FabSwingers.com forum: Premature Ejaculation

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a guy I see, he's hot, confident, but cums in less than a minute. What can he do to last longer without us messing about with sprays or creams?

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Have you tried edging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let him give you oral and he’ll be ready again in ten minutes

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Cock rings can help keep it hard.

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By *edtabCouple
over a year ago

Sexville Birmingham

Have a wank before meet...

Might help...

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I have a guy I see, he's hot, confident, but cums in less than a minute. What can he do to last longer without us messing about with sprays or creams? "

Maybe it’s because you are so damn sexy.

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

Get him to do the 7 times table in his head while fucking

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Kegels, legs and core workouts can really help guys.

Sometimes it can be psychological too. Too excited, worrying about it happening which is often a vicious cycle, etc.

Does he cum so quickly with you on top? Guys I’ve chatted to often say it’s their thrusting motion which makes them cum fast. The woman being on top can help make it last a bit longer.

As someone else said, edging. Foreplay and edging, relaxing, then doing again.

I’ve never used a cock ring but I hear they help!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"I have a guy I see, he's hot, confident, but cums in less than a minute. What can he do to last longer without us messing about with sprays or creams?

Maybe it’s because you are so damn sexy."

Uhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually flattered by a fast cummer and then take my time easing them up for round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let him give you oral and he’ll be ready again in ten minutes "

This ^

Tried allsorts over the years. Best way for me is to finish from a bj at the beginning, pull out the tongue and hand combo for 10-15 and I'm good to go. He needs embrace rather than worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a wank before meet...

Might help...

Thinking the same

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By *immy0169Man
over a year ago

london

"I have a guy I see, he's hot, confident, but cums in less than a minute. What can he do to last longer without us messing about with sprays or creams? "

Don’t say to him “ faster faster im ready to cum”

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

A slower pace of thrusting in and out also helps.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I find girl on top helps, ideally quick bj and play for half hour or so and I can go again, even at my age, just need regularfwb or f buddy

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"I have a guy I see, he's hot, confident, but cums in less than a minute. What can he do to last longer without us messing about with sprays or creams? "

tell him to have a wank 20 mins before meeting you.

He should know. its dangerous going out with a loaded weapon. empty bullets out then much safer way to last the night away.

Lock n load baby, lock n load

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Stop telling him you're about to cum, that's a serious trigger

As others have said, edging him, or if he does shoot too quick enjoy being a pillow princess and get yours, he'll be ready ever that

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few things but have to build it up, have a wank before a meet, edging so when he walks stop when he feels like he might cum, when having a piss stop mid flow and then start again etc, but will take months most likely.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

To paraphrase There’s something about Mary. He needs to clean his pipes before a hot meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't help sorry as I have the opposite problem LOL

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By *issRose36Woman
over a year ago

Ashington

"I have a guy I see, he's hot, confident, but cums in less than a minute. What can he do to last longer without us messing about with sprays or creams? "

Get rid of him if his not learnt to control it by now he never will. Nothing worse than shit sex.

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I use Emla cream, it's a numbing cream that desensitises the penis, totally works but best to wait a few minutes before putting the condom on x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I have a guy I see, he's hot, confident, but cums in less than a minute. What can he do to last longer without us messing about with sprays or creams? "

Wear a Donald trump full latex face mask, should last for hours

*disclaimer he might not be able to even get an erection

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I suffer from premature ejaculation. I cum in seconds. I am submissive and it doesn't bother me anymore. But there was a time when I did try to fix it. Couple of things which gave moderate results are - Kegel exercises and cumming just before the meets. Thick condoms also have moderate effects.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Bring him on as a substitute 85 mins into the match once you have worn the other guy out first.

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Tell him to go to his doctor. That could be s medical condition. They’re medication that helps that. Other factors such as high blood pressure and stress etc do it also.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I have a guy I see, he's hot, confident, but cums in less than a minute. What can he do to last longer without us messing about with sprays or creams? "

why don t you ask him yourself if he s there putting his penis inside of you ???

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I have a guy I see, he's hot, confident, but cums in less than a minute. What can he do to last longer without us messing about with sprays or creams?

why don t you ask him yourself if he s there putting his penis inside of you ???"

He might have asked OP to come on here for advice

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By *r-p-mrs-cCouple
over a year ago

near dumfries

Emla 5% numbing cream.

Use pea size amount around head of penis, 15-20 minutes before sex.

Wipe off before sex or your mouth or pussy will go abit numb.

If he struggles to get hard due to numbness, use cock ring or hair bobble as cock ring.

Thank me later.

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Emla 5% numbing cream.

Use pea size amount around head of penis, 15-20 minutes before sex.

Wipe off before sex or your mouth or pussy will go abit numb.

If he struggles to get hard due to numbness, use cock ring or hair bobble as cock ring.

Thank me later. "

It works for me and it feels brilliant having control, only problem is you don't feel as sensitive but if it gives the girl pleasure, I don't care

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