FabSwingers.com forum: Fabs; Facebook for swingers?

By *awty_Two OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Maidstone

Does anyone else think that Fabs is getting more and more like Facebook for swingers, or is it just us?

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Yes, no one wants to chat and meet too

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

It is more like adult social media yes.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I kind of like that it has the social media edge to it, if it didn't have I would be able left years ago

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I kind of like that it has the social media edge to it, if it didn't have I would be able left years ago"

I agree with this, I like the social side, sharing pics that wouldn't be allowed elsewhere, forums with topics again that would be banned elsewhere.

If it wasn't for the forums I'd have left by now.

Mrs

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Aside from the forums and ability to post one status update, I'm not sure how else it's similar- Xeno

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I not sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is not facebook period. We can openly discuss swinging and any other topic to do with sex. We can post sexy messages, we can make a profile about our sexual preferences and upload full frontal nakedness to attract others.

Swinging is a lifestyle, fab is where we come to meet others who share the lifestyle.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I kind of like that it has the social media edge to it, if it didn't have I would be able left years ago"

Agreed. For me it’s a social tool for clubs and to keep in touch with friends. I don’t use fab to arrange meets.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

It's so nice to see Flik and Paul are on this thred

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Pablo minibar123 sure make this site fun

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I so agree that's why this site is so fun and it's really quite hard to uninstall it

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's effectively been my social media for years.

Because to me it's important that there's a massive social aspect to everything I do on here.

I don’t look to, or want to meet everyone I chat to. I have a laugh with people, dick around in the forums, get and give advice and support through PM's. I use it as a source of information on clubs and events. I learn things from other people, posts and what I see and read.

I've made friends with people on here that have shifted to being just friends in the real world and yes, a couple are now friends on Facey.

Just because it's a swinging site it doesn't mean it's just about sex, only a contact site to arrange physical meets and that it should be limited to specific uses.

If people choose to limit it to that then that's fine and their prerogative of course.

But to others it's so much more....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The majority of fab members never use the forums, I'd say it's nothing like Facebook for them

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

I don’t think it is because I keep posting pictures of my dinner and they keep refusing to post them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday I saw my favourite status yet, a lady complaining that a guy had asked to fuck her despite telling him she was busy tending her boyfriends grave!!

What the hell are you doing on fab if you’re tending a grave? You’re as bad as he is love

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Oh yes. Seems less people want to actually meet and swing. Shame because we joined for the sex

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

when only 1% use the forums and the other 99% dont then no its nothing like face book

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Aside from the forums and ability to post one status update, I'm not sure how else it's similar- Xeno"

How about the Disgusted of Purley type replies people post?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Aside from the forums and ability to post one status update, I'm not sure how else it's similar- Xeno

How about the Disgusted of Purley type replies people post? "

I don't understand the reference there unfortunately

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By *awty_Two OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Maidstone

"Yes, no one wants to chat and meet too"

Exactly our point, but we get status updates of what everyone is doing, including going on holiday lol

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By *awty_Two OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Maidstone

"It's so nice to see Flik and Paul are on this thred"

Isn’t it just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it’s just another form of social media, you can get laid on Facebook just as easy if not easier

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Does anyone else think that Fabs is getting more and more like Facebook for swingers, or is it just us? "

I agree, was chatting to a sexy hot wife couple about meeting for fucking and the hubby sent me a photo of what he was having for his tea !!

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By *awty_Two OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Maidstone

"I’d say it’s just another form of social media, you can get laid on Facebook just as easy if not easier "

Exactly this

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By *lsiePTV/TS
over a year ago

Gateshead

I prefer this place to Facebook. For all the mindnumbing statuses about people not getting any at least I'm not being inundated with content from people I've never heard of, designed only to capture my attention long enough to show me an advert. Fuck, I hate Facebook.

If you're finding that nobody is meeting, get yourself to a swinging club babe. Socialise and make friends!

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"when only 1% use the forums and the other 99% dont then no its nothing like face book"

A huge number of site users are silhouette people that aren't actually swingers, just horny single men. So remove those from the equation and it becomes a lot more even.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have noticed that there’s a lot of fb style posts lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t think so, it’s not like you look for work mates and neighbours on here to add them to your friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, seen it with so many other sites before, they just evolve into something that has nothing to do with the original intended purpose.

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

yes its going that way but is it a bad thing i dont think so its not hard to work out whos here to play and whos not.

dont forget alot of people dont need the internet to swing lots of private meets parties and clubs, i think as the net gets fuller the more undergrond swinging will become again.

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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago

sexy town

I joined 10 years ago and it's definitely getting harder for genuine guys because of the no shows.

I still enjoy fab but meets are few and far between.

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By *interflingMan
over a year ago

london

"It is more like adult social media yes."

Totally off topic but wow, wow, wow. Great profile.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Not for us! They are totally different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think that Fabs is getting more and more like Facebook for swingers, or is it just us?

I agree, was chatting to a sexy hot wife couple about meeting for fucking and the hubby sent me a photo of what he was having for his tea !!

This cracked me up

I think Fab is what you make of it, and people have different reasons for being here.

A few years ago I logged on just to find a meet (and had a decent amount of really fun ones!), a year ago I enjoyed finding someone to sext with. Went through a chatty stage and made good friends, now not chatting or meeting as seeing someone but reading the forums. Does it really matter what people use or for?

Although yes the status updates are more ‘Facebook’ like I’d agree on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

To some degree the forums are yes, but most people don’t use the forums so from that perspective then no.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Definitely not the same thing.. I don't really want my family seeing my bits on display

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Yeah people are more focus on filters and 6 pack..but chat and get to know someone is dead here..

Fake and shallow people are ruining fabswingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say it’s just another form of social media, you can get laid on Facebook just as easy if not easier "

This guy is right, must be easier on Facebook as he’s been here well over a year without any success at all..

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Reading that from such a extremely sexy swinger I'm so glad I'm not most people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel like needs to be a better system in place for genuine meets just feel like it’s porn Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

For sure, so annoying.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
50 weeks ago

Leicester

We have had no problem using to find, message and meet people. Sure there's a lot of fantasists, but realistically couple to couple, with verifications, get somewhere.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
50 weeks ago

Ashford and dept16

You'd think Friends invite where really like points does no one read profiles??.

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By *inkyJamesMan
50 weeks ago

80020 Broomfield

Good point

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