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It's a myth isn't it?

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By *incs-couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Boston

Before getting into the lifestyle, going to clubs, and being on FAB, did anyone else think that this was all a myth? I used to think it was just something made up by TV shows in the 70s, maybe it happened in the big cities, but not in the small town I love in, Jesus was I wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't think it was a myth but we was surprised how many couples participated in this lifestyle.

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

Definalty more people either into the scene or open to it. I thought friends would be shocked but most are like wow sounds fun. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very wrong to say the least, society has suppressed it as it does many things! Wanting to control aspects of our lives

The question is

Is it human nature or are we just kinky as fuck ?

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By *ill12369Man
over a year ago

knutsford chesh

Been into the scene for about 8 yrs pity i didn't find out about this 30 yrs ago

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

Dudley

We have the internet to thank for making the swinging scene more accessible, I knew swinging had always been around much the same has the cross dressing/ trans community

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By *assP69Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Very wrong to say the least, society has suppressed it as it does many things! Wanting to control aspects of our lives

The question is

Is it human nature or are we just kinky as fuck ?

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Kinky as fuck lol x

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

There’s a reason why women can have multiple partners but the male is “spent.”

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By *ednesday 2023TV/TS
over a year ago

Stortford

it has grown with the internet, but there was a thriving scene before, and very enjoyable as there were few timewaisters and if it meet was planned, in my experience, it always went ahead.

Happy Days

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We hadn't thought it was a myth but we were surprised to see how active and lively the scene is

C x

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Much like the fetish scene pre internet can remember when it was all done through personal ads in newspapers and loot .people had to be vouched for before attending parties etc

A lot less fakes and idiots as you didnt last very long .happy days

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By *ankman69Man
over a year ago

WILLENHALL

Been into the lifestyle for as long as I can remember.

Me and my first wife got in to it after a trip to stud land beach where a guy started wanking over her pussy and ended up fucking her, such a turn on.

We started in the swinging adds now that was fun and no quick dates lol.

She even appeared in fiesta, so much fun

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By *ankman69Man
over a year ago

WILLENHALL


"Much like the fetish scene pre internet can remember when it was all done through personal ads in newspapers and loot .people had to be vouched for before attending parties etc

A lot less fakes and idiots as you didnt last very long .happy days "

Took a lot of effort back then lol, to much for the fakes

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Much like the fetish scene pre internet can remember when it was all done through personal ads in newspapers and loot .people had to be vouched for before attending parties etc

A lot less fakes and idiots as you didnt last very long .happy days

Took a lot of effort back then lol, to much for the fakes "

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I remember the days of The Journal of Sex with swinging ads at the back, it was a two stage process to contact someone, and a two stage process for them to reply, with JoS claiming a fee for faciliting it. Nobody in their right minds would do this unless they were serious about meeting!

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Like several posters on this thread, I started in the 80's and tried the awkward magazine process but my then wife and I just found we were surrounded by more sexually liberated people than we ever imagined; we just had to give out a few hints.......

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

Just wish I knew sooner

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham


"Much like the fetish scene pre internet can remember when it was all done through personal ads in newspapers and loot .people had to be vouched for before attending parties etc

A lot less fakes and idiots as you didnt last very long .happy days

Took a lot of effort back then lol, to much for the fakes

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I remember the days of The Journal of Sex with swinging ads at the back, it was a two stage process to contact someone, and a two stage process for them to reply, with JoS claiming a fee for faciliting it. Nobody in their right minds would do this unless they were serious about meeting!"

I'd love to hear more about the process. Were photos involved ?

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By *8nightloversCouple
over a year ago

close by

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not surprised as dogging in itself has been going on as I know since the early 80s was popular locations that I and my friends familiar with which then found funny and tempted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the heady days of car keys in the bowl at the tennis club!!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Before getting into the lifestyle, going to clubs, and being on FAB, did anyone else think that this was all a myth? I used to think it was just something made up by TV shows in the 70s, maybe it happened in the big cities, but not in the small town I love in, Jesus was I wrong!"

We should have joined sooner

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By *am and johnCouple
over a year ago

york

There used to be a contact mag in Yorks, Gwenap Flyer, that was full of ads, 'tho never sure how many were real apart from ours!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I think back to when I was between the ages of 13-16 in the early 1980’s kicking a football against a wall in our alley and every so often I would look up and see a naked man and naked woman looking out down on me sometimes waving at me and I wonder if they were swingers

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

When I first came across the little black book

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By *onny DangerousMan
over a year ago

Nowhere Town Aycliffe

Always seemed like a myth before I discovered fab.

Now I’m a single guy on fab and it might as well be a myth lol

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

I think you'll find it's as old as the hills. It's just that nowadays it's more out and open and people are very very much more broad-minded and accepting and tolerant. Each to their own as they say.

Decades ago your film stars etc kept their homosexuality firmly hidden rather than be "out and proud", and their sex lives were wild and "swinging", and so too were the "straights".

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley

I remember a notice board in a sex shop near where I went to uni 20ish years ago that was free for women to put ads on and the men paid to put their ads up or leave a message for the women. Prior to that I used to get a contact mag delivered to my flat for a previous tenant but I thought it was all bullshit and just trying to make money from desperate men.

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By *ednesday 2023TV/TS
over a year ago

Stortford


"Much like the fetish scene pre internet can remember when it was all done through personal ads in newspapers and loot .people had to be vouched for before attending parties etc

A lot less fakes and idiots as you didnt last very long .happy days "

Loot was good, it was like the exchange and mart, with a contact section, local free adds papers and I even met a couple through Chanel 5 teletext "Other relationships"

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Much like the fetish scene pre internet can remember when it was all done through personal ads in newspapers and loot .people had to be vouched for before attending parties etc

A lot less fakes and idiots as you didnt last very long .happy days

Took a lot of effort back then lol, to much for the fakes

---------------------

I remember the days of The Journal of Sex with swinging ads at the back, it was a two stage process to contact someone, and a two stage process for them to reply, with JoS claiming a fee for faciliting it. Nobody in their right minds would do this unless they were serious about meeting!

I'd love to hear more about the process. Were photos involved ? "

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Photos were a rare treat unless you had a Polaroid camera!

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham


"Much like the fetish scene pre internet can remember when it was all done through personal ads in newspapers and loot .people had to be vouched for before attending parties etc

A lot less fakes and idiots as you didnt last very long .happy days

Took a lot of effort back then lol, to much for the fakes

---------------------

I remember the days of The Journal of Sex with swinging ads at the back, it was a two stage process to contact someone, and a two stage process for them to reply, with JoS claiming a fee for faciliting it. Nobody in their right minds would do this unless they were serious about meeting!

I'd love to hear more about the process. Were photos involved ?

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Photos were a rare treat unless you had a Polaroid camera! "

Woah of course !!!

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