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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need some advice. One of my best mates ex wifes have messaged me on fab. They sent me their pics in fkrst message amd asked if i wanted to chat. I haven't responded, should I? I dont know if shes aware its me or not. Always wamted to fuck her before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a risky one

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Part of me says you're both adults and it's nobody else's business.

The other part of me says that the potential for drama isn't worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will be honest im not sure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest im not sure . "

I understand... its a mate but also u have felt that way a while ...

Need to look at all possible outcomes

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness

Ask your mate if it's ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha yeah i think might know the answer

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness


"Haha yeah i think might know the answer"

Dilemma solved then

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Ask your mate if it's ok"

Does he need an ex partners permission? This is where I'm conflicted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha yeah i think might know the answer"

End of the day it all comes down to you

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

Your best mate?

I think your answer is there!

If you go near her he's not your best mate.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Your best mate?

I think your answer is there!

If you go near her he's not your best mate."

But she's not with him. Are friends ex partners out of bounds for ever?

I've never been in this situation I must admit

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By *ossman0168Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I started chatting to a mates ex wife on here, I sent her pics and she recognised me, met up for a social then a few days later for a great afternoon of fun, think it might have been a revenge fuck on her behalf but I wasn’t complaining

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By *ambsfunMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Best place to ask should I fuck someone on a site designed to help people have sex...

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I say go for it, so long as you don't mind losing your friendship.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He isnt my best friend. As wouldnt do.that if he was but i cant lie i really want to fuck her.

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By *tarting2exploreCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Yep, go for it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He isnt my best friend. As wouldnt do.that if he was but i cant lie i really want to fuck her."

If he not that close and not gunna cause much drama .. why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need some advice. One of my best mates ex wifes have messaged me on fab. They sent me their pics in fkrst message amd asked if i wanted to chat. I haven't responded, should I? I dont know if shes aware its me or not. Always wamted to fuck her before."

I would think how I would feel if it was the other way around before I’d make any decision like that tbh.

For me, it’s a no-go

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By *ambsfunMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"He isnt my best friend. As wouldnt do.that if he was but i cant lie i really want to fuck her."

Do you want some help with her?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gone for the couples advice.. i have just messaged her back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gone for the couples advice.. i have just messaged her back."

Never know if you never try

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By *alleysBoiMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

She's his ex, can't see no issues unless he's still in love with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's his ex, can't see no issues unless he's still in love with her "

Was it even love though ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gone for the couples advice.. i have just messaged her back."

There is only 2 options

Yes or no

But good luck and keep us informed

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Gone for the couples advice.. i have just messaged her back."

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Let us all know how you got on. This is tantalising stuff, worthy of your chronicles.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?"

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Don't tell her! She's been breadcrumbing me for months. She's a sorcerer and a temptress!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Gone for the couples advice.. i have just messaged her back.

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Let us all know how you got on. This is tantalising stuff, worthy of your chronicles."

Hmmm... perhaps my sarcasm wasn't turned up high enough this evening

LvM

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By *ornyltlfkrMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I wouldn't - plenty of hastle free opportunities elsewhere

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness


"Need some advice. One of my best mates ex wifes have messaged me on fab. They sent me their pics in fkrst message amd asked if i wanted to chat. I haven't responded, should I? I dont know if shes aware its me or not. Always wamted to fuck her before.

I would think how I would feel if it was the other way around before I’d make any decision like that tbh.

For me, it’s a no-go"

I'm sure someone else is fucking my ex wife but I couldn't give a fuck about it.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?"

I think you’re looking at this from the wrong angle. The question isn’t whether it has anything to do with the woman’s ex who she has sex with, it’s whether it’s right to have sex with a best friend’s ex. If they were to have sex then the woman’s ex is going to feel betrayed by his best friend…..we can all say that it doesn’t have anything to do with him who his ex or his best friend has sex with, and he obviously doesn’t have any say in who they have sex with, but he is allowed to feel betrayed and let down by his best friend if he has sex with his ex.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Need some advice. One of my best mates ex wifes have messaged me on fab. They sent me their pics in fkrst message amd asked if i wanted to chat. I haven't responded, should I? I dont know if shes aware its me or not. Always wamted to fuck her before.

I would think how I would feel if it was the other way around before I’d make any decision like that tbh.

For me, it’s a no-go

I'm sure someone else is fucking my ex wife but I couldn't give a fuck about it."

Would you give a fuck if it was your best friend who was fucking her though?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

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Don't tell her! She's been breadcrumbing me for months. She's a sorcerer and a temptress! "

I see you've identified my best qualities

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

I think you’re looking at this from the wrong angle. The question isn’t whether it has anything to do with the woman’s ex who she has sex with, it’s whether it’s right to have sex with a best friend’s ex. If they were to have sex then the woman’s ex is going to feel betrayed by his best friend…..we can all say that it doesn’t have anything to do with him who his ex or his best friend has sex with, and he obviously doesn’t have any say in who they have sex with, but he is allowed to feel betrayed and let down by his best friend if he has sex with his ex. "

Of course he's allowed to feel anything he wants about it but it still has nothing to do with him

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

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Don't tell her! She's been breadcrumbing me for months. She's a sorcerer and a temptress!

I see you've identified my best qualities "

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I meant "sorceress". I haven't tasted your best qualities though.

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Give her the best sex you can and take it from there

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

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Don't tell her! She's been breadcrumbing me for months. She's a sorcerer and a temptress!

I see you've identified my best qualities

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I meant "sorceress". I haven't tasted your best qualities though. "

that would involve my prowess as a sauceress

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think it depends how much time has elapsed since they broke up. If it's fairly recently then I'd say it's not a good idea

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

I think you’re looking at this from the wrong angle. The question isn’t whether it has anything to do with the woman’s ex who she has sex with, it’s whether it’s right to have sex with a best friend’s ex. If they were to have sex then the woman’s ex is going to feel betrayed by his best friend…..we can all say that it doesn’t have anything to do with him who his ex or his best friend has sex with, and he obviously doesn’t have any say in who they have sex with, but he is allowed to feel betrayed and let down by his best friend if he has sex with his ex.

Of course he's allowed to feel anything he wants about it but it still has nothing to do with him"

No one’s said that it’s got anything to do with him, he will feel betrayed and let down so the question is whether it’s ok to do something that you know will make your best friend feel betrayed and let down. Everyone’s free to do whatever they want but obviously we have to consider how our actions will affect the feelings of other people.

The conversation isn’t about the dynamic between the woman and her ex, it’s about OP and his best friend. It’s about how the ex will feel about his best friend having sex with his ex wife, not about whether it’s anything to do with him who his ex wife has sex with. No one’s trying to claim that the ex has any power over who his ex wife has sex with because he obviously doesn’t, neither does he have any control over who his best friend has sex with but if his best friend has sex with his ex wife then he’ll feel betrayed and let down by his best friend so OP is asking for advice about whether he should have sex with his best friends ex wife knowing that he will make his best friend feel betrayed and let down and could possibly loose him as a best friend.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

I think you’re looking at this from the wrong angle. The question isn’t whether it has anything to do with the woman’s ex who she has sex with, it’s whether it’s right to have sex with a best friend’s ex. If they were to have sex then the woman’s ex is going to feel betrayed by his best friend…..we can all say that it doesn’t have anything to do with him who his ex or his best friend has sex with, and he obviously doesn’t have any say in who they have sex with, but he is allowed to feel betrayed and let down by his best friend if he has sex with his ex.

Of course he's allowed to feel anything he wants about it but it still has nothing to do with him

No one’s said that it’s got anything to do with him, he will feel betrayed and let down so the question is whether it’s ok to do something that you know will make your best friend feel betrayed and let down. Everyone’s free to do whatever they want but obviously we have to consider how our actions will affect the feelings of other people.

The conversation isn’t about the dynamic between the woman and her ex, it’s about OP and his best friend. It’s about how the ex will feel about his best friend having sex with his ex wife, not about whether it’s anything to do with him who his ex wife has sex with. No one’s trying to claim that the ex has any power over who his ex wife has sex with because he obviously doesn’t, neither does he have any control over who his best friend has sex with but if his best friend has sex with his ex wife then he’ll feel betrayed and let down by his best friend so OP is asking for advice about whether he should have sex with his best friends ex wife knowing that he will make his best friend feel betrayed and let down and could possibly loose him as a best friend. "

Has the op said that he knows how his friend will feel?

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

Have you told HER that you know who she is/that you have a mutual "friend"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I replied back hinting that we know each other. Shes hasnt replied but not been on for a few hours. Will update u

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

I think you’re looking at this from the wrong angle. The question isn’t whether it has anything to do with the woman’s ex who she has sex with, it’s whether it’s right to have sex with a best friend’s ex. If they were to have sex then the woman’s ex is going to feel betrayed by his best friend…..we can all say that it doesn’t have anything to do with him who his ex or his best friend has sex with, and he obviously doesn’t have any say in who they have sex with, but he is allowed to feel betrayed and let down by his best friend if he has sex with his ex.

Of course he's allowed to feel anything he wants about it but it still has nothing to do with him

No one’s said that it’s got anything to do with him, he will feel betrayed and let down so the question is whether it’s ok to do something that you know will make your best friend feel betrayed and let down. Everyone’s free to do whatever they want but obviously we have to consider how our actions will affect the feelings of other people.

The conversation isn’t about the dynamic between the woman and her ex, it’s about OP and his best friend. It’s about how the ex will feel about his best friend having sex with his ex wife, not about whether it’s anything to do with him who his ex wife has sex with. No one’s trying to claim that the ex has any power over who his ex wife has sex with because he obviously doesn’t, neither does he have any control over who his best friend has sex with but if his best friend has sex with his ex wife then he’ll feel betrayed and let down by his best friend so OP is asking for advice about whether he should have sex with his best friends ex wife knowing that he will make his best friend feel betrayed and let down and could possibly loose him as a best friend.

Has the op said that he knows how his friend will feel? "

Well why do you think that he’s asking for advice regarding whether he should reply to his best mates ex wife’s messages?

OP hasn’t said they’re going to have sex, he’s only said that she’s sent him a message and has asked whether he should reply.

OP hasn’t said that it has anything to do with his best friend who his ex wife has sex with either.

OP hasn’t said that he needs his best friends permission to have sex with her.

OP has said that his best friends ex wife has sent him a message and he’s asked for advice about whether he should message her back. From this I’ve assumed that he knows his best friend will feel betrayed and disappointed with him if he has sex with her so he’s asking whether it’s ok to have sex with her. You’ve assumed from the same information that OP is implying that he needs his best friends permission to have sex with her and you’re questioning whether it has anything to do with his best friend at all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

I think you’re looking at this from the wrong angle. The question isn’t whether it has anything to do with the woman’s ex who she has sex with, it’s whether it’s right to have sex with a best friend’s ex. If they were to have sex then the woman’s ex is going to feel betrayed by his best friend…..we can all say that it doesn’t have anything to do with him who his ex or his best friend has sex with, and he obviously doesn’t have any say in who they have sex with, but he is allowed to feel betrayed and let down by his best friend if he has sex with his ex.

Of course he's allowed to feel anything he wants about it but it still has nothing to do with him

No one’s said that it’s got anything to do with him, he will feel betrayed and let down so the question is whether it’s ok to do something that you know will make your best friend feel betrayed and let down. Everyone’s free to do whatever they want but obviously we have to consider how our actions will affect the feelings of other people.

The conversation isn’t about the dynamic between the woman and her ex, it’s about OP and his best friend. It’s about how the ex will feel about his best friend having sex with his ex wife, not about whether it’s anything to do with him who his ex wife has sex with. No one’s trying to claim that the ex has any power over who his ex wife has sex with because he obviously doesn’t, neither does he have any control over who his best friend has sex with but if his best friend has sex with his ex wife then he’ll feel betrayed and let down by his best friend so OP is asking for advice about whether he should have sex with his best friends ex wife knowing that he will make his best friend feel betrayed and let down and could possibly loose him as a best friend.

Has the op said that he knows how his friend will feel?

Well why do you think that he’s asking for advice regarding whether he should reply to his best mates ex wife’s messages?

OP hasn’t said they’re going to have sex, he’s only said that she’s sent him a message and has asked whether he should reply.

OP hasn’t said that it has anything to do with his best friend who his ex wife has sex with either.

OP hasn’t said that he needs his best friends permission to have sex with her.

OP has said that his best friends ex wife has sent him a message and he’s asked for advice about whether he should message her back. From this I’ve assumed that he knows his best friend will feel betrayed and disappointed with him if he has sex with her so he’s asking whether it’s ok to have sex with her. You’ve assumed from the same information that OP is implying that he needs his best friends permission to have sex with her and you’re questioning whether it has anything to do with his best friend at all. "

We've both inferred different things from the same information. It's interesting isn't it.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

I think you’re looking at this from the wrong angle. The question isn’t whether it has anything to do with the woman’s ex who she has sex with, it’s whether it’s right to have sex with a best friend’s ex. If they were to have sex then the woman’s ex is going to feel betrayed by his best friend…..we can all say that it doesn’t have anything to do with him who his ex or his best friend has sex with, and he obviously doesn’t have any say in who they have sex with, but he is allowed to feel betrayed and let down by his best friend if he has sex with his ex.

Of course he's allowed to feel anything he wants about it but it still has nothing to do with him

No one’s said that it’s got anything to do with him, he will feel betrayed and let down so the question is whether it’s ok to do something that you know will make your best friend feel betrayed and let down. Everyone’s free to do whatever they want but obviously we have to consider how our actions will affect the feelings of other people.

The conversation isn’t about the dynamic between the woman and her ex, it’s about OP and his best friend. It’s about how the ex will feel about his best friend having sex with his ex wife, not about whether it’s anything to do with him who his ex wife has sex with. No one’s trying to claim that the ex has any power over who his ex wife has sex with because he obviously doesn’t, neither does he have any control over who his best friend has sex with but if his best friend has sex with his ex wife then he’ll feel betrayed and let down by his best friend so OP is asking for advice about whether he should have sex with his best friends ex wife knowing that he will make his best friend feel betrayed and let down and could possibly loose him as a best friend.

Has the op said that he knows how his friend will feel?

Well why do you think that he’s asking for advice regarding whether he should reply to his best mates ex wife’s messages?

OP hasn’t said they’re going to have sex, he’s only said that she’s sent him a message and has asked whether he should reply.

OP hasn’t said that it has anything to do with his best friend who his ex wife has sex with either.

OP hasn’t said that he needs his best friends permission to have sex with her.

OP has said that his best friends ex wife has sent him a message and he’s asked for advice about whether he should message her back. From this I’ve assumed that he knows his best friend will feel betrayed and disappointed with him if he has sex with her so he’s asking whether it’s ok to have sex with her. You’ve assumed from the same information that OP is implying that he needs his best friends permission to have sex with her and you’re questioning whether it has anything to do with his best friend at all.

We've both inferred different things from the same information. It's interesting isn't it."

Yes, very interesting that you think that by asking whether he should reply to her messages you inferred that OP was asking whether he needed her ex husband’s permission to talk to her, where as I inferred that he was concerned about the feelings of his best friend and how it might affect their relationship. Maybe OP can enlighten us as to what his concern actually was when he posed the question.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Why is everyone talking about his "best friend"? The op clearly said it wasn't his best friend.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral


"He isnt my best friend. As wouldnt do.that if he was but i cant lie i really want to fuck her."

Why not send her your pic with no words, let her decide what happens next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for replying back hope it turns out well for you

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Following I want to know how this pans out

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"Need some advice. One of my best mates ex wifes have messaged me on fab. They sent me their pics in fkrst message amd asked if i wanted to chat. I haven't responded, should I? I dont know if shes aware its me or not. Always wamted to fuck her before."

One massage won't hurt anyone.

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By *oberto7Man
over a year ago

Greenock

Aye. Fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not because he is my best mate

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By *oadsafun1960Man
over a year ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

My neighbours separated and his wife made a suggestive approach and one thing led to another. I often wonder what he'd say if he ever knew especially as she did things he's told me she never did.

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By *ave38ukMan
over a year ago

haverhill

fucked my mates wife but he was there watching so guess thats ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so slight update she replied and asked for pics. I said this could be awks and sent back mine.

She replied and said well good to put a face to the cock. Always wondered what you looked like with your clothes off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So at least you got reply and by sounds of it she would like ro take things further with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she hot? Always fancied fucking her? Still mates? Tough one but would you regret not fucking her??

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea


"He isnt my best friend. As wouldnt do.that if he was but i cant lie i really want to fuck her."

You literaly said he was in your OP


"Need some advice. One of my best mates ex wifes have messaged me on fab. They sent me their pics in fkrst message amd asked if i wanted to chat. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Decided defo going to fuck her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Decided defo going to fuck her."
good man well done

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincs. yorks.

mates ex wife !!! LOL in your dreams !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mates ex wife !!! LOL in your dreams !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1"
and what makes you so sure he wont

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By *ove2PlayLincsCouple
over a year ago

Gainsborough


"Your best mate?

I think your answer is there!

If you go near her he's not your best mate."

This

Plenty of fish in the sea. Why risk it for a lay? One thing if it's an ex gf from a short relationship but ex wife is something different entirely. Always be emotions involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has explained he is not his mate anymore why are people still getting hung up on this

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Just go for it and see what happens. Relaxed is best way

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By *ritladMan
over a year ago

Taunton


"Decided defo going to fuck her."

Let us know how it goes

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Just go for it and see what happens. Relaxed is best way"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update for anyone interested. Spent the day fucking . Was so hot.

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast


"Update for anyone interested. Spent the day fucking . Was so hot. "

Well....that was an anti climax haha any details you'd like to share?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ask your mate if it's ok

Does he need an ex partners permission? This is where I'm conflicted"

I was kinda thinking the same thing

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By *orruptionandliesMan
over a year ago

leeds

Fill your boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update for anyone interested. Spent the day fucking . Was so hot.

Well....that was an anti climax haha any details you'd like to share?"

Got to love the details

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?"

It doesn't. But it does have something to do with his mate who the OP has sex with because he's a mate.

If X hates Y, and you have sex with Y, don't expect X to be a mate afterwards....

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

More context would help. How good a friend is your friend? Was the breakup amicable or pretty messy? Did the friend seek your advice or confide in you before the breakup? How close were you with the ex before the split?

Depending on the above, you could lose a friend over, potentially, a quick shag. Or you could spark your forever relationship with someone who turns out to be your soul mate AND keep your friend. Or something in between.

The Bro Code™ requires you to clear it with your friend first tho

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By *Spicey4MeMan
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *Spicey4MeMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Update for anyone interested. Spent the day fucking . Was so hot. "

Thought that would happen so it was worth it then? Any plans for a repeat?

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By *ivingthegoodlifeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

But the question is, is she coming back for seconds……… and does she read the forum threads. Lol

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By *obshortMan
over a year ago

Cork


"Need some advice. One of my best mates ex wifes have messaged me on fab. They sent me their pics in fkrst message amd asked if i wanted to chat. I haven't responded, should I? I dont know if shes aware its me or not. Always wamted to fuck her before."

Is she his ex 6 months,12 months. Is he over her or is it still to raw for him.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

It doesn't. But it does have something to do with his mate who the OP has sex with because he's a mate.

If X hates Y, and you have sex with Y, don't expect X to be a mate afterwards....

"

Really!? I can't have sex with someone my friends don't like? . If that was true of my friends I'd be getting some new ones pronto.

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By *urioussimonMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?"

It's not necessarily to do with her and her ex, but more to do with him and his mate and their relationship. If he didn't know him it wouldn't matter like you say, you wouldn't normally ask someone's ex. But the dynamic.has changed in that it's his friend and might affect that relationship. She can obviously sleep with who she wants to.

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By *divingMan
over a year ago

northwich

Go for it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

It's not necessarily to do with her and her ex, but more to do with him and his mate and their relationship. If he didn't know him it wouldn't matter like you say, you wouldn't normally ask someone's ex. But the dynamic.has changed in that it's his friend and might affect that relationship. She can obviously sleep with who she wants to. "

That's reasonable. I can imagine that it might feel a bit awkward. I might mention to someone that I was dating their ex to avoid any surprises socially but I can't see any reason to say I was meeting them on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update for anyone interested. Spent the day fucking . Was so hot. "

Well done

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?

It doesn't. But it does have something to do with his mate who the OP has sex with because he's a mate.

If X hates Y, and you have sex with Y, don't expect X to be a mate afterwards....

Really!? I can't have sex with someone my friends don't like? . If that was true of my friends I'd be getting some new ones pronto."

So you’ll happily do something that you know will upset a mate will you? And if one of your mates does get upset by something you do that is disloyal and disrespectful to him then you’d ditch him as a friend would you?

Are you one of those people who do and say whatever they want to and if people don’t like it then it’s their problem not yours? Or, put another, selfish and inconsiderate….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He has explained he is not his mate anymore "

And no longer in contact from what i get here

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"He has explained he is not his mate anymore

And no longer in contact from what i get here"

When did he say they’re not mates anymore and no longer in contact? I can’t find the posts where OP said that.

All I can see is that in his OP he said it was his best friend’s ex wife but in a later post he said he’s not his best friend, so it is a bit confusing.

If they’re no longer mates and not in contact anymore then i don’t see what the issue is and the whole thread seems pointless. The reason it’s wrong to sleep with a friends ex is because it will upset your friend and it’s not good to upset a friend. Upsetting someone who you’re no longer friends with and have no contact with is much less of an issue, although it’s not good to upset anyone whether they’re a friend or not. Also, if they’re no longer friends will the ex even care that much if he sleeps with her? A friend sleeping with your ex is much more upsetting and difficult to deal with than someone who used to be a friend but isn’t anymore sleeping with your ex.

If the ex is OP’s friend then i think it’s wrong to sleep with her because it’s inconsiderate and disloyal to his friend and will upset his friend….but if OP is no longer friends with the ex and they’re not in contact anymore then i don’t think there’s anything wrong with them having sex. OP has stated that the ex is his best friend, then said he’s not his best friend but hasn’t said they’re not friends at all and no longer in contact so I’m assuming that they’re friends but not best friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He isnt my best friend. As wouldnt do.that if he was but i cant lie i really want to fuck her."

This was 4days ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He has explained he is not his mate anymore

And no longer in contact from what i get here

When did he say they’re not mates anymore and no longer in contact? I can’t find the posts where OP said that.

All I can see is that in his OP he said it was his best friend’s ex wife but in a later post he said he’s not his best friend, "

It is about 15 replys prior to a comment you made 4 days ago

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"He isnt my best friend. As wouldnt do.that if he was but i cant lie i really want to fuck her.

This was 4days ago"

So saying ‘he isn’t my best friend’ means they’re no longer friends at all and they’re not in contact anymore? I didn’t realise that there are best friends and not friends and no longer in contact but nothing in between…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He isnt my best friend. As wouldnt do.that if he was but i cant lie i really want to fuck her.

This was 4days ago

So saying ‘he isn’t my best friend’ means they’re no longer friends at all and they’re not in contact anymore? I didn’t realise that there are best friends and not friends and no longer in contact but nothing in between…"

Pass maybe OP can clarify at some point... maybe there was a dispute, a falling out i do not know

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"He isnt my best friend. As wouldnt do.that if he was but i cant lie i really want to fuck her.

This was 4days ago

So saying ‘he isn’t my best friend’ means they’re no longer friends at all and they’re not in contact anymore? I didn’t realise that there are best friends and not friends and no longer in contact but nothing in between…

Pass maybe OP can clarify at some point... maybe there was a dispute, a falling out i do not know"

Ok. Just weird that he starts the thread by saying he’s his best friend but then later says he’s not his best friend and by saying he’s not his best friend you’ve assumed that they’re not even friends and they don’t have any contact with each other anymore.

The whole thread is about whether it’s ok to have sex with a friend’s ex wife, so for you to assume that they’re no longer friends when OP hasn’t at any point said they’re no longer friends (he only said they’re not best friends) seems a bit weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok my bad ... sorry for miss reading ... please forgive me

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Update for anyone interested. Spent the day fucking . Was so hot. "

Did you decide that you don’t care if you upset your friend then? You’re happy to put your own desires before your friends feelings then? Was having sex with her worth risking losing a friend then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Update for anyone interested. Spent the day fucking . Was so hot.

Did you decide that you don’t care if you upset your friend then? You’re happy to put your own desires before your friends feelings then? Was having sex with her worth risking losing a friend then?"

Yeah i cant lie it was worth it, every second i was inside her. Fucking her again tonight

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Can anyone tell me why it's got anything to do with this woman's ex who she has sex with?"

On a best mate front I smell knives and backs. Respect a best mate or stab them in the back which is all to common this day and age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A chick messaging a guy first and she happens to be his best mates ex… what are the odds…

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Update for anyone interested. Spent the day fucking . Was so hot.

Did you decide that you don’t care if you upset your friend then? You’re happy to put your own desires before your friends feelings then? Was having sex with her worth risking losing a friend then?

Yeah i cant lie it was worth it, every second i was inside her. Fucking her again tonight"

Is she ok with you telling everyone?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

If there's one thing I've learned on this thread is that it's easier to bonk a friend's ex-wife than to get any hanky panky in Hastings.

#SheKnows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need some advice. One of my best mates ex wifes have messaged me on fab. They sent me their pics in fkrst message amd asked if i wanted to chat. I haven't responded, should I? I dont know if shes aware it's me or not. Always wamted to fuck her before."

read the first word of the post title OP.. Mate... keep it that way

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By *hris I IsMan
over a year ago

Essex

A women messaged first hmmm

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By *hank you sirMan
over a year ago

colchester

I think there's no harm in chatting, maybe you should let her know who you are

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

If you’re willing to lose your mate over a shag, go for it. Otherwise I’d prioritise your friendship over sex

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