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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do so many guys think that because you tick the 'meet today' box that authorises them to send one liners like 'wot tyme u wanna meet' then wonder why they get nowhere on here. Do they really expect me to say yes come on over, I know nothing about you apart from you can't spell but yes of course I will meet you! Just because I would like to arrange to meet someone today it doesn't mean I will just say yes to any guy who contacts me. Rant over... for now.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It's called chancing their arms and from what I understand they are very very very rarely successful...

Smacks of desperation to me and actually puts me off if a guy does it all the time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me too. I am almost tempted not to tick the box any more as today amongst a few genuine nice guys I've chatted to I have had to put up with about 50 or more stupid messages from immature boys and older guys expecting everything from me just because they said 'hi'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just like to say LOL

And I dont really get the Looking For A Meet option as that pretty much goes without saying here. Just how much do you expect to get to know anybody here in the space of a day? Just go and ask who you're okay with already.

But that must be awkward, i do sympathise!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I do like to have a decent conversation with someone, as much as you can on here then exchange numbers if both parties are interested in each other enough to think about meeting then take it from there. The whole meet me today thing is just an easy option to show your availability I suppose, but to have a guy with no communication skills offer to fu*k me now 'coz im ere and orny' is just damn right rude in my eyes. But that's what the block button is for, it just makes me wonder if any of these guys actually get any offers of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I do like to have a decent conversation with someone, as much as you can on here then exchange numbers if both parties are interested in each other enough to think about meeting then take it from there. The whole meet me today thing is just an easy option to show your availability I suppose, but to have a guy with no communication skills offer to fu*k me now 'coz im ere and orny' is just damn right rude in my eyes. But that's what the block button is for, it just makes me wonder if any of these guys actually get any offers of meets."

I totally understand that, which is why I sympathise. And the chances are that the guys far outweigh the women here, so no, most of them probably meet each other and go suck a bag of dicks to drown their sorrows hahaha I love not giving a shit about the colour of my balls!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I do like to have a decent conversation with someone, as much as you can on here then exchange numbers if both parties are interested in each other enough to think about meeting then take it from there. The whole meet me today thing is just an easy option to show your availability I suppose, but to have a guy with no communication skills offer to fu*k me now 'coz im ere and orny' is just damn right rude in my eyes. But that's what the block button is for, it just makes me wonder if any of these guys actually get any offers of meets.

I totally understand that, which is why I sympathise. And the chances are that the guys far outweigh the women here, so no, most of them probably meet each other and go suck a bag of dicks to drown their sorrows hahaha I love not giving a shit about the colour of my balls!"
Haha that did make me LOL, thank you.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If you ever find the answer to this riddle we would be interested.

Meet me today seems to be code for ignore my profile send me a one liner message and a picture of your cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha that did make me LOL, thank you. "
Welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you ever find the answer to this riddle we would be interested.

Meet me today seems to be code for ignore my profile send me a one liner message and a picture of your cock.

"
Don't forget the one liner will be misspelt and in code. 'im orny an fink u is hot wen can i cum ova'

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

At least you have a 'Meet Today' request up! I was mooching on here last night after a bath, in my jammies and not looking my best, and got two requests to meet straight away. When I politely declined one of them just kept pushing for a meet. Don't get it really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to not sympathise what's wrong with having a go? Not reading a profile? Just saying hi? Fancy a chat? Wanna meet.People on here are so intolerant of this. I know theyre the kind of messages people get annoyed at but you have to remember not everyone knows what this site or swinging is really about. It's just horny ( or women) getting excited and not knowing how to start a conversation out of the blue with mainly demanding ( I want this and you must be that ) rant rant rant couples. It's not easy for some people and that's what that little tiny delete buttons for that you have to move that one heavy finger to press. I don't understand why people get so wound up that someone has bothered to message them because they obviously find them attractive. Maybe reply to a hi, or fancy a meet message once in a while. You might be surprised x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to not sympathise what's wrong with having a go? Not reading a profile? Just saying hi? Fancy a chat? Wanna meet.People on here are so intolerant of this. I know theyre the kind of messages people get annoyed at but you have to remember not everyone knows what this site or swinging is really about. It's just horny ( or women) getting excited and not knowing how to start a conversation out of the blue with mainly demanding ( I want this and you must be that ) rant rant rant couples. It's not easy for some people and that's what that little tiny delete buttons for that you have to move that one heavy finger to press. I don't understand why people get so wound up that someone has bothered to message them because they obviously find them attractive. Maybe reply to a hi, or fancy a meet message once in a while. You might be surprised x"

...rant over? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many guys think that because you tick the 'meet today' box that authorises them to send one liners like 'wot tyme u wanna meet' then wonder why they get nowhere on here. Do they really expect me to say yes come on over, I know nothing about you apart from you can't spell but yes of course I will meet you! Just because I would like to arrange to meet someone today it doesn't mean I will just say yes to any guy who contacts me. Rant over... for now. "

We have had that also.

even had a message once as short as "when do you want me" and had never even spoke to him before lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to not sympathise what's wrong with having a go? Not reading a profile? Just saying hi? Fancy a chat? Wanna meet.People on here are so intolerant of this. I know theyre the kind of messages people get annoyed at but you have to remember not everyone knows what this site or swinging is really about. It's just horny ( or women) getting excited and not knowing how to start a conversation out of the blue with mainly demanding ( I want this and you must be that ) rant rant rant couples. It's not easy for some people and that's what that little tiny delete buttons for that you have to move that one heavy finger to press. I don't understand why people get so wound up that someone has bothered to message them because they obviously find them attractive. Maybe reply to a hi, or fancy a meet message once in a while. You might be surprised x"
If I sent a polite no thank to every message I received from someone I had no interest in, I would be on here all day. I do take the time and effort to reply to well written and well meaning messages but why should I waste my time on all the others who can't be bothered to read my profile properly. I have now, after over 2 years of being on here, decided to use the filters and hope that will stop some unwanted messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to not sympathise what's wrong with having a go? Not reading a profile? Just saying hi? Fancy a chat? Wanna meet.People on here are so intolerant of this. I know theyre the kind of messages people get annoyed at but you have to remember not everyone knows what this site or swinging is really about. It's just horny ( or women) getting excited and not knowing how to start a conversation out of the blue with mainly demanding ( I want this and you must be that ) rant rant rant couples. It's not easy for some people and that's what that little tiny delete buttons for that you have to move that one heavy finger to press. I don't understand why people get so wound up that someone has bothered to message them because they obviously find them attractive. Maybe reply to a hi, or fancy a meet message once in a while. You might be surprised x

...rant over? lol"

Hahaha never I'm like the number 10 bus. Another will be along shortly. Victor meldrew has nothing on me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to not sympathise what's wrong with having a go? Not reading a profile? Just saying hi? Fancy a chat? Wanna meet.People on here are so intolerant of this. I know theyre the kind of messages people get annoyed at but you have to remember not everyone knows what this site or swinging is really about. It's just horny ( or women) getting excited and not knowing how to start a conversation out of the blue with mainly demanding ( I want this and you must be that ) rant rant rant couples. It's not easy for some people and that's what that little tiny delete buttons for that you have to move that one heavy finger to press. I don't understand why people get so wound up that someone has bothered to message them because they obviously find them attractive. Maybe reply to a hi, or fancy a meet message once in a while. You might be surprised x

...rant over? lol

Hahaha never I'm like the number 10 bus. Another will be along shortly. Victor meldrew has nothing on me x"

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to not sympathise what's wrong with having a go? Not reading a profile? Just saying hi? Fancy a chat? Wanna meet.People on here are so intolerant of this. I know theyre the kind of messages people get annoyed at but you have to remember not everyone knows what this site or swinging is really about. It's just horny ( or women) getting excited and not knowing how to start a conversation out of the blue with mainly demanding ( I want this and you must be that ) rant rant rant couples. It's not easy for some people and that's what that little tiny delete buttons for that you have to move that one heavy finger to press. I don't understand why people get so wound up that someone has bothered to message them because they obviously find them attractive. Maybe reply to a hi, or fancy a meet message once in a while. You might be surprised x If I sent a polite no thank to every message I received from someone I had no interest in, I would be on here all day. I do take the time and effort to reply to well written and well meaning messages but why should I waste my time on all the others who can't be bothered to read my profile properly. I have now, after over 2 years of being on here, decided to use the filters and hope that will stop some unwanted messages."

I never said spend all day replying with no thank you's. my point is why not just delete the people you don't want to chat with and maybe understand that not everyone is as confident or as "swinger savvy" as others. Just a bit of tolerance for the less experienced isn't a lot to ask for : ) x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nope I am standing my ground. If a guy is on here then he must have the sense to know how it works or at least the intelligence to work it out by reading and if he hasn't then it's not my job to teach him by explaining why I am irritated by his message. This is an ADULT site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I am standing my ground. If a guy is on here then he must have the sense to know how it works or at least the intelligence to work it out by reading and if he hasn't then it's not my job to teach him by explaining why I am irritated by his message. This is an ADULT site. "

You know for a fact a lot of guys, girls and couples on here maybe new or do not have man social skills. It isn't your job to teach them or explain anything to them that's what the delete buttons for. Just excepting some people aren't hardened silver tongued swinging porn gods makes being here a more enjoyable place x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I am standing my ground. If a guy is on here then he must have the sense to know how it works or at least the intelligence to work it out by reading and if he hasn't then it's not my job to teach him by explaining why I am irritated by his message. This is an ADULT site.

You know for a fact a lot of guys, girls and couples on here maybe new or do not have man social skills. It isn't your job to teach them or explain anything to them that's what the delete buttons for. Just excepting some people aren't hardened silver tongued swinging porn gods makes being here a more enjoyable place x"
I do accept that and choose to ignore or delete and block accordingly. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I am standing my ground. If a guy is on here then he must have the sense to know how it works or at least the intelligence to work it out by reading and if he hasn't then it's not my job to teach him by explaining why I am irritated by his message. This is an ADULT site.

You know for a fact a lot of guys, girls and couples on here maybe new or do not have man social skills. It isn't your job to teach them or explain anything to them that's what the delete buttons for. Just excepting some people aren't hardened silver tongued swinging porn gods makes being here a more enjoyable place x I do accept that and choose to ignore or delete and block accordingly. x"

Mwah. Now that's out of the way. You fancy a meet? "Love" hahaha ( sorry couldn't resist ) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are u even surprised? u know where u are right??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I am standing my ground. If a guy is on here then he must have the sense to know how it works or at least the intelligence to work it out by reading and if he hasn't then it's not my job to teach him by explaining why I am irritated by his message. This is an ADULT site.

You know for a fact a lot of guys, girls and couples on here maybe new or do not have man social skills. It isn't your job to teach them or explain anything to them that's what the delete buttons for. Just excepting some people aren't hardened silver tongued swinging porn gods makes being here a more enjoyable place x I do accept that and choose to ignore or delete and block accordingly. x

Mwah. Now that's out of the way. You fancy a meet? "Love" hahaha ( sorry couldn't resist ) xx"
Yeah baby lets do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I am standing my ground. If a guy is on here then he must have the sense to know how it works or at least the intelligence to work it out by reading and if he hasn't then it's not my job to teach him by explaining why I am irritated by his message. This is an ADULT site.

You know for a fact a lot of guys, girls and couples on here maybe new or do not have man social skills. It isn't your job to teach them or explain anything to them that's what the delete buttons for. Just excepting some people aren't hardened silver tongued swinging porn gods makes being here a more enjoyable place x I do accept that and choose to ignore or delete and block accordingly. x

Mwah. Now that's out of the way. You fancy a meet? "Love" hahaha ( sorry couldn't resist ) xx Yeah baby lets do it! "

Raising the anchor right now and be with you in approximately 3 to 4 months x I need directions. Is it left at fragile rock? X

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

just last night I had 2 women asking just the same - meet me now.. doesnt give much room for flirting/anticipation and if I didnt have a few things on I would have.

Got blocked by one - the other hasnt replied to my last mail lol

Goes both ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I am standing my ground. If a guy is on here then he must have the sense to know how it works or at least the intelligence to work it out by reading and if he hasn't then it's not my job to teach him by explaining why I am irritated by his message. This is an ADULT site.

You know for a fact a lot of guys, girls and couples on here maybe new or do not have man social skills. It isn't your job to teach them or explain anything to them that's what the delete buttons for. Just excepting some people aren't hardened silver tongued swinging porn gods makes being here a more enjoyable place x I do accept that and choose to ignore or delete and block accordingly. x

Mwah. Now that's out of the way. You fancy a meet? "Love" hahaha ( sorry couldn't resist ) xx Yeah baby lets do it!

Raising the anchor right now and be with you in approximately 3 to 4 months x I need directions. Is it left at fragile rock? X"

Nearly. Just put retirement Isle in the sat nav or Parhurst Prison and you will be fine, you know you've gone to far when you are in France. See you in June. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just last night I had 2 women asking just the same - meet me now.. doesnt give much room for flirting/anticipation and if I didnt have a few things on I would have.

Got blocked by one - the other hasnt replied to my last mail lol

Goes both ways "

It certainly does.x

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