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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

"

We personally wouldn’t do it but I’m sure there are alot of women who get turned on by this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

We personally wouldn’t do it but I’m sure there are alot of women who get turned on by this "

What would be the main reason you wouldn't do this? Just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

We personally wouldn’t do it but I’m sure there are alot of women who get turned on by this

What would be the main reason you wouldn't do this? Just curious."

Really just because it does nothing for me the thought of my man with another women and he has no interest in this either.

We tried it once were he kissed another women in Front of me and it done nothing for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

We personally wouldn’t do it but I’m sure there are alot of women who get turned on by this

What would be the main reason you wouldn't do this? Just curious.

Really just because it does nothing for me the thought of my man with another women and he has no interest in this either.

We tried it once were he kissed another women in Front of me and it done nothing for us "

Ah fair enough. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

We personally wouldn’t do it but I’m sure there are alot of women who get turned on by this

What would be the main reason you wouldn't do this? Just curious.

Really just because it does nothing for me the thought of my man with another women and he has no interest in this either.

We tried it once were he kissed another women in Front of me and it done nothing for us

Ah fair enough. X"

Good luck in your search

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I absolutely love my husband with another woman...however its as a 3...same as he loves me with another man! We enjoy 1:1 sex with each other and adding an extra or couple into that mix is our thing... being able to see it rather than hear about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter if he’s single or cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it matter if he’s single or cheating? "

A lot of people don’t feel comfortable to meet with someone who is cheating.

I definitely wouldn’t meet someone in that dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That explains the cheaters (but at the end of the day thats the cheaters issue ) but why no single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That explains the cheaters (but at the end of the day thats the cheaters issue ) but why no single guys?"

Because it doesn't have the same vibe as a married man playing with permission?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That explains the cheaters (but at the end of the day thats the cheaters issue ) but why no single guys?"

Because I like the dynamic of borrowing a husband and being able to thank the wife. They also bring far less drama than single men.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"That explains the cheaters (but at the end of the day thats the cheaters issue ) but why no single guys?"

Single guys aren't being shared by anyone

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"That explains the cheaters (but at the end of the day thats the cheaters issue ) but why no single guys?"

Some people like sending satisfied husbands back to their wife.

Plus usually no drama, no attachment issues.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That explains the cheaters (but at the end of the day thats the cheaters issue ) but why no single guys?

Because it doesn't have the same vibe as a married man playing with permission? "

Exactly!

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Yes we exist! We're a fully ENM couple these days, and it's been a revelation.

We don't use fab for this though, mostly as we no longer live in the UK, but these are other apps over here that are very specifically for that side of the lifestyle.

There are of course the douche bags, but that's sadly unavoidable, and trust needs to be established in the same ways as our beloved fab

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

We personally wouldn’t do it but I’m sure there are alot of women who get turned on by this

What would be the main reason you wouldn't do this? Just curious.

Really just because it does nothing for me the thought of my man with another women and he has no interest in this either.

We tried it once were he kissed another women in Front of me and it done nothing for us "

I see more couples sending the female half out to play while the male stays home. I wonder why there is such a difference between how more men find it a turn on than women?

MrsAbz

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Your profile says "Looking to borrow someones husband this weekend....". Mrs asks if I would need to do the gardening and chores, like at home and so who is going to do them at home instead.

Jokes aside, great post OP. As a response, some things come to mind after looking at your profile. We are out of your age range and many other couples potentially interested might be out too with your upper limit of 40.

Younger-ish couples often have a young family, so borrowing the Mr or the Mrs one day or the weekend leaves the other part having to deal with all, plus there's no couple special time for the Mrs left at home.

Your profile gives a Domme vibe to us when reading it, and many couples like us are not into that dynamic. It restricts further the pool of potential couples interested.

Hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

We personally wouldn’t do it but I’m sure there are alot of women who get turned on by this

What would be the main reason you wouldn't do this? Just curious.

Really just because it does nothing for me the thought of my man with another women and he has no interest in this either.

We tried it once were he kissed another women in Front of me and it done nothing for us

I see more couples sending the female half out to play while the male stays home. I wonder why there is such a difference between how more men find it a turn on than women?

MrsAbz "

We couldn’t really say as my husband is always involved in our meets. Wouldn’t be nearly as much fun

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

In addition to our earlier message, your profile says you cannot/don't accommodate. It's unclear how the husband is going to be "sent to you". A 1:1 hotel meet for sex might feel like a single/cheater' dream but for some couples it may not sound as much fun as a dynamic where Mr is borrowed for the day, playing husband not just in the bed.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Mines free to borrow, we both enjoy the other having their own freedom to explore

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

"

Hypothetically speaking, would I be in the running?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this very occasionally but depends our mood and who we are lending to!

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Any ladies or couples like to borrow my hubby for the night....he's a chef so you can get him cook whatever you like. Oh and he will do the washing up lol

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"That explains the cheaters (but at the end of the day thats the cheaters issue ) but why no single guys?

Because I like the dynamic of borrowing a husband and being able to thank the wife. They also bring far less drama than single men. "

Also, husbands are house trained, they won't wipe their cock on your curtains afterwards...

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"That explains the cheaters (but at the end of the day thats the cheaters issue ) but why no single guys?

Because I like the dynamic of borrowing a husband and being able to thank the wife. They also bring far less drama than single men.

Also, husbands are house trained, they won't wipe their cock on your curtains afterwards... "

Isn’t that what all those scatter cushions are for?

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

"

Yes, I am always willing to loan mine out.

But he doesn't get nearly as many loan requests as I do...

x Miniskirt

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

He's also a great cook - just in case you want to borrow him but don't actually want to fuck him

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

K enjoys watching me with another woman but can't help joining in as well most of the time I'm not sure on her thoughts of "sending me out" are though so I'll leave that for her to answer

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall be making a note of the OP’s profile and sending couples her way i often get asked about lending partners for the night and its not for me so thanks for you OP. More ladies like you needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this really a thing?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is this really a thing?"
.

Of course it is, cuckqueaning is a thing some like to watch some don't.

Mrs

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"K enjoys watching me with another woman but can't help joining in as well most of the time I'm not sure on her thoughts of "sending me out" are though so I'll leave that for her to answer

LvM"

You say it as if you've never had a solo meet before. Do you need me to pack you a snack and condoms for your trip?

K

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I find it really interesting how rarely cuck Queen or hot husband are discussed compared to cuckold and hot wife scenes.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Mr has been borrowed before a few times now. All is in the open for us both and trust but not everyone is the same . I do think that the trusting aspect also reflects on the lady who is borrowing as well , as perhaps they know that there no hiding or sneaking about either.

Its all good fun

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Jack has gone on overnight meets before ,with my blessing .

So it's definitely a thing

Miss

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I get offered loads but the gents in question are not to my taste.

There are a couple or two here on the forum whose husbands/partners I wouldn’t mind borrowing…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to regularly borrow someone’s husband, come round, take them upstairs and let them have their fun with me

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"K enjoys watching me with another woman but can't help joining in as well most of the time I'm not sure on her thoughts of "sending me out" are though so I'll leave that for her to answer

LvM

You say it as if you've never had a solo meet before. Do you need me to pack you a snack and condoms for your trip?

K"

I wouldn't say no to some cookies

LvM

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By *omethingDifferent4FunWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh-ish


"Yes, I am always willing to loan mine out.

But he doesn't get nearly as many loan requests as I do...

x Miniskirt "

Yep, sadly this is the case, much harder for the hot husbands to find women who believe their "playing with permission" status than it is the other way around!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I find it really interesting how rarely cuck Queen or hot husband are discussed compared to cuckold and hot wife scenes. "

It’s a play scenario with couples that requires the involvement of single women, who are not as numerous as single men on here. The single women who want to play with couples is a small subsection of the number of women on Fab, and the single women who want to play with only one half of the couple is an even smaller subsection of that number again. So the number of active participants is going to be tiny.

As hot as it is, it’s just not a scenario that is widely enjoyed on Fab.

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By *ittyAndDefilerCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

I'd happily lend T out to couples or single women but it's not easy finding someone to take him haha

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By *aughtycplStokeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

We are open for this from time to time

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

I'd like to borrow George Clooney. How do I do that?

Can there be a lending library of married men we can borrow for a weekend and then bring back?

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I'd like to borrow George Clooney. How do I do that?

Can there be a lending library of married men we can borrow for a weekend and then bring back?"

Excellent idea indeed , there should be a fab library for us hubbies -mr

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

"
is it to put up a shelf?

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Yes my wife has recommended me to some of her gf’s. I have to return the favour though and find her my friends. It works very well for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my wife has recommended me to some of her gf’s. I have to return the favour though and find her my friends. It works very well for us both"

Wish mine did

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester

Have to say, we're finding this thread really fascinating.

HW

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Yes my wife has recommended me to some of her gf’s. I have to return the favour though and find her my friends. It works very well for us both"
Can I be your friend.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"Yes my wife has recommended me to some of her gf’s. I have to return the favour though and find her my friends. It works very well for us bothCan I be your friend. "

Are you married and you both swing

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

My Mrs has let me do this for years....been. Meeting women alone.....works well for both of us

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

"
George is on duty for this xx Anne

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By *ingledanglyMan
over a year ago

Diss

My wife absolutely loves this, nothing gets her more turned on that me being with another woman!

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By *irtyThirtyxoCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Definitely still out there. I’m in to cuckqueaning so mr often has meets without me

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By *houtycatCouple
over a year ago

Henley

I lent my husband out to a friend of ours. She wanted a bukake…was quite a thrill knowing what he was up to! X

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We have talked about this variation for a while,

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By *errykezmasCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Kez would be happy with some aspects of this but I would rather she was involved as we would both enjoy that more, hottest thing for me is seeing her reaction and enjoyment of the things we are doing.

Perhaps we should ask the question “‘can we borrow your wife” in the forum, it seems from reading the threads that lots of women from couples go and play with single men, so why meet meet a couple have twice the fun and more to report back to husband

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"I get offered loads but the gents in question are not to my taste.

There are a couple or two here on the forum whose husbands/partners I wouldn’t mind borrowing… "

Do tell who they might be!

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"Yes, I am always willing to loan mine out.

But he doesn't get nearly as many loan requests as I do...

x Miniskirt

Yep, sadly this is the case, much harder for the hot husbands to find women who believe their "playing with permission" status than it is the other way around!"

Yep. Miniskirt is ‘out on loan’ tonight. The guy didn’t question the arrangement for a moment.

It’s much harder for a husband to get dates like that on here - even though we offer a telephone chat with Miniskirt to verify.

She has lent me to a few of her girlfriends before though, so I have had some fun ‘playing away’ with her full permission.

Love to borrow a wife though, there’s something super erotic about fucking another man’s wife with his knowledge and blessing.

x Driver

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By *ackonceagain1777Couple
over a year ago

West Mids

We both love this idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"K enjoys watching me with another woman but can't help joining in as well most of the time I'm not sure on her thoughts of "sending me out" are though so I'll leave that for her to answer

LvM

Chocolate chick cookies and condoms? When you on your way to me?!

You say it as if you've never had a solo meet before. Do you need me to pack you a snack and condoms for your trip?

K

I wouldn't say no to some cookies

LvM"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, I am always willing to loan mine out.

But he doesn't get nearly as many loan requests as I do...

x Miniskirt

Yep, sadly this is the case, much harder for the hot husbands to find women who believe their "playing with permission" status than it is the other way around!"

Which is why I always talk to the wife and make arrangements through her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it really interesting how rarely cuck Queen or hot husband are discussed compared to cuckold and hot wife scenes. "

Exactly, not widely spoken about but I see it often enough at clubs.

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"

Which is why I always talk to the wife and make arrangements through her. "

My wife is always happy to oblige, but even getting to that point is a struggle.

Made worse because there really are so many men on here cheating and faking it via a ‘couples’ account that doesn’t actually have an active woman behind it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Which is why I always talk to the wife and make arrangements through her.

My wife is always happy to oblige, but even getting to that point is a struggle.

Made worse because there really are so many men on here cheating and faking it via a ‘couples’ account that doesn’t actually have an active woman behind it. "

Yep that is sadly very true. The struggle is real for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love naughty straight husbands who likes their dick sucked by a guy

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow


"I love it when wives send out their husbands for me to borrow for a night. I've had the honor of having this happen a couple of times.

But now whenever I put out requests for this though I just get single guys or people cheating on their wives message me.

Are there any genuine wives/gfs out there who do this anymore?!

"

You’d be welcome to mr p. Or both of us!

Mrs p

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne

I have been fortunate enough to be loaned out. The wife will leave a note before she goes to work, for the incoming friend. The friend leave a nice thankyou note for the wife for when she gets home. The ladies do know each other.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I sometimes get women message me asking this so they are here x

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