FabSwingers.com forum: how much do you clean up before anal?

By *ubyMoon OP Woman
over a year ago

Newport, Isle of Wight

for anyone who does anal, how much do you clean up beforehand? i've had guys try to sink a finger in the back door without checking if it's clean and. well. a) ASK first, jeez but b) i'm surprised they're not squeamish about encountering any you-know-what. i know i would be, especially if any rimming was on the table.

what do you guys think, do you need someone to be properly cleaned up, in and out, before anal? douching etc? or do you not care?

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By *rystal cannonMan
over a year ago

alfreton

Clean for sure and nicely perfumed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clean with a suppository about an hour befor.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Lots lol x

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By *ohnboy64Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

I love rimming a lady's bottom. I just know if it's safe to go there before my tongue makes contact. Not rocket science really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to be super clean to enjoy anyone at my ass.

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By *assP69Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I think I read that professionals don't eat for so many hours before doing it and then take Imodium too on the day. Obviously you need to clean it all out throughly if it's planned. But something like this isn't always planned is it lol

I think for a guy, if you're willing to play in that area you better suck it up if something happens. Not literally lol . I've heard stories of guys being real jerks after an accident has occurred because planning didn't take place. If it bothers the guy that much don't do it. Simple as that. And if something does go wrong, be a fucking gent about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep clean please

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I always clean myself thoroughly and expect others to do likewise if I think there's going to be some bi anal play, but have been caught out when unexpected.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Douched and fresh If it going to be a full on anal with big toys etc then you also need to plan your diet well day before

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Fully douched until clean but also take a supplement called ‘flawless for men’ that cleans the pipes..

Have played with ladies that enjoy anal but have always stopped any play if not prepped. Totally understandable.

But, be prepared to get sandy if you play in the sandpit.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Fully douched and clean for every meet/ club even though i don’t do anal there.

Just in case

Don’t find it particularly onerous to do if you’re already showering, doing make up, hair and a cute lingerie outfit. Don’t understand why anyone wouldn’t always be prepared lol x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I clean with a suppository about an hour befor. "

What one do you use?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Fully douched is the best way for anal play. Accidents can still happen then even when well douched. If you're going up the chutney tunnel you have to accept you may get a bit of goo on your dick no matter how well prepped the taker has tried to be.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Trying soooo hard not to make a joke of brown sauce on your sausage...

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Ours is almost always unplanned and spur of the moment. Any you-know-what is just gonna be there. If it's a deal breaker, don't do anal. And as for rimming, her ass is usually well cleaned by me rubbing my cock on it for at least a few minutes before any thoughts of penetration. So any rimming will be much more likely to be my pre_cum, rather than fecal matter.

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

Always douched before a club/meet

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If it's planned, I don't eat for the day, clean out thoroughly.

If it isn't planned, then I expect the partner to be grown up enough to understand shit happens tbh.

If people can't deal with bodily functions and fluids from holes, they probably have no business being near them at all. You just clean up, laugh about it together and move on

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By *lackboy1234Man
over a year ago

london

Can't say i like stroking the snakes nose so preferably she's had a good turn out first

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Can't dig around in the garden without getting your boots muddy.

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By *idlandsmale2022Man
over a year ago

walsall

"Can't dig around in the garden without getting your boots muddy. "

This made me LOL

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

"for anyone who does anal, how much do you clean up beforehand? i've had guys try to sink a finger in the back door without checking if it's clean and. well. a) ASK first, jeez but b) i'm surprised they're not squeamish about encountering any you-know-what. i know i would be, especially if any rimming was on the table.

what do you guys think, do you need someone to be properly cleaned up, in and out, before anal? douching etc? or do you not care?"

Definitely clean do not need no peanuts on my dong

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By *ohntall123Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Definitely clean

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

If you're (the one giving) squeamish about a bit of natural contents of the ass, then you shouldn't be shoving anything in there. As long as the outside is appropriately freshly cleaned, it's just a expected consequence of adhoc spontaneous fun. That said, if you're planning an anal meet, I'd suggest there's an expectation you've put some effort into cleaning out said contents.

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By *luefunMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Clean as possible is good but personally I wouldn’t be put off by any accidents!

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By *hesubtlegentMan
over a year ago

surrey

Anal with my ex was usually spontaneous. Sometimes there was a bit of mess but I always have tissues or toilet roll to hand to sort it out. As others have said, if you’re squeamish about it, don’t do it. Personally, having period sex gives me the ick so I stay away from that.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Always make sure I'm clean if we are planning on anal play.

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By *eepgliderMan
over a year ago

Chacewater

Tangential to the topic, but anyway...

I once literally "fisted the shit out of a lady"

(we are talking about vaginal fisting here).

Mercifully it was on a club "leatherette" bed with plenty of cleaning spray and paper towel available.

It caused me a crisis about "where am I going with all this?!", but I got a lot of supportive messages from both male and female respondents - so I weathered that one-off.

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By *ad_buddiesCouple
over a year ago

London

Obviously douched and fresh is best, but sometimes spontaneous anal doesn't allow for that. Enjoy the passion, and head for shower straight after.

Mo fuss, and mutual shower normally sets up round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what do you guys think, do you need someone to be properly cleaned up, in and out, before anal? douching etc? or do you not care?"

Dont care, its a ass at the end of the day cant expect people to be douched all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a planned meet as a couple (us) then a medical wash kit is used, if its unplanned with others then just see how it goes.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Can't say i like stroking the snakes nose so preferably she's had a good turn out first"

Screaming at this quite

. Oh my I am robbing that term now.

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By *akingHayCouple
over a year ago

Mayfield

Controlled diet for the day before, generic Imodium the night before, and next day, then a douche.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

My mrs loves anal

Play. She’s never had an issue, fingers and cocks go in clean and come out clean. The smell of sex after is awesome.

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I’ve had several unplanned anal explorations, rubbing the tip around and after getting the expected response in we go. All went well with no accidents although did feel a bit of a blockage once.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"Fully douched is the best way for anal play. Accidents can still happen then even when well douched. If you're going up the chutney tunnel you have to accept you may get a bit of goo on your dick no matter how well prepped the taker has tried to be. "

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Plan and prepare plenty of lube makes for a very relaxed playtime.

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By *hong80321967Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Love anal whether planned or unplanned, prepared to accept the worst

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

The wife enjoys anal but has said no to douching, end of the day clean or not there is a risk for accidents. As for playing anally with anyone spontaneously it's a risk you just have to take, personally I've never really let it bother me much.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I do so love my bum fun.

If I’m playing on my own, but if meeting and expecting some mutual fun, will always douche beforehand, and tend to be careful with my diet for the previous 24 hours or so.

So far it has worked - touch wood xx

R xx

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

From my experience women are very clean . Only a couple of times in my life has there been a slight inconvenience

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