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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting! Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left." this sounds shocking lol | |||
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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting! Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left." lol dont blame you not the kinds filth you want lol | |||
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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting! Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left.this sounds shocking lol" Lol I know right lol tbf I have only had a handful of meets and this was my worse | |||
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"A chap I met at a pub, chatting away and he made an excuse to go to his car never came back and blocked me lol as bad meets go that was pretty tame, but I still think he should've let me know he wanted to leave instead of just leaving me sitting there like a melt lol " Yeah it can be hard to say no, but that was just rude. | |||
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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting! Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left." Gross, what an animal! | |||
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"Turned up at the door expecting a 38yo brunette. In fact was 60+ lady who confirmed she was expecting me and if I'd like to come in! She was honest that she lied. I didn't go in. " Omg, nightmare! | |||
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"i once had a meet with another cuck and as soon as i stepped into his house the carpet was sticking to my shoes and then the smell hit me really really bad i just turnned around and walked out it turnned out he was not even a cuck just a single guy who lived in a filthy smelly house" You ever think they were a serial killer trying to lure you in? | |||
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"I met a girl late one evening for a quick meet and went over to hers, she was In a flat and as I approached the building I could hear shouting, I thought maybe it was neighbours. I went up to her flat and could see from the state of the door/ window all smashed up and dirty etc it wasn't the right choice. I could hear some loud shouting now and she then comes to the door ranting saying her dealer is a prick and she just had to sack him off for payment... I could see in the door and it was an absolute state. (I said I'm sorry but you obviously have a lot going on, good luck and I left) Left with an Awful feeling so didn't arrange another meet with anyone for ages after that. Totally different vibe from what I got chatting for months on here." Gross, was probably planning on selling your organs or something | |||
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"Arrange to meet a girl for a drink, I didn’t know the area so I let her pick a spot She picked a very expensive restaurant Didn’t realise how fancy it was until we were sat down. The server looked confused when I said drinks only, she looked extremely confused. Chat was ok, think she just wanted a fancy meal. I finished mine, paid for them both and left " Aw that's sad, sounds like you were a gentleman about it though. | |||
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"i once had a meet with another cuck and as soon as i stepped into his house the carpet was sticking to my shoes and then the smell hit me really really bad i just turnned around and walked out it turnned out he was not even a cuck just a single guy who lived in a filthy smelly house" Thats quite pathetic | |||
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" I’ve had the very very dirty house experience as well. It was a nice normal road with normal house - then the address I was given was for that one house which is a total eye sore and you know the neighbour hate it. I made the mistake to give him the benefit of the doubt and not just drive away - turns out he was living with his mum and it was the worse house I’ve ever seen. Ewe Another one was a guy who turned up at mine, didn’t look like his pics, and was nervous as hell, pretending he was all experienced but obviously not. The death armpit stains from nerves killed the vibes. But that said I’ve had even worse tinder dates hahahah - the guy who opened his mouth and had 4 front teeth missing, the guy who was 20 stone heavier than his pics, the guy who looked like an absolute slob. The list goes on and on… " Oh wow, you must be really unlucky | |||
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" I’ve had the very very dirty house experience as well. It was a nice normal road with normal house - then the address I was given was for that one house which is a total eye sore and you know the neighbour hate it. I made the mistake to give him the benefit of the doubt and not just drive away - turns out he was living with his mum and it was the worse house I’ve ever seen. Ewe Another one was a guy who turned up at mine, didn’t look like his pics, and was nervous as hell, pretending he was all experienced but obviously not. The death armpit stains from nerves killed the vibes. But that said I’ve had even worse tinder dates hahahah - the guy who opened his mouth and had 4 front teeth missing, the guy who was 20 stone heavier than his pics, the guy who looked like an absolute slob. The list goes on and on… Oh wow, you must be really unlucky " Went on loads of vanilla dates at a stage haha. And tbh lots of women have bad stories to tell!! | |||
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"I met with girl off Bumble. Perfect date, very flirty, lots of dirty talk and then she asked me back to hers. We enjoyed a couple of hourse of really aggressive amazing sex. Roughly 5 mins after we had finished she started to cry and shout at me because i had let her sleep with me on the first date. I tried to calm her and point out that she had odviously enjoyed her self. She continued to get ever more aggressive until she went down stairs and started smashing her house up. I started getting dressed ready to leave when i heard her going through the cuttlery draw. I jumped out the window onto the grass and she continued to come outside, screaming and tried to chase me with a small knife. Neighbours called the police and it wasn't her first violent offence. 2 weeks later she called again and asked if i wanted to go round" Jesus | |||
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"I met with girl off Bumble. Perfect date, very flirty, lots of dirty talk and then she asked me back to hers. We enjoyed a couple of hourse of really aggressive amazing sex. Roughly 5 mins after we had finished she started to cry and shout at me because i had let her sleep with me on the first date. I tried to calm her and point out that she had odviously enjoyed her self. She continued to get ever more aggressive until she went down stairs and started smashing her house up. I started getting dressed ready to leave when i heard her going through the cuttlery draw. I jumped out the window onto the grass and she continued to come outside, screaming and tried to chase me with a small knife. Neighbours called the police and it wasn't her first violent offence. 2 weeks later she called again and asked if i wanted to go round Jesus" I was praying alright | |||
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"Mine was just a social thank god. The short version of the story goes as follows: I saw this femboy online and he looked so damn cute in his pics so we arranged a meet and were just gonna hang out, play football and maybe get drinks after. I made it clear that this wasn't a sexual date aswell as I just couldn't be arsed with all the prep to be honest. I show up at the train station to collect him as he asked me too which was fine. I get there and I tell him what I was wearing as I couldn't see him anywhere! Turns out I have probably walked past him several times as I get tapped on the shoulder and am greeted by a guy whose pictures were most definitely deceiving as he was significantly heavier than his pics and didn't even resemble much of a femboy aesthetic. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt because I'm young and stupid so we hang out for a bit, play football and then just kinda chill awkwardly at my place and he's really trying to initiate sex but I just keep trying to change the subject. Eventually I contacted my bf and told him to try and call me with an excuse for me to send him home. Thankfully my bf came in clutch with an amazing master plan and I managed to get him out of my house. It was a critical lesson for me as it taught me the importance of verifying someones identity through a cam chat before any form of meeting." I bet that was horrible in your own home! | |||
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"Being stood up 3 times..not even bother to tell me..just blocked.on the same day. " That's savage man | |||
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"Now I don't think I'm Gods gift, but turned up for one meet and the girl in question wouldn't have looked out of place as Hagrids body double... Totally nothing like the pics she'd sent, and her house was minking ! ... made my excuses and left.. lol" You're a better man than me... I had a similar situation but stayed anyway because i was so worked up for it | |||
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"A chap I met at a pub, chatting away and he made an excuse to go to his car never came back and blocked me lol as bad meets go that was pretty tame, but I still think he should've let me know he wanted to leave instead of just leaving me sitting there like a melt lol " The man must be an idiot. You look amazing x | |||
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"When that didn't work, I was pushed against a wall, groped slightly and kissed. I got the hell out of there quickly " I hope you reported him to the police, that was sexual assault. | |||
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" Alexis snapped and said in a loud voice "NO now fuck off". I was shaking with laugher at that point as they got out the car with him slamming the door really hard." | |||
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"It's amazing all these awful people actually seem to get meets yet some of us decent people never even get responses let alone dates ?? " That was one of the three meets l have had, the other two, a BBW and a couple, were fine, thank God! | |||
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"I met with girl off Bumble. Perfect date, very flirty, lots of dirty talk and then she asked me back to hers. We enjoyed a couple of hourse of really aggressive amazing sex. Roughly 5 mins after we had finished she started to cry and shout at me because i had let her sleep with me on the first date. I tried to calm her and point out that she had odviously enjoyed her self. She continued to get ever more aggressive until she went down stairs and started smashing her house up. I started getting dressed ready to leave when i heard her going through the cuttlery draw. I jumped out the window onto the grass and she continued to come outside, screaming and tried to chase me with a small knife. Neighbours called the police and it wasn't her first violent offence. 2 weeks later she called again and asked if i wanted to go round" Whoa, you win so far | |||
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" I’ve had the very very dirty house experience as well. It was a nice normal road with normal house - then the address I was given was for that one house which is a total eye sore and you know the neighbour hate it. I made the mistake to give him the benefit of the doubt and not just drive away - turns out he was living with his mum and it was the worse house I’ve ever seen. Ewe Another one was a guy who turned up at mine, didn’t look like his pics, and was nervous as hell, pretending he was all experienced but obviously not. The death armpit stains from nerves killed the vibes. But that said I’ve had even worse tinder dates hahahah - the guy who opened his mouth and had 4 front teeth missing, the guy who was 20 stone heavier than his pics, the guy who looked like an absolute slob. The list goes on and on… " Oh lord I can so relate with dating apps! The 20yr old picture is a classic, I always ask for a selfie now! Catfish isn’t just women! | |||
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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting! Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left." Oh I have had this as well lmao | |||
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished' - The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again. - the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead - there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more." I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove? | |||
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"Met a guy for a social at a pub. He decided to loudly ask what I was into, question after question while there was a family with young kids next to us. I quickly made my excuses. He never got the hint and insisted on walking me to the train station, continuously asking me to go back to his. When that didn't work, I was pushed against a wall, groped slightly and kissed. I got the hell out of there quickly. Had the nerve to message me a few minutes later looking for another meet. Not only no but hell no. Blocked and reported " I am far from perfect but some of the things I'm hearing about guys behaviour on here is genuinely cringe worthy and surprising | |||
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished' - The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again. - the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead - there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more. I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove?" Own what sorry? | |||
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished' - The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again. - the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead - there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more. I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove? Own what sorry?" | |||
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished' - The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again. - the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead - there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more. I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove? Own what sorry?" sorry, i mean cum early with confidence and continue with a point to prove. Or don't stop pleasing you whilst they get sorted? | |||
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished' - The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again. - the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead - there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more. I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove? Own what sorry?sorry, i mean cum early with confidence and continue with a point to prove. Or don't stop pleasing you whilst they get sorted?" I'm not interested in anyone proving a point after I've already been disappointed In ny eyes all I'm doing is setting myself up to get disappointed a second time | |||
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished' - The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform - The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again. - the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead - there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more. I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove? Own what sorry?sorry, i mean cum early with confidence and continue with a point to prove. Or don't stop pleasing you whilst they get sorted? I'm not interested in anyone proving a point after I've already been disappointed In ny eyes all I'm doing is setting myself up to get disappointed a second time " aww that's sad to hear. I'm sorry those experiences have made you feel like that. It should never be like that and isn't nice to hear alot on here | |||
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"Another time i was meeting a 'single' guy near his house. He then asked me to get in the boot of his car so his neighbours didn't see me go into his house and tell his wife !" Omg | |||
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"This still angers me to this day. We invited a guy in his late 50s to our home. I explained very clearly condoms was a MUST. The bastard tried to bareback me doggy style. Thankfully hubby saw and stopped him!!! Mrs C " He should consider himself lucky that he didn’t leave with his balls in Tupperware. | |||
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"This still angers me to this day. We invited a guy in his late 50s to our home. I explained very clearly condoms was a MUST. The bastard tried to bareback me doggy style. Thankfully hubby saw and stopped him!!! Mrs C He should consider himself lucky that he didn’t leave with his balls in Tupperware." It all happened so quickly, I was quite upset, the rush was just to get him out. I felt so violated. I won't ever host at home again Mrs C | |||
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"Well after reading this thread it never ceases to amaze me how many people are willing to go into a complete strangers house and suprised when things go pear shaped. Crikey it's safety 101 always meet in a public place first. And if you are continuously meeting up with bad people maybe change the way you vet people before meeting up. Just a suggestion." Good advice, I'd also reccomend having a phone call first, if they don't sound like your type over the phone, you can leave it there without a wasted journey. | |||
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