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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, what's the most effective opening messages you all have? Small talk or straight to the chase? Compliments or questions? I'm intrigued

Also, what would you say is an opening message that would simply never work out for you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The initial message isn't really significant as far as we're concerned. If we like the look of a person we'll reply. Its the subsequent messages that count

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The initial message isn't really significant as far as we're concerned. If we like the look of a person we'll reply. Its the subsequent messages that count "

I like this, makes a lot of sense. I guess it's just about standing out from the first message and the profile and personality show from there

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The initial message isn't really significant as far as we're concerned. If we like the look of a person we'll reply. Its the subsequent messages that count

I like this, makes a lot of sense. I guess it's just about standing out from the first message and the profile and personality show from there"

Some people request an interesting first message. I literally have no idea what that means.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The initial message isn't really significant as far as we're concerned. If we like the look of a person we'll reply. Its the subsequent messages that count

I like this, makes a lot of sense. I guess it's just about standing out from the first message and the profile and personality show from there

Some people request an interesting first message. I literally have no idea what that means. "

Hahaha, I'm with you on that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The initial message isn't really significant as far as we're concerned. If we like the look of a person we'll reply. Its the subsequent messages that count

I like this, makes a lot of sense. I guess it's just about standing out from the first message and the profile and personality show from there

Some people request an interesting first message. I literally have no idea what that means.

Hahaha, I'm with you on that "

I would find little known facts about Henry the eighth interesting

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

Most single women get bombarded with:

Hi

How are you?

Up to much?

Plans for the weekend?

Let's fuck

Its boring. For me, I do summarily dismiss these messages.

Ask an interesting question.

Read the person's profile and try to gauge what they might be interested in and maybe ask a question about that.

Its not a magic formula for a reply but its so much better than anything listed above.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic ? … … usually I ignore

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