FabSwingers.com forum: What age did you start swinging?

By *NV14INV OP Couple
over a year ago

Inverness

We are in our early 50’s and just starting to venture into the swinging scene. We will admit that sexually, we were late starters before we became confident with each other. However, we are sure that we have now caught up and as a couple, there isn’t much at all we haven’t enjoyed.

What age are other couples when you entered the scene and what got you interested?

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By *happymanMan
over a year ago

Bath

My ex and another coupe started playing when we were around 19 . Happened a few times as a group. Been wanting every partner to do it again .

Still waiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started in our early 20s.

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By *azzler2Man
over a year ago

halifax

I started in late twenties

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

38 x

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

late 20s we started

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Just a year ago, so I was 40 and Mrs was 35

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By *alsam1Couple
over a year ago

Caister

Not till we got married, so only a few years.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Early 20s, 60 years ago when it was keys in the bowl style swinging.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Early 30s

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Our 1st 'swing' (of sorts) was a 3some with a mate of mine, I was 30, Rach 29 - he was 26 at the time

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By *ill12369Man
over a year ago

knutsford chesh

55 so 7 yrs ago wish I'd done this in my twentys absolutely love it

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

Mid 30’s with wife who had done it before

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thame area

Late 20s with my now ex wife.

We chatted about it and before I knew it we were on a site.

Met our first couple and the rest is history.

Many a happy time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just started still looking for my first encounter

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

Met my first couple when I was 21

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

We were very late 40’s

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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I was 19 and hubby was 26 xx

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Only a couple of years ago ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 18. A friend recommended it to me whilst at uni with one of my ex bfs. Loved it since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my first couple from a site as a newly turned 18 year old.

Met them again around 10 years later

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

We were early 50s. It took hubby a while to persuade me… no stopping me now!

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By *urious786Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I started swinging when I was 18 my (now)wife started she was 26. We both met through swinging and now happily married with 3 kids now swinging together

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By *nsatiableFunCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

18 months ago and loving it! Have had so many amazing experiences

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By *ay40xMan
over a year ago

Bromley

Early 40’s for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early 40s for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

31 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 26 , I always end up back here haha.

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By *dventurousCharmerMan
over a year ago

Kilsby

Early 20s for me, couldn’t get enough of it. I had a very vivid late teen years

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By *orfolk777Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I was 30 when I started swinging, I’m now 52

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By *eepingItKinkyCouple
over a year ago

reading

Both in our 30s.

Separately x

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

About 6 years ago

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

When i (Mr) hit 30 so Mrs would have been 29. We had been married 5yrs and found fab as part of a hypothetical conversation and we havent really looked back! We have found the social side just as good as the play side

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

i was 37 but wish i started at a much earlier age

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

I was 18/19 with my ex GF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are in our early 50’s and just starting to venture into the swinging scene. We will admit that sexually, we were late starters before we became confident with each other. However, we are sure that we have now caught up and as a couple, there isn’t much at all we haven’t enjoyed.

What age are other couples when you entered the scene and what got you interested? "

Just a year ago for us, late forties

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Started swinging 18, stated occasional cuckold play at 19 which led to full cuckold before I reached 20.

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By *ockerbeckMan
over a year ago

Northallerton

1983 both me and my mrs 19 at the time , unmarried then were invited to a Christmas party by some people we met socially in a pub we used at the time, we were warned by the host weeks in advance that it could become raunchy, and they would understand if it wasn’t for us. My Mrs hummed and ard about it, but we went along, plenty of party games people soon were naked and we ended up in a bedroom with another couple a lot older than us, and another bloke who was a friend of the host. That was the start for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2014 aged 49 and love it. Wish I had started 30 years before that. Hopefully there are lots of ladies or couples who like the older model

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By *punk n gushCouple
over a year ago

deal

In our mid to late 20s then stopped while we raised a family then got back into it about 4 years ago

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

We started waaaay back in 1998

No digital cameras. No Internet

Swingers mags

She was 20 me 25

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

18months ago for us although Rane wanted to try 17years ago but we couldn’t find anyone, so glad we found Fab

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We started together earlier this year, so the age we are now.

However, I've been involved in the kink community since I was 19 and the swing community since I was 22. The Mr had never entered either really till me.

Ms x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid 30's Pre internet. Made contact through Forum magazine.

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By *ester.jamesMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Only been a few months so 23

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Around 2014

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

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By *uriousBeastMan
over a year ago

London

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I was in mid to late teens, while I worked on the liners to the USA.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Only a year ago

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By *idsHornyCpl40Couple
over a year ago

West Mids area

We were both 25 (1998) we replied to a couple from a contact mag (guessing something like Desire Contacts mag), they were both mid 40's. Our 1st meet and fully swap. Then we meet a single guy also from a contact mag for a mfm.

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

He was 19 with an ex, started with friends then turned in to clubs and eventually sites like this. She is only just starting to venture in to it at 34

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I was 24.

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Started with first wife when we 30 then I started again when I 63

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

In our 40s

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By *eardAndBoobs69Couple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Late to the party only last year,so early 40's

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By *araphillCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Just last year in 40 s never really admitted to it to each other, our fantasy list , clubs , saunas , etc and when we did it was great , z was bi curious and never knew and we could talk in detail about sexual adventures we did when we were younger , like a weight lifted made the marriage stronger in every-way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 12

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

We were both in our 40s too

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By *avenvalCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We were both 22 we have been swinging for over 45 years loved every minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30s for us. We watched a TV show about it and got really horny. So why no give it a go...

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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Early 20's with an ex, so only a cuple of yrs ago

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Tried in our early 30s but didn't enjoy it at the time. Only come back to it last October

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

40s

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By *unaaapkaMan
over a year ago

Romford

3 year ago when one of my work colleagues introduced me about FAB lol

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By *rC-MrsCCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

I was 37 & MrC 46-just last year. Haven’t looked back!

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

In our early 20’s a few years later we were married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 40 Mrs PT 41

8 years and counting

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I knew I was non monogamous from early on. I couldn't understand why in my mum's TV program a woman was having to choose between the two men she loved. Why couldn't she choose both.

I had my first 3 sum at 18, a few moresums after that

Found parties first, then clubs

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Stumbled into this by accident in my late 30's while camming on a different site. The couple watching asked me to join them. So I did. Then another couple, then another couple and they told me about FAB.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

In my 50s ...led astray by a lady I met on tinder

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"When I was 12"

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By *ast FredyMan
over a year ago

southend on sea

Although I didn’t realise it at the time or at least didn’t know it as swinging probably when I was about 17 or 18. A girlfriend & I use to go to parties where there would be about 8 people all writhing around on the bed although it wasn’t full blown sex. But my girlfriend use to like me going with other girls then coming back & telling her she was the best. I slept with her best mate a few times & on one occasion had both of them together. Then with my ex wife in my 20’s we use to fantasise about a mfm threesum. One drug fuelled night I got my best mate to follow my foot steps as we went upstairs. He stayed next to the door as I got in bed & started playing with her in a position he could see. Then I beckoned him to join us. I’d said that I didn’t want him to fuck her but we everything bar that & the wife loved it. Had lots of great times over the years since

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Started swinging at 25

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By *ast FredyMan
over a year ago

southend on sea

Also I don’t know if it counts but I lost my virginity at 16 to the married mother of a girl I was friends with

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

"Started swinging at 25 "

Snap

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By *xxpineapplexxXCouple
over a year ago

Dorking

What age are other couples when you entered the scene and what got you interested? "

I believe the Mrs was 28 and Mr 33

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

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