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"No strings means that while we're together we need to be important to each other without distractions. While we're apart we have no responsibility to each other apart from respect " That’s a good way of putting it. What are your thoughts on expectations of a continued friendship or arrangement? Do you think that crosses over into having strings attached? Reason I ask is b/c I’m a strictly NSA person. But I seem to attract people who, after meeting, want to talk a lot and/or meet regularly. But that’s not what I want. I can’t figure out if I’m the one interpreting NSA in the wrong way? | |||
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"That you’ve not been sexually active since the 90s" Considering my age that would be more than a little weird | |||
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"No strings means that while we're together we need to be important to each other without distractions. While we're apart we have no responsibility to each other apart from respect That’s a good way of putting it. What are your thoughts on expectations of a continued friendship or arrangement? Do you think that crosses over into having strings attached? Reason I ask is b/c I’m a strictly NSA person. But I seem to attract people who, after meeting, want to talk a lot and/or meet regularly. But that’s not what I want. I can’t figure out if I’m the one interpreting NSA in the wrong way? " I reckon in most 'continued friendship or arrangement ' situations no matter how clearly boundaries are laid down, explained and agreed to, one person will always interpret them differently or assume that somewhere along the line they'll change. I also think that many people are unable to enjoy casual sex for just the physical experience. Social conditioning has made a lot of people want to cover the physical enjoyment with a cloak of respectable emotional connection. You're not the one interpreting NSA incorrectly in my opinion but human relationships are complicated and messy | |||
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"Interested to know. What do you interpret “No strings attached” to mean when it comes to meets on this site? I know different people view it in different ways." No strings to me means no attachments whatsoever, turn up shag and leave. That's not for me, I like to build friendships and get to know people and also have fun | |||
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"No strings means that while we're together we need to be important to each other without distractions. While we're apart we have no responsibility to each other apart from respect That’s a good way of putting it. What are your thoughts on expectations of a continued friendship or arrangement? Do you think that crosses over into having strings attached? Reason I ask is b/c I’m a strictly NSA person. But I seem to attract people who, after meeting, want to talk a lot and/or meet regularly. But that’s not what I want. I can’t figure out if I’m the one interpreting NSA in the wrong way? " No to me this is the correct definition of 'No strings' But maybe people understand that and you're just very personalable and people enjoy wanting to spend time with you, that's also a possibility | |||
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