FabSwingers.com forum: Sub or dom

By *ilverfox for you OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

What are you ? Or can you switch ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Nope

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"What are you ? Or can you switch ?"

I'm Dom and no I cant switch others can do what they like

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Top for sure. Tried switching but I always end up topping!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope

Same, just can't get into roles... just go with flow and enjoy lol

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Learning to be Dom and he's very much a sub now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im mostly dom but can switch depending on the mood with the woman Im with

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I literally have no idea… honestly

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I'm very switchy depending on the chemistry.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Neither. I prefer equality in the bedroom as a rule.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally submissive xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not submissive that’s for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

evolving switch. finding it fun to explore. depends on the partner

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Tried to be Dom a few times when I first started Uni, but by the end of first year found my true calling and was a sub cuckold in chastity

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By *etsdance1987Man
over a year ago

Runcorn

Submissive to older men and woman and can switch with similar age to me

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Depending upon the chemistry a Dom if it's desired

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Instinctively and passionately dominant……until I met a lover who knew how to control me. She drives me wild!

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My preference is to be sub. I occasionally switch but I need to receive my share

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By *ubforfandcoupleMan
over a year ago

pontardawe

Sub, but I can switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get asked this a lot if we would like a dom or sub but neither of us are into that at all with others or each other.

Seems to be popular though

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

Sub

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By *addyyBoyyCouple (MM)
over a year ago

stoke on trent

I'm Dom only I couldn't sub for my partner, it's what makes us both tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been naturally sexually dominant

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

sub and cant switch or be Dom.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Male sub. Definitely not dom in the bedroom at all.

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

All three.

Dom sub and switch!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub

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By *arried_DanniWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Definitely sub but I have dabbled with being Dom a couple of times

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By *istressmystiqueeWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Domme but not a fan of switching...

Unless the guy has a monster cock as I'm a bit of a size queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely Dom, cannot even comprehend me being anything else

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By *issy_named_cTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Definitely a switch.

Have great Dom skills,

Which always makes me wonder why I chose such a distinctively one sided moniker for on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lean toward Dom but who doesn't love a woman who knows what she wants?

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By *acksmith22Man
over a year ago

cannock

More top Dom but if with right person willing to try sub

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Both a pair of switches here

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Neither one nor the other here either,

we both like to switch things up to keep things exciting and fun

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

I’m very much a sub, which is ironic as l have the time physicality of a cliche Domme.

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

He's a D type, doesn't switch. She's an s type, has been known to switch in the past.

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By *ustdoomnowMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm a dom. I tried both when I started out on the journey but found I was a shit sub, lol, so stuck being a dom.

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By *atiekat90Woman
over a year ago

runcorn

I’m very submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I`m very sub and love it. karen

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

I’m cooperating when it’s right, so mutually sub is optimal

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

Her is 100% Bi-Domme.

Him is a Bi-switch

Always happy to chat to ladies and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood ??

Mainly dom so far thou

But some days u just wanna go with the flow ??

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Switch, but definitely more Domme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub. I can never dom

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Definitely sub with the right person. I can’t do Domme.

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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago

South

Sub

My partner is my mistress.very strict.im kept in chastity and expected to do as she says without question.

She also has child lock on my phone that she can see everything I do on it or lock it remotely.all porn and gambling sites are locked etc.

First started as a bit of play but now she loves the power and it's series.i have do all chores and get points or minus points for things I do or don't.she has set points to when I reach I can cash in for sexual acts from her..but it's hard.

As I said was a game at first between us bit of fun..then she slowly got series with it..I kinda wanted to stop but went with it..now I'm basicaly her servent and if I don't well no sex for me..she still gets hers tho..uses vibes Infront of me or makes me wear strapon.

Would I take it back maybe once but to far Into it now..we still are a normal couple but she wears the pants and rules everything.

I'm mainly domiyin my life so to give it up to another to be sub is very hard

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I (Mr) would probably say I'm switch, but due to Mrs being almost 100% towards the sub end of the scale, I'm generally in charge most of the time.

Hence our interest in confident ladies who might be up for controlling the pair of us

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

tend to be top/ dom but can switch

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

T is sub, I love her to switch sometimes. She just loves to please.

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford

Go with the flow suppose I’m a switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr is not really a dom but always takes charge during sex.

Mrs is not really a sub but always follows the hubby's lead when it comes to sex.

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

All about being a switch.

More naturally a dom with wife, and previous sites I enjoyed meeting women who were dipping into bdsm and very new after a well know book/film made it ‘popular’

My wife isn’t great at switching, so me as a switch don’t get to explore sub side as much. Equally it’s not a must in a meet it’s like anything part of communication and bdsm is a wide ranging scale of being a sub or dom

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By *tevie1Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Very much a sub and like to please and serve

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By *isterE ManMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Totaly switch!!

Happy being tied and abused, as much as drawing and punishing!!

Love to find friends who like both too! But happy to stick with one or the other. Or even neither!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch. But it depends on the scenario and who I'm with. But generally.. With guys I'm S and with women I'm equally D/S if they're happy too.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

It's a no for me

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

I’m definitely a submissive xx

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

totally sub to my wife and her lovers or anyone else im allowed to meet

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Very Dom I could switch depends how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub m Dom f

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Am sub x

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Meta.

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By *ek2023Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Am bottom/sub but can switch

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester

"What are you ? Or can you switch ?"

Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switcher depending on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a sub. I don't like to switch

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I'm very much a switch, depending on my mood and the situation.

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

Im dom untill my fb gets the toys out then im very much her sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On Fet as sub, bottom, property

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By *inky-JTV/TS
over a year ago

Lutterworth

Absolutely sub

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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Switch here

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

St Georges tower

Depends who I'm playing with...mostly Dom

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By *ijay_AnansiMan
over a year ago

Wembley

Dom and I have the evidence in my pics

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By *azzler2Man
over a year ago

halifax

Dom

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By *iiimanMan
over a year ago

london

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By *iiimanMan
over a year ago

london

"What are you ? Or can you switch ?"

Dom

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By *opemCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Our roles are clearly defined and never change. Male=Dom and Fem=sub. Always looking to play with like minded folk.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Naturally sub, but can switch and enjoy it!

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Am sub bi single xx

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By *otfun75Man
51 weeks ago

leeds

I’m very submissive

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Chichester

Neither as I am not really into bdsm so don’t adopt those monikers

I am either sexually active or passive with people. In regards to penetration or receptive sex

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Neither as I am not really into bdsm so don’t adopt those monikers

I am either sexually active or passive with people. In regards to penetration or receptive sex "

Agree with this… all depends on the situation and who I’m with…

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
51 weeks ago

Leicester

Male half here, I can switch but on with the right couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Im dom only

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Nowhere

Sub

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Submissive couple

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By *manda_SparklesTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Preston

Submissive Bottom - can switch at times and handy with rope

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Im dom, never a Beta

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
49 weeks ago

Within touching distance

Wife is sub hubby can switch

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Switcher

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Switch at heart but usually more Dom leading

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