work with or for me just because of your race is that a preference

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Excluding someone from the site or demanding that this site should only be for a certain ethnic group=racism.

Not finding someone attractive for whatever reason= preference.

We are all prejudiced from the experiences we have had, our upbringing and social interactions; these will influence our subconscious choices, that doesn't mean that we are being racist if we don't find certain groups attractive.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

toward fluid people yes because your not giving them the same ground and moment as you do or percive you do to the one your attracted to rather than treating everyone as equals that’s what i’m trying to say the moment you differentiate because of one thing then yes i have bias toward that things that’s what bias is ie you wouldn’t ever do it and the reason is just as simple as it’s not me as never do that and this goes for me to we all have biases i’m just point out that’s this one has something to do with ethnicity and race which is a can of worms topic that’s why it seems like we are all going at each other

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

you just explained subconsciously racism and then said it doesn’t mean your racist wtf

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"toward fluid people yes because your not giving them the same ground and moment as you do or percive you do to the one your attracted to rather than treating everyone as equals that’s what i’m trying to say the moment you differentiate because of one thing then yes i have bias toward that things that’s what bias is ie you wouldn’t ever do it and the reason is just as simple as it’s not me as never do that and this goes for me to we all have biases i’m just point out that’s this one has something to do with ethnicity and race which is a can of worms topic that’s why it seems like we are all going at each other "

Honestly, I'd love to stay and debate but you won't quote, and I'm really struggling to break down your grammar so I'm gonna back out now.

Just so that everyone is aware, I don't want to be biased so I'm now bisexuality and open to every single person on the planet.

I've been convinced.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Honestly, I'd love to stay and debate but you won't quote, and I'm really struggling to break down your grammar so I'm gonna back out now.

Just so that everyone is aware, I don't want to be biased so I'm now bisexuality and open to every single person on the planet.

I've been convinced."
it’s ok to be open to everyon don’t just shut them down because of predetermined things in life why not treat everyone at face value for the human being they are and not what they look like or sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I'd love to stay and debate but you won't quote, and I'm really struggling to break down your grammar so I'm gonna back out now.

Just so that everyone is aware, I don't want to be biased so I'm now bisexuality and open to every single person on the planet.

I've been convinced. it’s ok to be open to everyon don’t just shut them down because of predetermined things in life why not treat everyone at face value for the human being they are and not what they look like or sexuality"

Because most people are attracted to the person with their eyes, so what they look like is important.

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

"you just explained subconsciously racism and then said it doesn’t mean your racist wtf"

Fairly pointless having a discussion with you if you willfully refuse to understand how a person's subconscious bias influences what they find attractive and how that is different from racism.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just Preferences unless it's worded in a way to cause upset

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By *ere4work.Man
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

Preference

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Preference, supported by racism with some. Some places ban it but if they're not going to have sex, it makes it easier to use the site to filter out those, including with attitudes, that you don't want

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Honestly, I'd love to stay and debate but you won't quote, and I'm really struggling to break down your grammar so I'm gonna back out now.

Just so that everyone is aware, I don't want to be biased so I'm now bisexuality and open to every single person on the planet.

Because most people are attracted to the person with their eyes, so what they look like is important. "
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that’s true but maybe people need be more self aware and ask themselves why they don’t want that man or that female instead of just saying aw they not my type or fit my type even if you have a type that’s is a subconscious bias and predjuice from the start ie your saying that this characteristic or mild trumps the rest why and just thro the because of that’s what you want and said so other than asking yourself why that’s is what your preference or fetishes are

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"you just explained subconsciously racism and then said it doesn’t mean your racist wtf

Fairly pointless having a discussion with you if you willfully refuse to understand how a person's subconscious bias influences what they find attractive and how that is different from racism. "
it’s not different tho to me what your saying is what i class as racism and no i’m not trying to be pointless i really am. trying to ynderstand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I'd love to stay and debate but you won't quote, and I'm really struggling to break down your grammar so I'm gonna back out now.

Just so that everyone is aware, I don't want to be biased so I'm now bisexuality and open to every single person on the planet.

Because most people are attracted to the person with their eyes, so what they look like is important. .

Why should i need to ask myself?? If im not attracted to someone then il not sleep with them.

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

"no i’m asking someone to explain this to me other than by just saying preference means it’s justifiable i want actual explanation as to how there a difference between liking someone who happens to be a difference race as a pose to only liking someone who is of a different race"

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

Would you feel the same about someone who only wants to meet people with blonde hair, big breasts or a big cock? People of a certain age or build? How many profiles do you see where a woman says a guy needs to be a particular height??

In the context of who someone wants to have sex with it is ENTIRELY preference and nobody should ever be demonised for having that.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Preference, supported by racism with some. Some places ban it but if they're not going to have sex, it makes it easier to use the site to filter out those, including with attitudes, that you don't want "
there you go at least some people are admiring this steams from prejudice which is a bias toward hatred toward a sex type a race type or even gender type

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Honestly, I'd love to stay and debate but you won't quote, and I'm really struggling to break down your grammar so I'm gonna back out now.

Just so that everyone is aware, I don't want to be biased so I'm now bisexuality and open to every single person on the planet.

Because most people are attracted to the person with their eyes, so what they look like is important. .

Why should i need to ask myself?? If im not attracted to someone then il not sleep with them. "
to become self aware as to the real reason and root cause of why you don’t wanna sleep with the person some people like to grow and learn about themselves too

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

In the context of who someone wants to have sex with it is ENTIRELY preference and nobody should ever be demonised for having that."
i ain’t virtue signalling this is one of many hard topic i could speak about the fact is that people on thes forums don’t wish to discus and debate the dark side of sex and that’s quite revealing and you see people get defensive when you hit a nail on the head as i said i have many darker more worm cans i could open has nothing to do with anything that’s was just the topic i picked today you could say it was just my preference

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

In the context of who someone wants to have sex with it is ENTIRELY preference and nobody should ever be demonised for having that."
and to answer the bottom question yes yes i would sept not racism it’s other ism ie fat phobia n such etc etc or the hair thing too yeah all small subconscious predjuices just you see them as preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I'd love to stay and debate but you won't quote, and I'm really struggling to break down your grammar so I'm gonna back out now.

Just so that everyone is aware, I don't want to be biased so I'm now bisexuality and open to every single person on the planet.

Because most people are attracted to the person with their eyes, so what they look like is important. .

Why should i need to ask myself?? If im not attracted to someone then il not sleep with them. to become self aware as to the real reason and root cause of why you don’t wanna sleep with the person some people like to grow and learn about themselves too"

The real reason is a dont fancy them, i dont need to grow and learn i already know what i like and what turns me on sexually and my preferences.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Honestly, I'd love to stay and debate but you won't quote, and I'm really struggling to break down your grammar so I'm gonna back out now.

Just so that everyone is aware, I don't want to be biased so I'm now bisexuality and open to every single person on the planet.

Because most people are attracted to the person with their eyes, so what they look like is important. .

The real reason is a dont fancy them, i dont need to grow and learn i already know what i like and what turns me on sexually and my preferences. "
ok we’ll them your choices but that’s not preference if it steams from a subconscious prejudice that’s what it is it’s clear bias but thing is it’s ok to be bias i wanted people to own up to it like a few did this shows you know who you are and arnt still hiding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

In the context of who someone wants to have sex with it is ENTIRELY preference and nobody should ever be demonised for having that. and to answer the bottom question yes yes i would sept not racism it’s other ism ie fat phobia n such etc etc or the hair thing too yeah all small subconscious predjuices just you see them as preferences "

So if i turn down a guy i dont fancy down im being predjuiced against him? So i should just sleep with him to prove i have no predjuices against people i dont fancy?? Seriously??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t find someone attractive because of their skin colour or origin and exclude them from your search on fab it’s up to you, same as people don’t look for thin people , heavier people , short people or tall people , it’s personal preference , for what ever reason .

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

If you put skin color on your page as a reason for not wanting to meet someone then you’ll get called out for being racist as soon as you knock someone back.

If however you arrange a club night catering for a certain skin color nothing will be said about it

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Someone has been on the disco biscuits early

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

This place will never cease to amaze me. So we have a fat phobia now because neither of us are attracted to massively overweight people? Even though that's not even a protected characteristic as that's something that can changed by someone losing weight.

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

So if i turn down a guy i dont fancy down im being predjuiced against him? So i should just sleep with him to prove i have no predjuices against people i dont fancy?? Seriously??"

not what i said what i said was maybe if they ask you try be open and if you still feel no then explain why your no is a not just saying because your not my type as i explain that was someone else said to that’s preference stem from subconscious bias and stuff we’ve had all our lives etc etc not that’s you just sleep with people but maybe find out more as to why u don’t wanna sleep with this perticular people and then you find your root cause but if your reason is just because you don’t like they ethnicity then yeah it is racism do you see the difference

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"If you don’t find someone attractive because of their skin colour or origin and exclude them from your search on fab it’s up to you, same as people don’t look for thin people , heavier people , short people or tall people , it’s personal preference , for what ever reason . "
what your saying here is racism reworded then using the straw man argument

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"If you put skin color on your page as a reason for not wanting to meet someone then you’ll get called out for being racist as soon as you knock someone back.

If however you arrange a club night catering for a certain skin color nothing will be said about it"
this should be pinned exactly the point i’m trying to make where is the line and when is it not racism because to me it’s always racism

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

For some it’s racism, some it’s fetishism and for some it’s preference. You can normally tell by the language used.

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By *inkyBiBlackMaleMan
over a year ago

London

Preference IMO

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??"
if you don’t like a fat person just because of the weight then yeah that’s is the definition of fat phobia

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Everyone is entitled to have preference but they're often perceived as racism."

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But presumably racists will express a preference that's motivated by racism?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

So if i turn down a guy i dont fancy down im being predjuiced against him? So i should just sleep with him to prove i have no predjuices against people i dont fancy?? Seriously??

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I sleep with women of any skin colour, but only black men (it’s been a dogs age since I found a non-black male attractive) and I’m a white womanly myself.

OP by your measure am I racist?

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"For some it’s racism, some it’s fetishism and for some it’s preference. You can normally tell by the language used. "
thank you least your being honest some literally out here saying it’s not racism

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"I sleep with women of any skin colour, but only black men (it’s been a dogs age since I found a non-black male attractive) and I’m a white womanly myself.

OP by your measure am I racist? "
if you are only sleeping with men caus they black yes and not because you like them as human

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

So if i turn down a guy i dont fancy down im being predjuiced against him? So i should just sleep with him to prove i have no predjuices against people i dont fancy?? Seriously??

Nothing to do with subconscious bias I see with my eyes im turned on with my eyes if i physically dont find somone attractive no amount of getting to know them is going to change that, and thats nothing to do with race or colour"
right but i’ve never asked why i don’t refine that race attractive or why you do find them attractive and that would show your root cause of where your beliefs start from

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over a year ago

I love these threads. Great filters.

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

So if i turn down a guy i dont fancy down im being predjuiced against him? So i should just sleep with him to prove i have no predjuices against people i dont fancy?? Seriously??

No one owes anyone else an explanation. Ever. If I say no to something or someone then it's a no, I don't need to justify myself.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Everyone is entitled to have preference but they're often perceived as racism.

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But presumably racists will express a preference that's motivated by racism?!

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thank you they will never admit that preference is drivin by racism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you?

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

So if i turn down a guy i dont fancy down im being predjuiced against him? So i should just sleep with him to prove i have no predjuices against people i dont fancy?? Seriously??

No one owes anyone else an explanation. Ever. If I say no to something or someone then it's a no, I don't need to justify myself. "
never said you do owe one im saying maybe you’ll find out your reall reason more than just because you fancy them that’s the base level shit goes deeper

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? "
im in an open relationship

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? "
and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I honestly don't understand what you are struggling with here. This is a swinging site and some people will have preferences for characteristics they are most attracted to.

People get hung up on race as it's the easiest way to virtue signal at the moment but in the context of sex and looking for sex it is entirely a preference.

So if i turn down a guy i dont fancy down im being predjuiced against him? So i should just sleep with him to prove i have no predjuices against people i dont fancy?? Seriously??

No one owes anyone else an explanation. Ever. If I say no to something or someone then it's a no, I don't need to justify myself. never said you do owe one im saying maybe you’ll find out your reall reason more than just because you fancy them that’s the base level shit goes deeper"

I can take one look at anyone of any race and decide whether I think they're attractive. It's not deep at all.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"is it weird when people state that xclusive races as fetishes or when they don’wanna have relations with said races . is it preference or racism"

majority of preference, with a sprikling of racism hear and there

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

So if i turn down a guy i dont fancy down im being predjuiced against him? So i should just sleep with him to prove i have no predjuices against people i dont fancy?? Seriously??"

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I don't think anyone's saying that, preferences are exactly that and can be developed for a range of reasons, including negative ones but humanity is often unable to acknowledge that.

If someone's a racist and want to sleep with a particular race of people then that's their choice, even though the reason for it is antisocial.

Preferences here are usually expressed in innocent terms, threads like this simply open a discussion around what motivates those preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this "

Thats not what i asked

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??"

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

This whole thread is ridiculous. It's irrelevant if it's racist or phobic. It's a basic human right that you can choose who you fuck. You don't need a valid, morally defensible reason for that choice to be valid or OK.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"I love these threads. Great filters. "
thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Preferences...

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

Thats not what i asked"
do i yeah if we have a connection beyond just locks and attraction but you still haven’t understood what i said for example some people who you would have been approached by youv probly treated them like shite on your shoe no answer ignoring them etc instead of treating them as a humans and just saying what you feel it is what it is w feel you getting defensive asking questions about me when mine is originally about fetishising races

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

Round of applause

Oh shit, I just looked at your profile. You're 420ist, and celticisc. Shame on you.

That's a joke btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this "

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

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Oh shit, I just looked at your profile. You're 420ist, and celticisc. Shame on you.

That's a joke btw

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By *exanthemMan
over a year ago

North

It’s all to do with how your brain has been trained by external feedbacks since your teen years, Porn, Media played a huge role. When your media just use the bundle term Asian to describe groomers , your brain is trained to see all Asians as groomers, resulting in prejudices for all the Asians, including Indians. Although people go and seek Tantric sexual practices in India, like to travel to India to see Temple of sexual carvings in Khajuraho, and engage in hippy sexually open life in Goa and Mountain regions of India but since it’s not portrayed widely, less media coverage is given, especially by porn industry, you remain ignorant, resulting in forming an opinion against them. However it has got nothing to do with culture, it’s all about who is in or out of this lifestyle. you have whites not part of this lifestyle, raise their eyebrows when hear about swingers, you can see whites who behave inappropriately with women in sex clubs, so just saying Indians are misfits because of culture is a serious reductive opinion tbh. Similarly there are some Indians who fall in that category. I travel to US and Europe and played there in many clubs , the amount of biases or rather preferences for No Indian = No Asian( umbrella term) I see here in Britain is shocking in comparison.. in case of black men, I would not even call it a preference but a skin fetish, which has got nothing to do with culture. I really appreciate those clubs who clearly identify this fetish and don’t encourage it all together, especially sexual progressive clubs, in various parts of US and Europe. Such a shame to see many here promotes it under the garb of Interracial events.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

"
never said you need sleep with everyone i just said maybe if you had valid justification other than i don’t like them maybe you’d gro more as human and understand yourself more

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

Thats not what i asked do i yeah if we have a connection beyond just locks and attraction but you still haven’t understood what i said for example some people who you would have been approached by youv probly treated them like shite on your shoe no answer ignoring them etc instead of treating them as a humans and just saying what you feel it is what it is w feel you getting defensive asking questions about me when mine is originally about fetishising races

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

Round of applause

Oh shit, I just looked at your profile. You're 420ist, and celticisc. Shame on you.

That's a joke btw

"
you actually think it’s a joke yet some profiles in this forum actually say can’t be tim or smoke or such so maybe a joke for you reality to those living it

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ?"
if i like them yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

never said you need sleep with everyone i just said maybe if you had valid justification other than i don’t like them maybe you’d gro more as human and understand yourself more"

But if i dont sleep with everyone who asks me im phobic against that person... you still never answered the question i asked you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes"

So you wouldnt sleep with someone you dont like are you not just contadicting everything you just preached?

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

Round of applause

Oh shit, I just looked at your profile. You're 420ist, and celticisc. Shame on you.

That's a joke btw

you actually think it’s a joke yet some profiles in this forum actually say can’t be tim or smoke or such so maybe a joke for you reality to those living it

It was a joke between myself and HiddenGem.

I don't want people who smoke 420 (I hate the smell). There one lad locally who has 'celtic' and 'ira' tattoos, not a chance in hell we'd meet him. Why? Because out views definitely wouldn't align.

That doesn't mean I have a phobia of those things.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"It’s all to do with how your brain has been trained by external feedbacks since your teen years, Porn, Media played a huge role. When your media just use the bundle term Asian to describe groomers , your brain is trained to see all Asians as groomers, resulting in prejudices for all the Asians, including Indians. Although people go and seek Tantric sexual practices in India, like to travel to India to see Temple of sexual carvings in Khajuraho, and engage in hippy sexually open life in Goa and Mountain regions of India but since it’s not portrayed widely, less media coverage is given, especially by porn industry, you remain ignorant, resulting in forming an opinion against them. However it has got nothing to do with culture, it’s all about who is in or out of this lifestyle. you have whites not part of this lifestyle, raise their eyebrows when hear about swingers, you can see whites who behave inappropriately with women in sex clubs, so just saying Indians are misfits because of culture is a serious reductive opinion tbh. Similarly there are some Indians who fall in that category. I travel to US and Europe and played there in many clubs , the amount of biases or rather preferences for No Indian = No Asian( umbrella term) I see here in Britain is shocking in comparison.. in case of black men, I would not even call it a preference but a skin fetish, which has got nothing to do with culture. I really appreciate those clubs who clearly identify this fetish and don’t encourage it all together, especially sexual progressive clubs, in various parts of US and Europe. Such a shame to see many here promotes it under the garb of Interracial events."
this coming from a man who is indian so are you in the forum going to say it was preference against him or as he said it’s racism and you won’t acknowledge it this isn’t that gaslighting

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

"
or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"If you put skin color on your page as a reason for not wanting to meet someone then you’ll get called out for being racist as soon as you knock someone back.

If however you arrange a club night catering for a certain skin color nothing will be said about it this should be pinned exactly the point i’m trying to make where is the line and when is it not racism because to me it’s always racism"

If you don’t want to meet someone of a certain race then it’s racism.

If you do want to meet them then it’s a preference to that race. For example if we said no Asian women then that’s racist. If we said we prefer Asian then there’s nothing saying we don’t like white/black/Latin etc, just Asian is our first choice.

This in no way is an invite for anyone of a certain race to message us privately ! Only chose Asian as everyone else seems to revert to black and white in these discussions

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

never said you need sleep with everyone i just said maybe if you had valid justification other than i don’t like them maybe you’d gro more as human and understand yourself more

But if i dont sleep with everyone who asks me im phobic against that person... you still never answered the question i asked you"
not if there’s reason and justification and i did i said yeah i i like the person who’s speaking to me and if don oks then yeah i’d fuck them regardless of anything only thing i care about is if they are clean

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like"

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

You've said 'it's always racist' and I'm saying that bullshit.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you wouldnt sleep with someone you dont like are you not just contadicting everything you just preached?"
there isn’t few i don’t like i’m a greedy girl you be hard press to find someone i wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes"

So you have answered your own question.

Preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

never said you need sleep with everyone i just said maybe if you had valid justification other than i don’t like them maybe you’d gro more as human and understand yourself more

But if i dont sleep with everyone who asks me im phobic against that person... you still never answered the question i asked younot if there’s reason and justification and i did i said yeah i i like the person who’s speaking to me and if don oks then yeah i’d fuck them regardless of anything only thing i care about is if they are clean"

So your being predjuiced against smelly people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is entitled to have preference but they're often perceived as racism.

------------------------------

But presumably racists will express a preference that's motivated by racism?!

thank you they will never admit that preference is drivin by racism"

You don’t need to convince people that it is. What’s understood doesn’t need to be said. I’ve learned that much in 5 years of fab

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

Round of applause

Oh shit, I just looked at your profile. You're 420ist, and celticisc. Shame on you.

That's a joke btw

you actually think it’s a joke yet some profiles in this forum actually say can’t be tim or smoke or such so maybe a joke for you reality to those living it

It was a joke between myself and HiddenGem.

I don't want people who smoke 420 (I hate the smell). There one lad locally who has 'celtic' and 'ira' tattoos, not a chance in hell we'd meet him. Why? Because out views definitely wouldn't align.

That doesn't mean I have a phobia of those things. "
that’s called secterianism ir you would speak or social interaction with him because of differing religious beliefs but that’s the prejudice because i don him really he may have turns on that belief your idea that you know his preference or lifestyle is what’s is sectarianism ie you are creating the devide and saying because he does this or looks like that i wouldn’t interact with him that’s is a prejudice like i don’t hear preferences anymore just y’all saying stuff that i could never get away with

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

When it comes to women I love all skin colours

I'm white I've girl friends that were white I've had girfiends that were black love them all equally .when it comes to people in general

Every race chooses to fuck who they want

if they do want to fuck you

They don't want to fuck you

Sadly its true there always more folk that don't want to fuck you than do .no matter who you are.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"If you put skin color on your page as a reason for not wanting to meet someone then you’ll get called out for being racist as soon as you knock someone back.

If you don’t want to meet someone of a certain race then it’s racism.

This in no way is an invite for anyone of a certain race to message us privately ! Only chose Asian as everyone else seems to revert to black and white in these discussions "
perfect that’s why i said all ethnicities as it steams every way me i have a thing for exotic desi women i own up to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference is what you prefer. Eg I prefer blondes. I prefer slim. I prefer Asian etc.

It’s saying you prefer or like something, but you’re still open to other things. It’s positive.

It’s NOT preference when you say you dislike an entire ethnic group. I know it’s a hard pill for some to swallow but it’s true. Nope you don’t have to like or be attracted to everyone, but you also have to examine why you’re willing to write off entire groups (same goes for if you exclusively only like one type of group).

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you wouldnt sleep with someone you dont like are you not just contadicting everything you just preached? there isn’t few i don’t like i’m a greedy girl you be hard press to find someone i wouldnt"

I mean I knew society was on its arse with this incessant need to virtue signal at any given opportunity....but literally fucking anyone who asks to prevent being considered prejudiced is a whole new level.

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

Round of applause

Oh shit, I just looked at your profile. You're 420ist, and celticisc. Shame on you.

That's a joke btw

you actually think it’s a joke yet some profiles in this forum actually say can’t be tim or smoke or such so maybe a joke for you reality to those living it

It was a joke between myself and HiddenGem.

I don't want people who smoke 420 (I hate the smell). There one lad locally who has 'celtic' and 'ira' tattoos, not a chance in hell we'd meet him. Why? Because out views definitely wouldn't align.

That doesn't mean I have a phobia of those things. that’s called secterianism ir you would speak or social interaction with him because of differing religious beliefs but that’s the prejudice because i don him really he may have turns on that belief your idea that you know his preference or lifestyle is what’s is sectarianism ie you are creating the devide and saying because he does this or looks like that i wouldn’t interact with him that’s is a prejudice like i don’t hear preferences anymore just y’all saying stuff that i could never get away with"

Is it bollocks. The IRA isn't a religion, my father is Protestant and my mother Catholic. I grew up in Glasgow. Don't try and speak to em about Sectarianism.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

You've said 'it's always racist' and I'm saying that bullshit. "
like adults agree to disagree but when the only factor in someone like or not like someone is the colour of skin or ethnicity then that’s racism just in my book regardless of how it’s justified

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Everyone is entitled to have preference but they're often perceived as racism.

------------------------------

But presumably racists will express a preference that's motivated by racism?!

thank you they will never admit that preference is drivin by racism

You don’t need to convince people that it is. What’s understood doesn’t need to be said. I’ve learned that much in 5 years of fab"
say it louder for those who still say preference tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

Round of applause

Oh shit, I just looked at your profile. You're 420ist, and celticisc. Shame on you.

That's a joke btw

you actually think it’s a joke yet some profiles in this forum actually say can’t be tim or smoke or such so maybe a joke for you reality to those living it

It was a joke between myself and HiddenGem.

I don't want people who smoke 420 (I hate the smell). There one lad locally who has 'celtic' and 'ira' tattoos, not a chance in hell we'd meet him. Why? Because out views definitely wouldn't align.

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

You've said 'it's always racist' and I'm saying that bullshit. like adults agree to disagree but when the only factor in someone like or not like someone is the colour of skin or ethnicity then that’s racism just in my book regardless of how it’s justified "

Not one person on this thread has said skin colour may be the only factor. You're making that bit up.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference."
how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

Round of applause

Oh shit, I just looked at your profile. You're 420ist, and celticisc. Shame on you.

That's a joke btw

you actually think it’s a joke yet some profiles in this forum actually say can’t be tim or smoke or such so maybe a joke for you reality to those living it

It was a joke between myself and HiddenGem.

I don't want people who smoke 420 (I hate the smell). There one lad locally who has 'celtic' and 'ira' tattoos, not a chance in hell we'd meet him. Why? Because out views definitely wouldn't align.

I shag celtic fans if i fancy them a just dont like the word bhoy nothing to do with sectarianism jeezo think maybe you should put fab off for a while and take a break your overthiking and making some things out to be somthing they are not"
hey no that’s was to the other couple who spoke about not wanting to shag the celtic neighbour not you

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

Does that also go for our preference for women to be shaved? Are we bush-phobic too??

Yes. Did you not know that you are no longer allowed to say no to anyone now. You MUST have sex with everyone who wants to have sex with you. Otherwise you're ***-phobic.

Round of applause

Oh shit, I just looked at your profile. You're 420ist, and celticisc. Shame on you.

That's a joke btw

you actually think it’s a joke yet some profiles in this forum actually say can’t be tim or smoke or such so maybe a joke for you reality to those living it

It was a joke between myself and HiddenGem.

I don't want people who smoke 420 (I hate the smell). There one lad locally who has 'celtic' and 'ira' tattoos, not a chance in hell we'd meet him. Why? Because out views definitely wouldn't align.

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over a year ago

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference. how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover"

You just said you wouldnt sleep with anyone who wasnt clean then said nothing puts you off

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Not one person on this thread has said skin colour may be the only factor. You're making that bit up. "
other people on this thread have said that skin colour and racism is the driven factor for example one guy said it above that’s what’s understood don’t need be explained meaning most people know of this just don’t wanna open the can of worms i have

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference. how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover

You just said you wouldnt sleep with anyone who wasnt clean then said nothing puts you off

"
yeah clean as in with no sexual dieases if you out here sleeping around like that there no hope for you and that’s not a preference that’s a medical right

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Not one person on this thread has said skin colour may be the only factor. You're making that bit up. other people on this thread have said that skin colour and racism is the driven factor for example one guy said it above that’s what’s understood don’t need be explained meaning most people know of this just don’t wanna open the can of worms i have

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference. how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover

You just said you wouldnt sleep with anyone who wasnt clean then said nothing puts you off

"
and instead of using actual stats and data you’re using a straw man argument to make me seem dumb when i’ve had people back me up and say they know exactly what i’m talking about

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. "
really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

Huh? All agreeing with you I suppose?

This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait. "

So why not just ignore it?

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?"

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

Huh? All agreeing with you I suppose?

This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait. "
no not all agreeing giving their own experience to the situation like the indian man said he went to many club to experience the said racism no on screen it’s just words but face to face he got denied by one thing his skin colour and race that’s is racism point blank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference. how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover

You just said you wouldnt sleep with anyone who wasnt clean then said nothing puts you off

and instead of using actual stats and data you’re using a straw man argument to make me seem dumb when i’ve had people back me up and say they know exactly what i’m talking about

"
make you seem dumb?? Explain.. you said youd sleep with anyone nothing puts you off then you said if they were unclean you wouldnt, so really you have a predjuice against people who dont wash, am i wrong ? Maybe deep down you should get into your subconscious and treat these unclean people as normal people and not be biased aganst them

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

Huh? All agreeing with you I suppose?

This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait. no not all agreeing giving their own experience to the situation like the indian man said he went to many club to experience the said racism no on screen it’s just words but face to face he got denied by one thing his skin colour and race that’s is racism point blank"

Was he not agreeing with you?

I'm struggling with the incoherence.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I've experienced all races in my sex life whilst living in London, not so much in Devon nowdays. I just like funny, charming men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?"

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

Huh? All agreeing with you I suppose?

This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait. "
isn’t anything bait you are litteralt defining racism and then saying it’s a preference that’s racism even some black males have said to me yeah it’s racism some hav said this topic is always in the bbbc forum and is always called racism then also you take the indian man who said his experience about euro people swinging and y’all right now still gaslighting him makes it seem like his experience wasn’t racism when he’s telling you that’s what he felt he experienced

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference. how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover

You just said you wouldnt sleep with anyone who wasnt clean then said nothing puts you off

and instead of using actual stats and data you’re using a straw man argument to make me seem dumb when i’ve had people back me up and say they know exactly what i’m talking about

make you seem dumb?? Explain.. you said youd sleep with anyone nothing puts you off then you said if they were unclean you wouldnt, so really you have a predjuice against people who dont wash, am i wrong ? Maybe deep down you should get into your subconscious and treat these unclean people as normal people and not be biased aganst them"
no your wrong again i mean unclean as in virus etc i don’t care if a person was dirty but would care if infected and that’s normal don’t make out it’s not as said ats a medical right to be healthy

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

Huh? All agreeing with you I suppose?

Was he not agreeing with you?

I'm struggling with the incoherence."
you seem like only one

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

Huh? All agreeing with you I suppose?

This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait. isn’t anything bait you are litteralt defining racism and then saying it’s a preference that’s racism even some black males have said to me yeah it’s racism some hav said this topic is always in the bbbc forum and is always called racism then also you take the indian man who said his experience about euro people swinging and y’all right now still gaslighting him makes it seem like his experience wasn’t racism when he’s telling you that’s what he felt he experienced

I dont believe I've said it's preference. I've said it's bullshit that's it's ALWAYS racism.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

"
don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"I've experienced all races in my sex life whilst living in London, not so much in Devon nowdays. I just like funny, charming men."
good did you ever say no to someone because of race

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist "

You calling me racist? I'd like you to clarify please.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

Huh? All agreeing with you I suppose?

I dont believe I've said its preference. I've said it's bullshit that's it's ALWAYS racism. "
that’s gaslighting then becaus he explained his situation and your saying it’s not always racism well there you go what he explained was racism

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You calling me racist? I'd like you to clarify please."
i’m not calling anyone anything i’m saying if the slipper fits wear it to the ball cinderella

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

Huh? All agreeing with you I suppose?

I dont believe I've said its preference. I've said it's bullshit that's it's ALWAYS racism. that’s gaslighting then becaus he explained his situation and your saying it’s not always racism well there you go what he explained was racism

Gaslighting

Honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference. how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover

You just said you wouldnt sleep with anyone who wasnt clean then said nothing puts you off

and instead of using actual stats and data you’re using a straw man argument to make me seem dumb when i’ve had people back me up and say they know exactly what i’m talking about

make you seem dumb?? Explain.. you said youd sleep with anyone nothing puts you off then you said if they were unclean you wouldnt, so really you have a predjuice against people who dont wash, am i wrong ? Maybe deep down you should get into your subconscious and treat these unclean people as normal people and not be biased aganst them no your wrong again i mean unclean as in virus etc i don’t care if a person was dirty but would care if infected and that’s normal don’t make out it’s not as said ats a medical right to be healthy "

You said clean not infected with an infection, unclean means dirty not infected.

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You calling me racist? I'd like you to clarify please. i’m not calling anyone anything i’m saying if the slipper fits wear it to the ball cinderella"

Certainly seems like you're calling me racist...

Come on love, back up your insults. Be the big person who is willing to do that. Otherwise, get back in your box.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You calling me racist? I'd like you to clarify please."
he just explain to you his last year only for you to say aye it doesn’t always work like that it’s not racism instead of knowledge his actual trauma and experience and saying yeah that’s racism you still choose to justify it as preference when it’s happen to him this isn’t that’s gaslighting

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

For a lot of people on here, looks are the first hurdle. If you don't clear that then there's no point in getting to know someone.

You're problem is you think everything is an 'ism'. The youth of tady, huh

or your saying racism and not actuall realising what modern day racism looks like

No I'm really not saying anything is racist.

Steve doesn't count

I'll rephrase, not one person who doesn't agree with you has said it. really then why do i have dms of people saying you see this on the bbc forum a lot

Huh? All agreeing with you I suppose?

Gaslighting

Honestly

"
yeah someone tells you trauma and your like well it isn’t like that’s that’s what gaslighting is

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You calling me racist? I'd like you to clarify please. he just explain to you his last year only for you to say aye it doesn’t always work like that it’s not racism instead of knowledge his actual trauma and experience and saying yeah that’s racism you still choose to justify it as preference when it’s happen to him this isn’t that’s gaslighting "

You're clearly hard of reading because I haven't justified anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesnt it simply depend on who your attracted to, the same as no beards, no married men, no tattoos etc the list goes on. its not a judgement on anyone which is what a prejudice is (for example racism etc) its a simple preference.

why has everything got to have a label?

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

It's funny how you get white couples only wanting black guys though, obviously fetishizing the black guys. Never the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people get way to hung up on this. Im sure there are racists out there of course but I think for most the best word is preference. I don't put it on my profile or anything as I think it can be seen as a fetish or put the other people off which I don't want any of that.

But I have always been more attracted to Black Men from a young age. I can't explain it and its not the stereotypes or anything I just have a natural attraction that way. Now I also see Men of all races I find attractive but the way I think of it is for every 10 Black Men I see I am probably going to be attracted to 7 of them. And then for white 5 and so on and so forth.

I don't exclude people or seek out based on it but I know what I like when I see it and most of the times that's just the way I am. Also for added context I have never been in a relationship and this is purely a visual shallow analysis.

I don't think being that way makes me racist. People are allowed to like who they like and as long as they aren't negatively affecting the other person I think that's ok.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference. how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover

You just said you wouldnt sleep with anyone who wasnt clean then said nothing puts you off

and instead of using actual stats and data you’re using a straw man argument to make me seem dumb when i’ve had people back me up and say they know exactly what i’m talking about

make you seem dumb?? Explain.. you said youd sleep with anyone nothing puts you off then you said if they were unclean you wouldnt, so really you have a predjuice against people who dont wash, am i wrong ? Maybe deep down you should get into your subconscious and treat these unclean people as normal people and not be biased aganst them no your wrong again i mean unclean as in virus etc i don’t care if a person was dirty but would care if infected and that’s normal don’t make out it’s not as said ats a medical right to be healthy

You said clean not infected with an infection, unclean means dirty not infected."
in clean mean unsanitary that’s means not of ?? health that’s what i mean anything els i don’t care about longs you ain’t my family member yeah al dance with no pants

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You calling me racist? I'd like you to clarify please. i’m not calling anyone anything i’m saying if the slipper fits wear it to the ball cinderella

Certainly seems like you're calling me racist...

Come on love, back up your insults. Be the big person who is willing to do that. Otherwise, get back in your box. "
once again this who start with insult have no actuall evidence to support your case other than trust me bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference. how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover

You just said you wouldnt sleep with anyone who wasnt clean then said nothing puts you off

and instead of using actual stats and data you’re using a straw man argument to make me seem dumb when i’ve had people back me up and say they know exactly what i’m talking about

make you seem dumb?? Explain.. you said youd sleep with anyone nothing puts you off then you said if they were unclean you wouldnt, so really you have a predjuice against people who dont wash, am i wrong ? Maybe deep down you should get into your subconscious and treat these unclean people as normal people and not be biased aganst them no your wrong again i mean unclean as in virus etc i don’t care if a person was dirty but would care if infected and that’s normal don’t make out it’s not as said ats a medical right to be healthy

You said clean not infected with an infection, unclean means dirty not infected. in clean mean unsanitary that’s means not of ?? health that’s what i mean anything els i don’t care about longs you ain’t my family member yeah al dance with no pants"

Good for you

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You're clearly hard of reading because I haven't justified anything."
yes you do you still think it preference after a person said they love experiencing this sort of racism

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

And I thought the glitter wars was traumatic. Popcorn anyone think this is going to run and run.

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You calling me racist? I'd like you to clarify please. i’m not calling anyone anything i’m saying if the slipper fits wear it to the ball cinderella

Certainly seems like you're calling me racist...

Come on love, back up your insults. Be the big person who is willing to do that. Otherwise, get back in your box. once again this who start with insult have no actuall evidence to support your case other than trust me bro"

You called me racist. You've also called me a sectarian. Back yourself up. You know you can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly what I expected it to be

Happy Monday everyone

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

why has everything got to have a label?"
because that’s it’s true label maybe you don’t like being labels but doesn’t mean that’s not what it is

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Dirtym tell me do you sleep with everyone who asks you? and i’m a greed girl i have no preferences or such i like both sex and all races that maybe why i can’t understand this

So you would sleep with absolutely anyone ? if i like them yes

So you have answered your own question.

Preference. how i’m saying i’m open to everyone nothing puts me off sept the way the person is ie personality and how they speak guess just naive been told never treat a book by it’s cover

You just said you wouldnt sleep with anyone who wasnt clean then said nothing puts you off

and instead of using actual stats and data you’re using a straw man argument to make me seem dumb when i’ve had people back me up and say they know exactly what i’m talking about

make you seem dumb?? Explain.. you said youd sleep with anyone nothing puts you off then you said if they were unclean you wouldnt, so really you have a predjuice against people who dont wash, am i wrong ? Maybe deep down you should get into your subconscious and treat these unclean people as normal people and not be biased aganst them no your wrong again i mean unclean as in virus etc i don’t care if a person was dirty but would care if infected and that’s normal don’t make out it’s not as said ats a medical right to be healthy

Good for you

"
answers your question enough yet

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You're clearly hard of reading because I haven't justified anything. yes you do you still think it preference after a person said they love experiencing this sort of racism "

No I don't. Read carefully.

I'm not saying people haven't experienced racism. I'm saying if someone doesn't find someone else attractive that's isn't ALWAYS an 'ism'.

It's really not a difficult concept to understand.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"It's funny how you get white couples only wanting black guys though, obviously fetishizing the black guys. Never the other way around "
thanks they never see this but i do have some black women who fetish white cock it’s like saying big dicks are a preference it’s not big ducks and asses and toys are fetishes

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"I think people get way to hung up on this. Im sure there are racists out there of course but I think for most the best word is preference. I don't put it on my profile or anything as I think it can be seen as a fetish or put the other people off which I don't want any of that.

I don't think being that way makes me racist. People are allowed to like who they like and as long as they aren't negatively affecting the other person I think that's ok.

All that being said I have slept with a few different races and I haven't seen a type of person I would say an outright no to that category of person as a whole. However because of my natural preference as described above I guess it's possible for people to naturally be the other way and have a natural dislike. However I would say if thats the case then just keep it to yourself otherwise you are just a prick like the rest of the people who say no "insert race here""
that’s what you have explains is a reason and show you arnt racist ie you like them and all races etc but also if your only reason your attracted to men of colour is the colour rather than the person shows a small amount of racial bias but your the most honest in here and have explain it oerfecly

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

My preference isn’t stated on my profile but it is based on experience. I prefer not to meet guys from particular ethnic groups because I find them to be lacking in foreplay skills and expect the female to give oral and then f*ck without ensuring the female has had any pleasure.

I think I’ve met one exception to this.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You calling me racist? I'd like you to clarify please. i’m not calling anyone anything i’m saying if the slipper fits wear it to the ball cinderella

Certainly seems like you're calling me racist...

You called me racist. You've also called me a sectarian. Back yourself up. You know you can't."
you said sectarian things as to why you wouldn’t sleep with neighbour i don’t need back it up you said it you said i can’t sleep with him or have untreated white him as we have no common ground how can you know that if you have interacted with him ie that thought was from your subconscious secetrian bigotry and such instead of seeing him as human you see him as his tattoos portray and religious beliefs

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This is exactly what I expected it to be

Happy Monday everyone

"
same thanks i love it when a plan comes together i can’t understand it still tho and i’m not trying rile people up i just don’t get how people justify it when other who have experience it say it’s racism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why has everything got to have a label? because that’s it’s true label maybe you don’t like being labels but doesn’t mean that’s not what it is"

a preference is not racism.

by your terminology there should be no preferences and everyone should just fuck anyone?

so do you fuck just anyone or do you have preferences?

if you do have preferences does that make you hypocritical for calling out others preferences and calling them a prejudice instead of a preference?

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You're clearly hard of reading because I haven't justified anything. yes you do you still think it preference after a person said they love experiencing this sort of racism

No I don't. Read carefully.

I'm not saying people haven't experienced racism. I'm saying if someone doesn't find someone else attractive that's isn't ALWAYS an 'ism'.

It's really not a difficult concept to understand. "
but if the only reason they arnt attractived to them is race then it is racism that’s what racism is ie treat some different to how you would like be treated

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"My preference isn’t stated on my profile but it is based on experience. I prefer not to meet guys from particular ethnic groups because I find them to be lacking in foreplay skills and expect the female to give oral and then f*ck without ensuring the female has had any pleasure.

I think I’ve met one exception to this. "
thanks for explaining so one race is supposed lazier than the othe hmmm good to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You're clearly hard of reading because I haven't justified anything. yes you do you still think it preference after a person said they love experiencing this sort of racism

No I don't. Read carefully.

I'm not saying people haven't experienced racism. I'm saying if someone doesn't find someone else attractive that's isn't ALWAYS an 'ism'.

It's really not a difficult concept to understand. but if the only reason they arnt attractived to them is race then it is racism that’s what racism is ie treat some different to how you would like be treated

it sounds like your confusing preference with prejudice

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

why has everything got to have a label? because that’s it’s true label maybe you don’t like being labels but doesn’t mean that’s not what it is

a preference is not racism.

by your terminology there should be no preferences and everyone should just fuck anyone?

so do you fuck just anyone or do you have preferences?

if you do have preferences does that make you hypocritical for calling out others preferences and calling them a prejudice instead of a preference?"
i already answer this yea most pretences come from a place of fetishisation such as big lips tits an ass these arnt preferences they are fetishes so why isn’t race a fetish to me it is that’s what or way i see it i just want see or hear other justifications etc

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You're clearly hard of reading because I haven't justified anything. yes you do you still think it preference after a person said they love experiencing this sort of racism

No I don't. Read carefully.

I'm not saying people haven't experienced racism. I'm saying if someone doesn't find someone else attractive that's isn't ALWAYS an 'ism'.

it sounds like your confusing preference with prejudice"
think you forgot that most preferences steam from predjuces as the other women in the forum explain once again gaslighting other people beliefs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why has everything got to have a label? because that’s it’s true label maybe you don’t like being labels but doesn’t mean that’s not what it is

a preference is not racism.

by your terminology there should be no preferences and everyone should just fuck anyone?

so do you fuck just anyone or do you have preferences?

if you do have preferences does that make you hypocritical for calling out others preferences and calling them a prejudice instead of a preference? i already answer this yea most pretences come from a place of fetishisation such as big lips tits an ass these arnt preferences they are fetishes so why isn’t race a fetish to me it is that’s what or way i see it i just want see or hear other justifications etc

but according to your posts your calling people racist for a preference rather than a prejudice.

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By *irtym OP Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You're clearly hard of reading because I haven't justified anything. yes you do you still think it preference after a person said they love experiencing this sort of racism

No I don't. Read carefully.

I'm not saying people haven't experienced racism. I'm saying if someone doesn't find someone else attractive that's isn't ALWAYS an 'ism'.

it sounds like your confusing preference with prejudice"
and he explain his 1st hand account of racism an you still call it preference when he told you they point blank would refuse him for no reason other than him being asian that’s is racism and if you don’t thinks so your down playing his experience which is gaslighting

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"This thread is pointless as I said at the start. It's nothing but 'ism' bait.

So why not just ignore it?

Because I'm here to call out the bullshit Steve. Unless you're the forum police and are telling me I can't do that?

You can do what you like

I just asked a question

don’t they defensive cause they maybe finding out they are racist

You calling me racist? I'd like you to clarify please. i’m not calling anyone anything i’m saying if the slipper fits wear it to the ball cinderella

Certainly seems like you're calling me racist...

You called me racist. You've also called me a sectarian. Back yourself up. You know you can't. you said sectarian things as to why you wouldn’t sleep with neighbour i don’t need back it up you said it you said i can’t sleep with him or have untreated white him as we have no common ground how can you know that if you have interacted with him ie that thought was from your subconscious secetrian bigotry and such instead of seeing him as human you see him as his tattoos portray and religious beliefs

So because I won't meet someone who supports the IRA, I'm a bigot.

I mean I could've said I won't meet him because I'm a man and not interested in men. That would make me homphobic, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Human sexuality is a complicated and fascinating subject. There are numerous factors which people find attractive or unattractive. On its most basic level it's preference. The reasons or motivations for that preference may be a different matter entirely. But on the basic level you are turned on by what turns you on.

I am very well aware that the vast majority of people on Fab will not be turned on by me. I appreciate that I occupy a very specific niche. Now I could say that people are not turned on by me because they are transphobic. I could also say that people are not turned on by me because I don't turn them on full stop. I tend to believe that for the majority of people it is the latter argument that prevails.

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