FabSwingers.com forum: Has dogging died?

By *ad_buddies OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Dogging used be be something that was always fun. The exhibitionist buzz, the random participants, and risk of getting caught all made it super exciting.

Now, we've noticed, the dynamic has changed. People just want to turn up and film any action on their phone, which kills it for us.

Anyone else experience this?

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By *R.MandMRS.TCouple
over a year ago

lurgan

When we organise some dogging we tell people no phones out and if one does come out we just stop and leave

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Seems like it

Definitely a lot less happens these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.. The whole phone business spoils it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never had anyone get phones out at a dogging site. We don't let anyone else take photos of us we have on occasion taken our own photos with everyone else involved been in agreement and we always blur faces out and any tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would help if locations were advertised properly somewhere

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By *R.MandMRS.TCouple
over a year ago

lurgan

"It would help if locations were advertised properly somewhere "
thats what killed dogging its one of those if you know you know the moment a spot is made public its ruined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what puts us off is the peope filming without consent

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Looks very seedy x

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"It would help if locations were advertised properly somewhere thats what killed dogging its one of those if you know you know the moment a spot is made public its ruined "

Exactly this, it also attracts all sorts of undesirables to a location. Usually the sort who would get out their mobile phone and attempt to start filming………

We’ve never had anyone try this.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"That’s what puts us off is the peope filming without consent "

Same here! Sadly this is one of many examples where technology and people's attitudes to it have ruined it. Definitely don't want everyone and there dog seeing our lovely faces plastered across the internet

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Only ever tried once and was full of scruffy looking chavs and oaps. Don't know what we expected but wasn't that lol.

The old rord ranger banged a rapid u turn and bailed. I suppose if organised with people you want to meet could be fun. But it was pretty seedy and minging not going to lie. But hey each to their own xx

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By *k_guy3468Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Can't say I've ever seen anyone trying to film or take pics unless it's the couple themselves, can only imagine how off putting that would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ever tried once and was full of scruffy looking chavs and oaps. Don't know what we expected but wasn't that lol.

depends where you go and the times, but if you know some quiet locations you can arrange private fun and just invite people, its what weve done before

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

"Only ever tried once and was full of scruffy looking chavs and oaps. Don't know what we expected but wasn't that lol.

depends where you go and the times, but if you know some quiet locations you can arrange private fun and just invite people, its what weve done before"
exactly the way to go about it

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By *ab_hopperMan
over a year ago

uk…

There’s lots of places in n around york you get the couples places and the cruising places full of guys but it changes night by night and certainly time of day!!

I’ve ventured to both and never seen a phone out!! But I also believe invite is the way forward!!

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

It still goes on near my neck of the woods in Surrey.

I attend when I can but its always organised. I never just turn up and loiter around car parks for hours upon end waiting to catch a glimpse of pussy.

I only ever attend if I get invited

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By *dsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

We've never had anyone else filming us. On occasion we've taken a few pics and vids ourselves with permission which we've sent on to them but none of the guys have ever done this.

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

Police and do gooders spoli5 it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s lots of places in n around york you get the couples places and the cruising places full of guys but it changes night by night and certainly time of day!!

I’ve ventured to both and never seen a phone out!! But I also believe invite is the way forward!!

never seen any couples around york? usually have to go out of york

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Never had this problem when I started going dogging, they didn't have cameras on them...Yep, I'm that old and been doing it that long.

I used to be a regular very small group of nice guys and everything was word of mouth. Polite and manners.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"That’s what puts us off is the peope filming without consent "

It's also what puts me off from Dogging...I don't want to appear on social media or any porn site

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

Only been dogging once and that was with a group of friends. I had my mask on the whole time bc you never know who will catch you slipping. I wasn't taking chances.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

Camera phones has killed it.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i think it as tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dogging regularly and never had anyone pull out a phone, the regulars that go dogging know the etiquette

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By *ester.jamesMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"dogging regularly and never had anyone pull out a phone, the regulars that go dogging know the etiquette"

Just looking at your account makes me want to give it a go

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

time of the year, spontaneous dogging can be seasonal. when weather warms it gets busier.

But I have found Autumn a bit of a busy time less public and kids back at school.

Organised stuff is usually spring and summer.

cctv is another problem even rural areas are cammed up to catch fly tippers and farm theives.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I have a place not far from me which u frequent when I get the urge, it does all that I need but u do think dogging is on the decline sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make sure to tell those I arrange it with strictly no phones if one comes out it stops. And you can deal with all the upset guys!!

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Some people have careers and jobs and not dole freebies... I think the whole point of outdoor fun is being invisible blending in and still getting off.. not winding up in jail for a so called thrill session

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By *ikki.newcastleTV/TS
over a year ago

Washington

Certainly doesn’t seem very active in the North East or maybe I’m looking at the wrong places x

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By *hicDragon08Man
over a year ago

Woodbridge

Be interesting to see if it still.goes on in suffolk?

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not much seems to happen in my area now. I'd say about 30% of the time there's a female around. The times they are around I've never seen a phone camera out. It's an easy thing to blame.

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By *arkSugarMan
over a year ago

Hereford

No it has not but it’s now a last option cause of what has happened yes the phone ?? messed it up big time an people just seem to can’t live in the moment we used to have some good spots in hereford I was out the other night a car of lads pulled up an was driving an shouting like wtf it’s just sad now even if you advertise the place u will get all sorts coming an not for what it’s ment to be.

Let’s make a group for doggers only an see if we can restore some fun back to it ??

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By *Spicey4MeMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Only ever tried once and was full of scruffy looking chavs and oaps. Don't know what we expected but wasn't that lol.

That sounds awfully seedy

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

" I have a place not far from me which u frequent when I get the urge, it does all that I need but u do think dogging is on the decline sadly."

How much of this to do with the last few years of lockdown. I feel people are less likely to go out in general. And a lot of people who want to go into the woods don't know how to go about it and are worried. So its a clusterfff of issues and obstacles. People can't relax around others anymore.

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By *andA123Couple
over a year ago

cannock

Dogging up Cannock Chase isn’t dead but just got to find the right time to be there thinking of going Friday if mrs is up for it after work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few places near us thatAre still used

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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Its a shame because I've watched some lovely couples enjoying themselves, it's about watching and hoping for an invite. Why do people have to film everything, it's better to watch for real if you want to film watch some porn

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not dead but there’s been a noticeable downturn in couples going to known dogging spots.

It’s always been hit and miss, always but chatting with other regular doggers here in Notts and further abroad it would seem spontaneous dogging is more and more ‘miss’

I have my theories for why this is and FAB, where you can organise outdoor meets, could well be a major factor.. that and folk advertising meets and not racers turning up and being dicks..

Ho hum, I’m still waiting for that sex starved/ craved Swedish netball team to turn up one day..

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

There used to be q couple of really good places in Stanmore and rickmansworth. But camera phones and the police spoilt it

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By *trongArms123Man
over a year ago

South East

I’ve been going dogging for over 20 years and the amount of activity is significantly lower than it used to be but I’ve never ever seen anybody take videos or photos without consent.

Saying that, I think the main reason dogging has declined is because of some single guy behaviour.

For example, last week I turned up to a site and there was a guy playing with a couple through their car window. I always approach slowly in this situation and I did so again. I got to about within 10 metres and the single guy, probably in his 60s stormed over to me and told me to F off.

This is why I try to only do pre arranged meets now and have actually found better places to go with the couples!

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By *ighnboxCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Its all to hit and miss when your don't get much free time. A pre arranged outside car meet is a better way of doing that type of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Type in Dogging locations it should come up with all the dogging sites. Karen

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Dogging up Cannock Chase isn’t dead but just got to find the right time to be there thinking of going Friday if mrs is up for it after work "

It does attract the wrong types sometimes, we’ve seen all sorts up there in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men & dogging Some guys are great others should leave it well alone. Karen

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By *opeandgloryMan
over a year ago

Bury st edmunds

Have found the same over the years have had the privilege of visiting some of the best dogging locations across the UK where there was always fun to be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had some fab times out dogging good company now its guys demanding you play. Karen

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

yeah think its seen its day now ,, so much bad things to go with it now and moral ethics of doing things in public view ...

the risk of getting charged for indecent exposure, people filming you and uploading online/ peopple taking your car details and finding out who you are and posting what you get upto.. . wronguns out to rob people/gaybash / intimate etc

I think its a thing that is well on its way to being pushed back back into the closet from its hey day

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