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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Always amazed at how many post face and nudity pics on here - not afraid of being recognised by family, friends, colleagues or employers?

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

It’s always worried me !

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By *itnakedladMan
over a year ago

Ashtead

It’s a big turn on though. Idea someone you know sees you and they have always wanted you and lists after you

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By *apybarasCouple
over a year ago

High Lighthouse!

If they see me then they are like minded, so ehat is the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose depending on job too

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"If they see me then they are like minded, so what is the issue?"

Not everyone here is "likeminded". Have read complaints from both men and women having been recognised and threatened to be exposed. It's great that you and many others feel safe, but many people don't and fear their lives ruined, so I guess that is all right that some people show their faces and others don't.

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By *lasgowMassageMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't have the 'balls' to post a face pic on here

Although I have sent full frontal nudes to people who I've chatted to and built up a bit of trust with

Have to admit though I do enjoy a face to face wank on Skype now and again

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Each to their own I guess, we all use this place in different ways.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Yeah I get what you mean it’s very ballsy

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I'm get why some people would rather not show Thier face , but I do, and if someone recognises me, then where are on here too doing exactly what I'm doing. And it fact that's a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some naïve people. And some people with no friends or relatives or kids or employment.

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By *airofwinkersCouple
over a year ago

preston


"Always amazed at how many post face and nudity pics on here - not afraid of being recognised by family, friends, colleagues or employers?"

It’s a big no no for us!

Other people to consider, and of course ourselves.

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We don't care at all. Our families know already what we do and have done for many years.

As for being recognised on here. Someone a few doors down from us messaged us lol. We've been recognised in shops but no one comes and says hi, they only send a message saying "seen u in morrisons at so and so time"

Life to short to be worried about being recognised and if they have a problem with us doing what we do, it's thier problem not ours.

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Always amazed at how many post face and nudity pics on here - not afraid of being recognised by family, friends, colleagues or employers?

It’s a big no no for us!

Other people to consider, and of course ourselves."

Same here

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We are all here for the same reason so why not

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm wary of having pics downloaded and put in public domain

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Well personally we don't put our faces on here publicly. Mainly due to the nature of the site and more specifically to avoid creepy behaviour from certain users. How ever you have to accept the risk of any photo you put on here being misused and/or used to recognise you. It's a risk assessment. And yes someone did recognise Mrs still from our photos. It was someone who knew our eldest adult daughter a was very creepy about her being her mum. So this was unpleasant by part of the risks on here.

However it's not a secret we're swingers. Although we don't going telling everyone we don't keep it a secret, we're not ashamed. Lots of our freinds and family know. Also we are naturist in the vanilla world and not ashamed. We are happy to be naked in appropriate public spaces and would have no issue being in any publication or show covering naturism. So although we personally would do this on here we totally understand that to some it isn't a problem being seen and the accept the potential problems with this.

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford

I totally agree. Always amazed at seeing graphic (but awesome) videos with peoples faces in them.

More power to them but I couldn’t imagine doing that. We are pretty conservative with sending face pics, as we have family to consider.

As far as nudity, we show what we feel comfortable with

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"There's some naïve people. And some people with no friends or relatives or kids or employment. "

Yep.

It's not just about you. Whatever your view on open-mindedness and whether you care who sees you as a swinger or not, there are usually other people in your life that have no choice in your decisions.

Especially family.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"I'm wary of having pics downloaded and put in public domain"

Exactly my feeling too. It might be nice to think you'll find your sexy neighbour is on Fab but it's just too risky.

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford


"There's some naïve people. And some people with no friends or relatives or kids or employment.

Yep.

It's not just about you. Whatever your view on open-mindedness and whether you care who sees you as a swinger or not, there are usually other people in your life that have no choice in your decisions.

Especially family. "

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The only reason our faces aren't public is because we've little ones and I don't want them impacted by what we choose to do in our spare time.

Am I afraid of anyone else seeing me on here, absolutely not they are here for the same reasons.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always amazed at how many post face and nudity pics on here - not afraid of being recognised by family, friends, colleagues or employers?"

Some do and some don't

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"We are all here for the same reason so why not "

I do not think everyone is here for the same reasons. A majority might be here for sex with other people but many are just interested in the lifestyle and the forums. Many profiles do say "I do not meet, just here for the Forum" or similar, or not meeting at the moment, or taking a break, and yet they are active in the forums and looking at our profile. Others are simply here as voyeurs, using it as a porn site. So no, not everyone is here for the same reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all here for the same reason so why not "

I would not agree we all on here same reason. I not just talking men wanking. I had ex partner that like looking at swing site top shelf mags etc turned her on but no way would she consider swinging even soft swing . She found looking real people more turn on than porn sites.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I don't have face pics on public because I don't want to be recognised and approached by random strangers from fab when I'm out and about, shopping or with family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what you mean OP.

I heard a horror story from an old friend and his wife who had face/nude pics on here. Somebody from his work recognised the couple, and it got shared all around, then shared around the estate they lived on. They took some grief for it and left Fab not long after

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"I know exactly what you mean OP.

I heard a horror story from an old friend and his wife who had face/nude pics on here. Somebody from his work recognised the couple, and it got shared all around, then shared around the estate they lived on. They took some grief for it and left Fab not long after "

"Somebody from his work recognised the couple, and it got shared..."

This is why we do not share the views that we are all here for the same reasons and that anyone who recognises you here are like mindedpeople.

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