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How long until your wife agreed??

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By *eilB1984 OP   Man
over a year ago

whitby

Hi hope everyone is okay and hope to get some opinions from you guys.

Couple been together 10 years now a few of years ago I explained to my girlfriend that I would love to see her experience a well hung man, at first she seemed like she didn’t like the idea of it at all, telling me that I’m enough and she just couldn’t do that. (Should mention I’m her first and only) as time went on and I explained the reasons for it that I’d love to see her have the best sexual experiences. She’s come round a little and started to open recently about the type and size of cock she would like to try and the positions she would like to do so she has obviously given it some thought. I’m really trying not to push to hard with her as I do understand it might just not be for her.

So after giving brief context I was wondering if any of you couples have had similar responses and where it lead to. (Also was your first experience as good as you’d previously imagined?)

Thanks in advance

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

My wife asked me and I said ok. Lucky me lol

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

OP, please don't try to push her into something she doesn't want to do.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi hope everyone is okay and hope to get some opinions from you guys.

Couple been together 10 years now a few of years ago I explained to my girlfriend that I would love to see her experience a well hung man, at first she seemed like she didn’t like the idea of it at all, telling me that I’m enough and she just couldn’t do that. (Should mention I’m her first and only) as time went on and I explained the reasons for it that I’d love to see her have the best sexual experiences. She’s come round a little and started to open recently about the type and size of cock she would like to try and the positions she would like to do so she has obviously given it some thought. I’m really trying not to push to hard with her as I do understand it might just not be for her.

So after giving brief context I was wondering if any of you couples have had similar responses and where it lead to. (Also was your first experience as good as you’d previously imagined?)

Thanks in advance "

It's taken me nearly 40 years to get wife to try dogging she's still not sure but we have looked at

Sevrel places to go near us to go and takes some clean knicks just in case

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I’d say it took me about 4 years after hubby told me I’m free to explore, I now wish I didn’t wait so long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all happened pretty much by accident for us.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Mine was totally up for it, loved every minute since

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By *eilB1984 OP   Man
over a year ago

whitby

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Other way around for us. Paul was a long term swinger when I met him and after a while I was interested in getting involved but we waited until everything was properly discussed and fully understood which was quite a few months.

As a side note OP you said you wanted her to enjoy the best sex and you seem to think this has to be with a VWE man...in my experience this seems to be a man's view in the main.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once we started getting toys and they got bigger. Relised how much more she loved it was only matter of time

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By *roop69Man
over a year ago

St Columb Major

My wife asked me out of the blue about wanting to try other cock I said yes as a I thought she was kidding how wrong I was.

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness

Mine has the opportunity and my agreement but hasn't taken it up

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester

Hubby suggested it while we were away for a long weekend. We had been caught by a dog walker recently and it got us both thinking.

It was the ideal opportunity for us, being in unfamiliar area and no risk of bumping into someone you know or in the queue at Tescos later on.

Best decision we made and not looked back.

But hey, everyone is different. Sounds like you've been patient so far, continue to be so.

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Couple of years tbh wish I'd just jumped in its fucking amazing

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

These things should never be rushed. I succumbed willingly after ten years.

In hubby's previous relationship it took five years.

Patience!

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