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By *aksy OP   Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Hello Fabsters,

Please help me settle a debate - is shower sex overrated or not?

Answers with reasons on a postcard, please!

Oaksy

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Logistically difficult but worth it

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By *nnaHereWoman
over a year ago

York

Massively overrated! X

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Yup.

Water is a crap kind of wet. I have unreasonably long legs that make it very difficult on the angles. It's slippy in the wrong ways. I can't wear my heels or fishnets in the shower. Someone is always not enough under the water to stay warm.

Fuck that noise.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Personally I think overrated.

Never the amount of room to be ideal, wet skin is actually more chafing than dry and you spend half your time worrying you’re going to slip and injure yourself

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I do think it’s overrated

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Massively overrated - same as hot tub sex.

Step on water with your feet, the most slippy thing on the planet. Have sex, the least slippy !

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By *aksy OP   Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Massively overrated - same as hot tub sex.

Step on water with your feet, the most slippy thing on the planet. Have sex, the least slippy !"

Couldn’t agree more. I have a confession to make… I found your profile earlier and had to add you to my Hotlist… those videos are fire!

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It's a no from both of us, to be honest we actually don't like it all

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Environmentally terribly wasteful too, unless (a) it’s cold (which probably defeats the object) or (b) extremely short (which I can do )

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Massively overrated - same as hot tub sex.

Step on water with your feet, the most slippy thing on the planet. Have sex, the least slippy !

Couldn’t agree more. I have a confession to make… I found your profile earlier and had to add you to my Hotlist… those videos are fire! "

Thank you, glad you enjoyed - there’s even a shower sex photo on there

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I enjoy sex in the shower, but always find a shower wank takes longer than a normal wank.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

What about those morning showers together after sleeping with a new partner? When you say “I’m going for a shower. Want to join me?” Those times where you’re still exploring each other’s bodies and it’s fun to do it under the warm water with all that lather. Not that you fuck in the shower. That’s a logistical fail waiting to happen. But that shower together is foreplay. Warm, slippery, wet, naked foreplay. And then you can fall back into bed together and fuck with wet hair.

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By *aksy OP   Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"What about those morning showers together after sleeping with a new partner? When you say “I’m going for a shower. Want to join me?” Those times where you’re still exploring each other’s bodies and it’s fun to do it under the warm water with all that lather. Not that you fuck in the shower. That’s a logistical fail waiting to happen. But that shower together is foreplay. Warm, slippery, wet, naked foreplay. And then you can fall back into bed together and fuck with wet hair."

Those glasses really are rose-tinted, aren’t they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower sex has its moments.

For example, on a beach holiday when you’ve spent the day in a bikini and he’s been teasing you, you walk back to your hotel with an outdoor private shower, yes please.

Or a massive hotel shower with dual rainforest shower heads, especially if there’s a shower seat built in. It’s as if the shower was made for sex.

As for the height difference, easily solved (for some) by being picked up and pressed against a wall.

At home, it’s fun once in a while but can be more challenging. The best is when it starts on the shower, you switch off the taps and move from the bathroom to a bed, dripping wet and continue. Then, there will be a mess of water all over but easy enough to tidy up.

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By *aksy OP   Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"I enjoy sex in the shower, but always find a shower wank takes longer than a normal wank. "

That’s probably a whole other debate. If my old science teacher was still alive, he’d be able to tell us… he wanked in the shower at school all the time… wait, hang on a second…

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"What about those morning showers together after sleeping with a new partner? When you say “I’m going for a shower. Want to join me?” Those times where you’re still exploring each other’s bodies and it’s fun to do it under the warm water with all that lather. Not that you fuck in the shower. That’s a logistical fail waiting to happen. But that shower together is foreplay. Warm, slippery, wet, naked foreplay. And then you can fall back into bed together and fuck with wet hair."

I'm supposed to let them stay til morning?!

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By *aybail-238Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

Like why is there so much grip in the shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about those morning showers together after sleeping with a new partner? When you say “I’m going for a shower. Want to join me?” Those times where you’re still exploring each other’s bodies and it’s fun to do it under the warm water with all that lather. Not that you fuck in the shower. That’s a logistical fail waiting to happen. But that shower together is foreplay. Warm, slippery, wet, naked foreplay. And then you can fall back into bed together and fuck with wet hair."

I’ve kept this up with my partner for over a decade. So long as we’re in the same place. Every morning we shower together. It doesn’t always lead to sex mind. There’s always the moan of me needing extra hot water and his dislike of such hot showers. Tbf every man I’ve ever showered with has said I’m mad for how hot I like the water.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Hello Fabsters,

Please help me settle a debate - is shower sex overrated or not?

Answers with reasons on a postcard, please!

Oaksy"

Yes.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Yup.

Water is a crap kind of wet. I have unreasonably long legs that make it very difficult on the angles. It's slippy in the wrong ways. I can't wear my heels or fishnets in the shower. Someone is always not enough under the water to stay warm.

Fuck that noise."

Exactly this!

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Hello Fabsters,

Please help me settle a debate - is shower sex overrated or not?

Answers with reasons on a postcard, please!

Oaksy"

Nothing wrong with being clean. What have I been missing out on. Only had shower sex once! Wedding night, many years ago. Never think about it, to be honest. Apart from the occasional thought, 'why didn't you shower more...'

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I think it’s over rated, prefer outdoors fun

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

It's all good clean fun. And I always cum clean.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think showering together is an intimate thing and hands exploring but actual sex takes a much bigger shower than the one I have... and a bit of a danger zone for footing!

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Hello Fabsters,

Please help me settle a debate - is shower sex overrated or not?

Answers with reasons on a postcard, please!

Oaksy"

Overrated after I fell out of one during doggy, she found it hilarious by the way

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By *aksy OP   Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Hello Fabsters,

Please help me settle a debate - is shower sex overrated or not?

Answers with reasons on a postcard, please!

Oaksy

Overrated after I fell out of one during doggy, she found it hilarious by the way "

At 8” aren’t you technically a tripod?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overrated in my experiences as each time happened at my old uni. Showers were tiny

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By *tagvixen40Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Completely depends on the situation and who it's with for me.

Dangerous though, I broke a rib a few months ago doing it

Jake

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Hello Fabsters,

Please help me settle a debate - is shower sex overrated or not?

Answers with reasons on a postcard, please!

Oaksy

Overrated after I fell out of one during doggy, she found it hilarious by the way

At 8” aren’t you technically a tripod? "

Good one!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

HUGELY overrated!

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Shower foreplay....yes great fun

Shower post sex cleanup....yes great fun

Shower sex? Nah give me a nice soft warm bed any day. That's my knackered knees and back talking

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

I wonder if this will turn into a Mass Debate.....

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Shower foreplay can be fantastic.

Unless it’s some really amazing hotel type shower, they aren’t really designed for having sex in them.

Water is a rubbish lube also!

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By *aksy OP   Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"It's a no from both of us, to be honest we actually don't like it all "

I’m right there with you. Actually, having had a quick peek at your pictures, I absolutely would be right there, with you.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We have a big shower and have been lucky enough to share it with several lovely single ladies.

Nothing anyone says will taint those memories.

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By *urious_CB22Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

It's great foreplay to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy it. Trouble is if I fall to my knees as usual, I could end up drowning!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve got quite a big walk in shower and have had some good times with us both and additional people

Sex against the wall tiles is fantastic - although so cold for a few seconds

K

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

Watching a guy having a soapy play whilst he's in the shower is soooo horny...tight balls and his hard cock all soapy and water just running down to the end of his cock... Even a guy just washing in the shower all soaped up is horny as too...

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By *rjamesMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I used to shower with my former partner after joint exercise and it would get us so turned on we couldn't not have sex right then and there. The practicality of it however depends very much on the shower itself and/or the heights of those involved.

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london

It’s overrated, It looks good in the movies but in reality not the greatest

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Over rated, largely uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overated. Get too wet, hard to do anything and nearly past out last time due to the heat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overrated

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By *ookonthebrightside71Man
over a year ago

fife

I like showering with someone but not having sex. Just lathering each other up hands over each other

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By *yeSureMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Overrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slippery !!

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By *rjamesMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Overated. Get too wet, hard to do anything and nearly past out last time due to the heat "

Too wet?! That cracked me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower sharing is a beautiful thing.

Water cascading, soapy massage, the combination of warm body and cold tiles, kissing under the water, hair washing and scalp massages. It's incredibly erotic, intimate and lots of fun.

I mean obviously the right shower helps.

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By *ookonthebrightside71Man
over a year ago

fife


"Shower sharing is a beautiful thing.

Water cascading, soapy massage, the combination of warm body and cold tiles, kissing under the water, hair washing and scalp massages. It's incredibly erotic, intimate and lots of fun.

I mean obviously the right shower helps. "

Exactly that

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Absolutely. This!

I always love getting back into bed afterwards too. All shiny clean and soft. Invariably horny to start all over again!

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"Massively overrated - same as hot tub sex. "

That depends on the hot tub. If it's one of those ones with a molded plastic bottom, then I'd agree.

If it has benches like they have at clubs, then one of the best places to have sex!

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By *ewsexycplCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Not the biggest fan (Mr P) it's slippery and desensitizing but Mrs E does enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower oral sex is amazing, but penetrative sex in the shower not always as good as you/we hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy sex in the shower, but always find a shower wank takes longer than a normal wank.

That’s probably a whole other debate. If my old science teacher was still alive, he’d be able to tell us… he wanked in the shower at school all the time… wait, hang on a second… "

Think your science teacher had a little problem lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can honestly say we have never fucked in the shower, well not each other anyway.

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By *heppy35Man
over a year ago

manchester

I think the thought of shower sex is much better than the reality. Not enough room, awkward and cold if not under the water.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Not as erotic as I thought, try body to body with oil, slips in so easily, has to be bare though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

walk in showers are the best, bathrooms with good ventilation essential.

depends on the above to see how much fun can be had

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It is a bit. The water is the wrong sort of 'wet'.

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By *ipvanwinkieMan
over a year ago

out of town!

It’s better on paper

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Overrated

Mrs

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

A decent disabled roll-in shower with plenty of grab rails and a seat can be great fun

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By *aksy OP   Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Overrated

Mrs "

So where is the most UNDERRATED place you’ve had sex?

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

It can be fun, but my ex had 34 inch legs and although in no hobbit it did make it trick to get in the right position.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Definitely good for an occasional bit of fun but not on a regular basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over rated, once the steam gets going it awfull. I nearly died im sure hah

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