FabSwingers.com forum: What am i doing wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This subjects probally been touched a few times, i try be polite have face pictures and have been varified but still no join when trying to speak with people. Hard work ! Guys i feel the pain. Any tips and pointers apriciated.

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By *ankman69Man
over a year ago

WILLENHALL

Just keep being nice, lots of guys on here you and I are just one among many.

I never send abuse it’s not in my nature but lots do.

My frustrations are you get a message they reply and get blocked I find that rude but it. Might be that they are not who they say they are, lots of guy pretending to be couples and women, I can see through most of them fakes now

Just keep being you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers for the positivity mate apricated

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As has been said you're one among many.

Do you think women appreciate scratching an itch?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Scratching an itch ?

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Matlock

Pretty boring profile, doesn't tell/show anything. Cannot accommodate....... we automatically think "he's married" or, still lives with parents.

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

In all fairness your profile isn't exactly enticing. Good luck though.

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By *ankman69Man
over a year ago

WILLENHALL

"Pretty boring profile, doesn't tell/show anything. Cannot accommodate....... we automatically think "he's married" or, still lives with parents. "

I would listen to Shelly, they have a great profile and I have watched them grow since they first showed up.

Also as a couple they will know more about our profiles than us in what they are looking for.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Pretty boring profile, doesn't tell/show anything. Cannot accommodate....... we automatically think "he's married" or, still lives with parents. "

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By *avskataMan
over a year ago

London

"This subjects probally been touched a few times, i try be polite have face pictures and have been varified but still no join when trying to speak with people. Hard work ! Guys i feel the pain. Any tips and pointers apriciated. "

Well, matey, you have blocked all males to start. So, you approach the situation heavy yourself, no wonder the consequences.

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

You’ve come here with expectations. There are a lot of people on fab. Spend more time here, in forums. Let people see what you’re like, how you interact, rather than just bulk sending unrequited messages. Go to clubs, you’ll most likely meet fabbers there too.

Your ego is a bit bruised, don’t take that too much to heart, everyone has an ego.

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Pretty boring profile, doesn't tell/show anything. Cannot accommodate....... we automatically think "he's married" or, still lives with parents.

I don’t understand why people would as you say automatically think married or lives with parents ? Some may have kids at home and want to keep their private life private ? Or have lodgers . You just don’t know"
I’ve been a fabber for years, it’s a bit sad that people automatically think it’s because someone is married and so what if they are. It’s much worse to intentionally target married people than married people looking for sex outside of the marriage. People should try to be a lot less judgmental and pay more attention to their own attitude.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Scratching an itch ? "

You say you have a few itches to scratch. That doesn't really make people feel special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One shit picture that could be anyone and uninspired profile like most men.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Need more content on profile, pics and words

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Matlock

"Pretty boring profile, doesn't tell/show anything. Cannot accommodate....... we automatically think "he's married" or, still lives with parents.

I don’t understand why people would as you say automatically think married or lives with parents ? Some may have kids at home and want to keep their private life private ? Or have lodgers . You just don’t know I’ve been a fabber for years, it’s a bit sad that people automatically think it’s because someone is married and so what if they are. It’s much worse to intentionally target married people than married people looking for sex outside of the marriage. People should try to be a lot less judgmental and pay more attention to their own attitude. "

We choose not to meet married men as they're cheating and we don't agree with cheating at all and from the last 15 years on the site, unfortunately most of the men we start to chat to and their profile states cannot accommodate, 9 times out of 10 it comes out that they're married! There are a few like has been said it is for other reasons but that is very very few.

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