FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys adding meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have any guys ever had any success, by posting a meet request and someone replying and meeting up with you for playtime?

I can imagine it works for females and couples, but not so much for single guys?

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By *arkrobMan
over a year ago

Morecambe

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By *egendmeMan
over a year ago

Erdington

Nope never works women and couples get all the fun aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't work for ladies either, it's not just men that find it difficult on here.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It doesn't work for us! We'll put a meet up when we're going to a club and get little interest, which probably stems from the thread of the club night.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

We've added meets and had 0 interest before, definitely not just guys x

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Guess alot will depend on type of meet, timing, date and yes unfortunately what you are like. There's someone for everyone on here just not everyone will want you. Male,female, couple, CD or TV it won't make a difference, yes some will have more success than others but that's the way of the world unfortunately.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Maybe because most of the meets are arranged last minute why you cant get meets like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't work for ladies either, it's not just men that find it difficult on here."

How does it not work for you i don't get that x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I've only very rarely done it. But yes it has worked once for me. Got me a threesome with a couple for my first Fab meet

LvM

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By *hat a PairXXXCouple
over a year ago

Bath

The meet feature on here can be hit and Miss. In part that’s because people often don’t bother reading the detail. Our only successful use of it was when we posted a meet whilst in Cornwall, clearly saying we were in Cornwall. We got loads of approaches from people who were near where we live offering to come round 5 minutes later! Luckily there was a very obliging chap 15 miles away and a fun evening was had by all.

Don’t give up OP, it’s ultimately a numbers game. If we’re in the market for a third, we might reach out to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see why it doesn't work for couples and women. Most men jump at the chance or do Most not bother showing up

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By *greggorMan
over a year ago

Sydney University

Haha - i bet that comment on here has lit your inbox right up x

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

There problem with posting meets at a club, is there's no incentive to communicate in advance. I've posted where I will be, people know what I look like and can just turn up. If they start talking and we play unless the specifically tell us they saw the meet posted we don't know if that influenced them to go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It doesn't work for us! We'll put a meet up when we're going to a club and get little interest, which probably stems from the thread of the club night. "

Oh really? I thought you'd get plenty of interest, maybe if you were a bit closer to Bath. You'd get more interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The meet feature on here can be hit and Miss. In part that’s because people often don’t bother reading the detail. Our only successful use of it was when we posted a meet whilst in Cornwall, clearly saying we were in Cornwall. We got loads of approaches from people who were near where we live offering to come round 5 minutes later! Luckily there was a very obliging chap 15 miles away and a fun evening was had by all.

Don’t give up OP, it’s ultimately a numbers game. If we’re in the market for a third, we might reach out to you."

Fingers crossed, I'm always up for being a 'third'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible.

Never bother

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Nope never works women and couples get all the fun aha "

Given we exclusively meet single guys, I can guarantee that multiple guys have definitely had fun!

But I totally get your pain, having been on here as a single guy!

However my gf can add a status on her single profile and have a guy turn up and be fucking her within 15 minutes without any real effort!

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By *unkchubbsMan
over a year ago

Leicester

No never, seem to attract guys or in the wrong place at the wrong time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never had a single response to any of the club meets we have put up, we have however messaged people who have put them up and met them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I haven't actually posted any meets for a while, I think the last time I did, was over a year ago on my old profile. But nothing ever come/cum of it.

I'm thinking of getting out there and putting more effort into this site lately, and was just wondering how succesful guys have been.

Maybe I can break the mould and get a meet from a request...

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We never get any interest when we put meets up so definitely not just you.

Kink (f)

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By *okemanGoMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

Try Grindr

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

No, it have never worked

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Have any guys ever had any success, by posting a meet request and someone replying and meeting up with you for playtime?

I can imagine it works for females and couples, but not so much for single guys?"

Always work for me. Usually people from friends list are first to approach and gets priority.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I've never had any luck posting meets. Got lucky responding to one tho

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

The only success we’ve ever had posting a request is when it’s to a club or to a party we’re throwing.

Never had a single meet request responded to otherwise.

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

No nothing,

Will still occ’ly post one as I am the eternal optimist..

I honestly don’t think couples or single fems even look at them, why would they? they get enough attention as it is so don’t have to.

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By *amera man 25Man
over a year ago

Honley Huddersfield

It can work, but not turn out as expected. Invite 10, 5 might turn up and then not at the same time! More of a relay than a group but still fun…

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By *ittleshit-SteveMan
over a year ago

Devon

Very rarely I get any interest. Although, I have previously from people on my friends list or from people interested in attending the club I have posted I am going too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here a few years now have tried different types of meete whether it be social, asking to get to chat to people to looking for a meet actively , non of which seem to get a response .

Don't know if I just don't tickle the fancy of women around here or if I get drowned out in the mass messages that apparently get sent.

As a generally average lookong guy with an average cock who can struggle socially at times due to being neurodivergent this site can defiantly be more of a hindrance on mental health than positive for someone who is genuinely looking to have a good time and enjoy others company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

near where we live offering to come round 5 minutes later! Luckily there was a very obliging chap 15 miles away and a fun evening was had by all.

Don’t give up OP, it’s ultimately a numbers game. If we’re in the market for a third, we might reach out to you."

And a lot of people put up m mm mf ff tv/ts then when you go to message them it says no to single guys and you can't message what is that all about don't get it. I put an event up for a hotel tomorrow i had booked an executive suite people were asking me questions and then blocking me so i took it down women and me couples would get attention all the time this site is 80% ,men

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

It doesn't work for us and we are a couple, or we get messers who don't turn up.

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By *ynamites wowsMan
over a year ago

Plymouth and South west

No luck here either, have tried 3 times without success, I find it hard, couples and females struggle to succeed.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Am I living in a different world to everyone else? I have had quite a few people respond to meets I have posted. How else do people know you are free?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have arranged meets and the guys don’t turn up, even when they message to say they are on their way! So not great luck

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We've had pretty much no joy from posting meets

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Guess alot will depend on type of meet, timing, date and yes unfortunately what you are like. There's someone for everyone on here just not everyone will want you. Male,female, couple, CD or TV it won't make a difference, yes some will have more success than others but that's the way of the world unfortunately. "

There are also some on here who couldn't score in a barrel of fannies.

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By *orfolk777Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I’ve tried this many many times over the last 15 years that I’ve used this site and not once have I ever even had one person message me

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

If they're looking for you they'll find you

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Same here! Posted a meet and received no replies. It is what it is one can but try.

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

leeds

I basically never do it, but when I have it’s worked I guess you could say. But only every with couples or singles I played with before. So I guess kinda? Lol

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