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Mwah Cheeky xx
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"I was recently told that I'd been referred to as a 'slag' by a woman in the scene (that I've never even spoken to) for doing exactly that!" Reads more jealousy, than you doing something 'incorrectly' and ironic from one on the same site!! | |||
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"I was recently told that I'd been referred to as a 'slag' by a woman in the scene (that I've never even spoken to) for doing exactly that! Reads more jealousy, than you doing something 'incorrectly' and ironic from one on the same site!! "Well I did think it was ironic myself! Basically calling everybody on this scene for doing the same thing, hmm so maybe it wasn't meant as a childish insult after all lol! | |||
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"for some swinging is a lifestyle for the rest its just about getting a fuck ... blunt but true " I accept both lol | |||
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"Thanks for the responses, I'm of the same opinion, sexually liberated folk who enjoy multiple partners and sexual encounters or as Wikipedia puts it 'a lifestyle where both singles and partners in a committed relationship sexually engage with others for recreational purposes.' I asked this question as I was recently told that I'd been referred to as a 'slag' by a woman in the scene (that I've never even spoken to) for doing exactly that! It really made me question my understanding of what swinging means! Or maybe I need to question the word slag lol! Or maybe name calling should be left to the children's playground, no place for it in this beautiful adult lifestyle , anyways onwards and upwards, stay positive and happy fabbing "Sounds like maybe you shagged some bloke she wanted. Take it as a compliment.  | |||
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"Thanks for the responses, I'm of the same opinion, sexually liberated folk who enjoy multiple partners and sexual encounters or as Wikipedia puts it 'a lifestyle where both singles and partners in a committed relationship sexually engage with others for recreational purposes.' I asked this question as I was recently told that I'd been referred to as a 'slag' by a woman in the scene (that I've never even spoken to) for doing exactly that! It really made me question my understanding of what swinging means! Or maybe I need to question the word slag lol! Or maybe name calling should be left to the children's playground, no place for it in this beautiful adult lifestyle , anyways onwards and upwards, stay positive and happy fabbing
Sounds like maybe you shagged some bloke she wanted. Take it as a compliment. "Lord knows! I'm not about drama in this scene, that's what I love so much about it, no need for nasty childish name calling crap, leave that to the Karens on facebook, I'm too busy loving my FAB life! | |||
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"The dictionary definition or the fab definition? Mrs " Ooh pray tell, what's the FAB definition? | |||
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"for some swinging is a lifestyle for the rest its just about getting a fuck ... blunt but true " Is one group better than the other? | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please!" And you come to Fabswingers to ask this!!! | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please! And you come to Fabswingers to ask this!!!" Where better than in a place full of swingers? Lol! My explanation as to why I've asked this is in the thread | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please!" Anyone old who is still in town! | |||
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"Thanks for the responses, I'm of the same opinion, sexually liberated folk who enjoy multiple partners and sexual encounters or as Wikipedia puts it 'a lifestyle where both singles and partners in a committed relationship sexually engage with others for recreational purposes.' I asked this question as I was recently told that I'd been referred to as a 'slag' by a woman in the scene (that I've never even spoken to) for doing exactly that! It really made me question my understanding of what swinging means! Or maybe I need to question the word slag lol! Or maybe name calling should be left to the children's playground, no place for it in this beautiful adult lifestyle , anyways onwards and upwards, stay positive and happy fabbing "Because I'm single I don't consider myself a swinger, just a seedy perv really who likes to spread it around. But men are not called slags are they. Nah she just did it to hurt you. | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please!" It’s definitely not a single bloke looking for a cheap fuck. Which would define many on here. | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please!" It to me is having a very good female friend that you trust and she trusts you to just be happy and also enjoy a good friendship ..simples xx | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please! It’s definitely not a single bloke looking for a cheap fuck. Which would define many on here." Unfair but sadly true by the majority.... Not fair on genuine guys but hey ho.. Few and far between xx | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please! It to me is having a very good female friend that you trust and she trusts you to just be happy and also enjoy a good friendship ..simples xx" Aww that's very sweet! | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please! It to me is having a very good female friend that you trust and she trusts you to just be happy and also enjoy a good friendship ..simples xx Aww that's very sweet!" Very simple to me....life is for living...enjoy...just one chance...be happy xx | |||
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"The same question occurred to me the other day when a much younger friend told me he was in a polyamorous relationship and made me wonder how we use terms like that and swinging and promiscuity; whether we all share the same understanding, as well as how far people use them to disguise what is just opportunistic faceless sex. For me, swinging is simply sharing the pleasure of sex in an open and honest way with like-minded people, and if it brings friendship with it, so much the better." Life is simple if we choose to live it as you say x | |||
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"We took it as swapping partners with another couple. This site dies suggest that. But it is what we will stick too." Each to there own | |||
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"We took it as swapping partners with another couple. This site dies suggest that. But it is what we will stick too. Each to there own" So what do swinging mean to you ? | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please!" To be honest everyone has an idea but no body knows | |||
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"We took it as swapping partners with another couple. This site dies suggest that. But it is what we will stick too. Each to there own So what do swinging mean to you ?" Scroll up... | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please! It’s definitely not a single bloke looking for a cheap fuck. Which would define many on here." That is what this site suggests. Obviously single men are going to say otherwise. | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please! It’s definitely not a single bloke looking for a cheap fuck. Which would define many on here.That is what this site suggests. Obviously single men are going to say otherwise." Scroll up... See answer | |||
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" It’s definitely not a single bloke looking for a cheap fuck. Which would define many on here." They should splash out on an expensive fuck. The old adage is that you get what you pay for! | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please! Anyone old who is still in town!" This one made me laugh, the oldest swinger in town, seen a few of them in the clubs - and why not! | |||
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"for some swinging is a lifestyle for the rest its just about getting a fuck ... blunt but true Is one group better than the other?" did i say one was ????? nope didnt think so  | |||
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"I'm curious as to what people in the scene think a swinger is, share your thoughts on this please!" People who let others into their sex life together. | |||
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"I asked this question as I was recently told that I'd been referred to as a 'slag' by a woman in the scene (that I've never even spoken to)" It is par for the course on sites like this. Been called many things over the years for simply talking to someone, someone else fancied. In forums for simply posting comment and quoting. As others have said swinging is a generic term almost cliché. Means lots of different things to different people. It would be better if people expressed what it actually means to them rather what it actually is genarally, save a lot of miscommunication and misunderstanding, possible anger or dissapointment. | |||
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"The dictionary definition or the fab definition? Mrs Ooh pray tell, what's the FAB definition?" Basically anyone who wants sex Mrs | |||
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"The dictionary definition or the fab definition? Mrs Ooh pray tell, what's the FAB definition? Basically anyone who wants sex Mrs " I'd go with that but many couples say couples only | |||
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"The dictionary definition or the fab definition? Mrs Ooh pray tell, what's the FAB definition? Basically anyone who wants sex Mrs I'd go with that but many couples say couples only"  | |||
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"Can't contribute with a definition, but I can say why I disagree with many definitions given here. Play: physical play surely can't be a condition of swinging. Types of dogging, cuckolding, voyeuristic are traditionally considered swinging and yet do not always require physical contact between all parties involved. Actively doing something: a couple who used to play with others but decided not to do it anymore. Are they still swingers? People playing as single while not in a partnership at present: this one is puzzling to me. Unpartnered Lady/Gent meets similar Lady/Gent and decide to have sex together. Should they be considered swingers if they met on Harmony/Tinder, or at a pub, or at a work event? Usually society would not think of them as swingers, so why would they be thought of swingers if they meet through Fab? "Cheating": individuals in a partnership who play without their partner being aware or having agreed to it. Are they swingers, or simply cheaters? Like-minded people: talking to a swinger and seeing things in the same way they do does not make anyone a swinger. As an example, I may agree that people should be legally free to use drugs and yet have zero interest to try any or to engage with couples that use them. Thank you OP for this thread, it's amazing so many swingers here and yet we seem to be struggling to nail a definition, LOL." | |||
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