FabSwingers.com forum: Turn off

By *oneybee1001 OP Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?

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By *4DY-FWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Messages telling me they’re free now and what I should wear for them…

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester

HW - beards, dirty fingernails, untrimmed pubes.

SB - close up shots of a fanny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Telling me I won't be disappointed.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"

All the demands and specifics of desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes really close up fanny shots

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"HW - beards, dirty fingernails, untrimmed pubes.

SB - close up shots of a fanny. "

I'm with you up to the point of beards! How could you?

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Telling me I won't be disappointed.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Oh yes really close up fanny shots

I quite like close up fanny shots. Is that a man thing?

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Messages telling me they’re free now and what I should wear for them…

Come on. That's just information!

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"

I'm not keen on the hi without a photo. I hate some usernamez!

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Spunk all over a woman’s face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes really close up fanny shots

I quite like close up fanny shots. Is that a man thing?"

Must be?

There's fanny pictures and then there's fanny pictures!!

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Cream pies and pouting pics, untidy backgrounds are also off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn offs are usually things like people being hairy or people that are overweight.

Ill insta delete messages from people that are either self identified sissies or people calling me a sissy as I can't stand either.

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"

Blow jobs with loads of saliva

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich

"What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"

Profile with “ Queen” names

Only bbc

No meeting just for forum

Delete

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Smoking or creampie pictures, and long lists of requirements to the point that there's literally nothing about them in their profile. Oh, and the ones clearly just looking to peddle their "content". Those are probably my biggest ones.

LvM

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

beards

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By *hillman789Man
over a year ago

Middlewich

Over perscriptive requests on profiles without actually meeting face to face. Too many tattooes or piercings. Smokers. People who say 'babe' or 'darling'? Oh, stocking with hold ups and no suspenders.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Status updates reading like Facebook posts.

Long lists of "won't" or negative stuff.

Definitely ignore....

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By *illie69Woman
over a year ago

leeds/wakefield

57 dick pics from different angles

Cum shots

Messages asking if I wanna meet now obv not read my profile . Also the same messages over and over copied and pasted . If I didn't reply the first time I'm not gonna reply the tenth time either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over perscriptive requests on profiles without actually meeting face to face. Too many tattooes or piercings. Smokers. People who say 'babe' or 'darling'? Oh, stocking with hold ups and no suspenders. "

You don't need a suspender belt with hold ups. Hence the name?

Stockings however do require a suspender belt.

Just felt I needed to point this out

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Single guy profiles that contain action shots with other women..(I always wonder if consent has been given for the pics to be used) x

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

"57 dick pics from different angles

Cum shots

Messages asking if I wanna meet now obv not read my profile . Also the same messages over and over copied and pasted . If I didn't reply the first time I'm not gonna reply the tenth time either

So 56 dick pics is the magic number then?

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"

I’m sick of getting messages asking me if I’m free right now, like I don’t have a life or anything even worse when I’ve never even spoken to her before

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By *ualityNotQuantityUKCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Got to agree with the close up shots, sexy underwear is always more appealing than no underwear in a strangers pic.

Also couples who say they won't reply unless you send a face pic yet they have little or no pics on their profile.

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By *illie69Woman
over a year ago

leeds/wakefield

"57 dick pics from different angles

Cum shots

Messages asking if I wanna meet now obv not read my profile . Also the same messages over and over copied and pasted . If I didn't reply the first time I'm not gonna reply the tenth time either

So 56 dick pics is the magic number then? "

Maybe 55

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Won’t send face pic.

Negative profiles. Lots of restrictions on profile example age 40-41, circumcised, 10plus inch manhood, six pack, with no grey hairs. Lol. Be easier to mount a 747 in a snowstorm

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

the Dromara hills

Demands pics but has no pics.

Profile shorter than their latest status.

Lamp post pissers in local feeds.

Apart from that, I'm good.

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By *heerfulbullMan
over a year ago

London

What I find a turn off on a woman’s profile is when they push hard for the list of things they don’t want to receive in their DMs.

On one hand it’s understandable they try hard to filter out the insane amount of messages they receive every day. Still I feel like often it’s about common sense. There is no point to add obvious items to the few of us caring about their profiles. The less caring guys are most likely the same guys with lack of common sense.

I want to know what they really want, not all the names they don’t want to be called with. They are giving away useful information to dumb competitors of mine

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Couple profiles full of just the woman ,when they're looking to meet other couples.Makes it so hard to see if there would be any sort of attraction.

In messages anyone calling me baby/hun/nawty etc.Or messaging again when I've deleted or said no thanks before.

Asking wuu2/in2.

Profiles of men with more women featuring in than them & just their hand /cock in the pic.

Profiles with no pics that add pics so they can bypass the filter and message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"

Men crying about women having preferences

Ultimate turn off

Ask those man if they have preferences though and they most definitely will but it seems to be OK

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By *oneybee1001 OP Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

So, summary so far ...

* 57 dick pics from different angles (56 might be the magic number though lol)

* close up fanny shots (agreed)

* negative profiles listing loads of 'don't wants' (tiresome)

* little or no pics - especially when asking for messages to contain pics

* cum shots

* pics or vids with others (yeah I've wondered about the consent thing too)

Did I miss any?

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare

Mmmmmm

Don't be shy

Cock shot over a toilet

Take my load

Pubes so long/thick would need a whacker to find anything

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"Telling me I won't be disappointed.

And 'best you've ever had'.

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By *heerfulbullMan
over a year ago

London

"Mmmmmm

Don't be shy

Cock shot over a toilet

Take my load

Pubes so long/thick would need a whacker to find anything

Don’t be shy

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Status updates saying balls need emptying now or need sucking .

Heavy Cummer

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By *oneybee1001 OP Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

"Status updates saying balls need emptying now or need sucking .

Heavy Cummer

Oh I'm totally with you on that! And then adding pictures of the full hanging balls, dayam man!

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Messages from single men fhat totally ignore the fact that we're a couple and just messaging me about how they can offer me x,y,z that noone else can.

Read the profile and acknowledge the both of us is always a good start lol

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

And the gropers in clubs that seem to think if you're there its ok to touch you without asking... not ok

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Not really a profile thing. We were at a club a while ago, had arranged to meet another cpl. All was going well.

We all went out for a smoke & he proceeded talk to his partner like something he'd stepped in.

Now that might be thier thing, but it really isn't ours.

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By *teve691000Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

People that ask you to message them with there password (pink panther suks cock) or something bizarre, can I not just send them a dic pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women that say they are into watersports.

Might be a kink to some but not me

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Pubes so thick and hard they clean up the burnt fat of the BBQ grill with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pubes, I can't stand big ol' bushes. Too many noises, like I get voicing your pleasure, but making too much noise seems like acting and is off putting.

On a different note, in porn, I can't stand smaller dicks, like it doesn't get me going ya know.

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london

"What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?

Blow jobs with loads of saliva "

Nah blowjobs with loads of saliva are the best

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Rough feet

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Definitely telling me I won't be disappointed and I should give it a try ! Not politely taking no for answer or trying to put husband down xx

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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW

"Pubes so thick and hard they clean up the burnt fat of the BBQ grill with them."

Hahahahha, def this too

Close up pics of fannies

And dquirting is def not my thing either - I just dont get it

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty

1. Prima donnas

2. illiteracy

3. Stupidity

4. Obesity

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Hairy bits both not into them, trimmed or shaved x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random cock pics

Random friends request

Being Disrespectful

Men messaging as though it’s a single p

Hairy bum gapping holes

To make a few

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Too hairy

Random friend requests

Timewasters

Messers

Couples Profiles where no female

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By *ustyMayfair85Woman
over a year ago

Mayfair/Travelling

Pushy

Facial hair

Cock pics

Bad spelling and grammar

Weird car sefies (WHY?)

Pictures of unprotected sex

Treating women on here like esc0rts

"hi how are you"

"mmmmmmmmmm"

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

A lot of women's profiles are just lists of things they don't want. I get it, the men on this site have worn down your patience, but the negativity emanating from these profiles puts me off immediately.

Also close up pussy pics, especially the hairy ones oozing cum. Makes me feel ill to look at them. Pussy pics only work if the pussy is IMMACULATE, and even then, one pic is enough!!

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Being called babe or honey... In fact being called anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being called babe or honey... In fact being called anything!

Xx"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sun bed pics

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By *lackduffyMan
over a year ago

london

Personas Hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything mentioning bareback

Anything mentioning meet now

Anyone who has fully nude photos.

To put a positive spin on I like photos that tease the imagination enough to make you want more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the arrogance from some men in couples profiles. Most are sound with a sense of humour but a small minority think they’re gods gift to the world. I can’t be bothered with folks like that tbh, we’re all human and we’re all looking for a similar thing on here there’s no reason to be a dick.

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By *illUpMySensesMan
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

"Got to agree with the close up shots, sexy underwear is always more appealing than no underwear in a strangers pic.

Also couples who say they won't reply unless you send a face pic yet they have little or no pics on their profile. "

Have to agree with this. Less is soooo much more and ignites the imagination.

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

When they want me to rearrange my schedule to suit theirs, when they say "what are you going to wear for me?" I literally want to scream. Biggest turn off ever!!

The whole "I'm local and free can you meet now?"

Or I'm staying in a hotel near you on such a date and would you like to join me?!

Or that they "need" to experience one of my bjs.. Wtaf do they think I'm a charity??

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sooo much I'm probably more turned off than on scrolling fab, where to start.....

Entitelled people.

Rude, demanding profiles.

The any holes a goal crew.

Close up cock pics.

Dirty fingernails in pics.

Gaping arsehole pics.

Areshole pics with piles.

Close up vag pics.

Pics where someone needs to tell the poor fucker they need a Dr.

Dirty backgrounds.

Kids belongings/pics in photos.

Them men that think all they need is a cock pic to get laid then cry no one wants to meet.

The bunny boilers that won't take a polite no thank you.

The couples that think I'll fuck the man without seeing him.

Women that assume I'm attached to them because I'm bi (believe it or not I'm not attached to every man & woman)

That's probably it, reminder to self don't comment on forums when having a bad day.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's

Photos with mess in the background

Single guys hanging out of women

Couples only showing the women

Messages of the ilk, hi, hows yous, etc

Regarding dick pics, we like and close up shots of fannies, I (Mr) like but the Mrs doesn't.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I’m going to shut the door real quick.

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Sits in the corner.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Profiles that state no "overweight" people when it is clear that one of them is obese.

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By *oneybee1001 OP Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

"Profiles that state no "overweight" people when it is clear that one of them is obese.

Hey, just to play devil's advocate here, just because you're overweight, doesn't mean you have to fancy overweight people lol!

I'm a woman and don't fancy women

, I'm also overweight and tend not find overweight guys up my alley, you like what you like

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Being msg from people who think are smart like work or ex work colleagues

People who request face picture

People who request penis pictures

People who ask for web camera

People who are too perfect

People who have dolphin tattoos :-

D in their bellybutton or celtic theme tattoosin their lowerback or bee's in their arms

just kidding

Nothing put me off till they put me off

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Nurses defenitly they put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A stalker we have that keeps trying to access our private pics

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

People who announce that they are leaving and then don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications on their profile.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Profiles that state no "overweight" people when it is clear that one of them is obese.

Hey, just to play devil's advocate here, just because you're overweight, doesn't mean you have to fancy overweight people lol!

I'm a woman and don't fancy women

, I'm also overweight and tend not find overweight guys up my alley, you like what you like

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Verifications on their profile.

Verified people turn you off?

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"

Any profile with a list of demands

Copy and paste messages

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Demanding, inconsiderate, disrespectful and other similar attitudes and behaviours. Lazy, lack of effort, etc

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By *iscreetAndFreakyMan
over a year ago

walsall

Picking partners based on height gives me the ick and I’m not even short before you come for me!

Demanding pics but has no pics themselves Is super annoying

Adding and not chatting

The list could go on…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us it's

Photos with mess in the background

Single guys hanging out of women

Couples only showing the women

Messages of the ilk, hi, hows yous, etc

Regarding dick pics, we like and close up shots of fannies, I (Mr) like but the Mrs doesn't.

Couples only showing the women. That's 90% of couples profiles unfortunately

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

-Pictures that contain more of who you're fucking than you, especially when you're not wearing a condom in ANY of them.

- Gaping fanny or anal pictures.

- Long and/or dirty fingernails.

- Messy backgrounds in pictures.

- Spunking cock pics.

- 10,000 pictures of your cock and not much else.

- Refusing to send a face picture but trying to convince me that I WILL find you attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications on their profile.

Verified people turn you off?

Yes.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"What turns you off in this scene?

Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?

Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?

And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"

On a womans profile, lots of gyni shots. The pussy held wide open.

On a blokes, nearly every picture is of his cock. Is he saying, he is a prick?

As for deleting a message, the usual one line copy and paste message.

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Instant delete are

1) Any messages that talks about meeting up for a social /getting to know me.

2) Any messages that offers to meet up in a hotel.

3) Messages from Wales as they have not read my profile

But the biggest instant delete is using the word Lady .

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Women /couples-Will only meet men with meet verifications. Will only meet gym fit blokes .

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

When first message is a cock pic and then totally forget we are a couple

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Anything on their profile that mentions the following

Dom/sub/alpha/daddy

Anything to do with their dick in their name ie hung/thick etc.

Also discretion assured

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Dick pics as profile pics or profile full of cocks and nothing else

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Explicit pics especially cum pics are huge turn off for us.

Asking for something which we don't do despite clearly mentioning in the profile .

One line questions like " what you into ?"

Hidden pics on profile .

Mentioning "No Asians" on profiles

(That's instant block from us )

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Asking for face pics on first message when they have non on their profile. Don’t mind sending if we have spoken first.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We find profiles with nothing my gynaecological pics or dozens of dick pics a turn off.

DMs with zero effort, or those that only address Mr are instantly deleted, as are ‘fancy a fuck’ and ‘meet now’ messages. Put some effort in and we’re likely to reply!

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