FabSwingers.com forum: Unsolicited friend invites.

By *yselfAndHer OP Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

Without even a conversation first, what is that all about.

Are these people being rude ignoring profiles, or are they just really really thick and can't read words of more than three letters??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have it in the first line of our p

e please don’t send random friends request and still get them everyday lol

Some people can be just daft

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Something I’ve never done . Surely the only reason people do it is to chance there arm to see the friend only pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something I’ve never done . Surely the only reason people do it is to chance there arm to see the friend only pics "

Exactly this is why and it's not a big deal to either ignore or just bulk delete. Job done.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

I don't even look at them unless someone asks if they can add me once we've been chatting for a while, so so many every day!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

They want us to wait until they're offline, accept the request, look at their Friends pics (generally genitalia pics), then delete as Friends...don't they?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

They’re trying to be nosy and see your friends only pics. I never accept them unless it’s someone who I’ve been speaking with for a little while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want us to wait until they're offline, accept the request, look at their Friends pics (generally genitalia pics), then delete as Friends...don't they?

Basically this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads daily

I don't even decline them just leave them there

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I find it fun. Accept them when they’re offline, check out the photos then unfriend them. Hotlist the ones you like and Bobs your uncle.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i just block and delete

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I find it fun. Accept them when they’re offline, check out the photos then unfriend them. Hotlist the ones you like and Bobs your uncle.

I do exactly this

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I get blocked for not accepting them

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

To be fair, we have actually had a few Meets as a result of people randomly Friend requesting us, so we don`t mind (our profile states that as well.) Mind you, we are a couple of slappers. We don`t have any Private pics, so it`s not so they can perv them.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

I'd have no problem someone sending a friend request. It's not something I do, but don't think it's worth getting in a flap over.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Had so many recently. I just delete and block the person now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think peeps just try their luck, just ignore if your not interested

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We have no friend pics, can be tracked by hotlist, so it makes zero sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave the requests where they are as they then cant send another for 30 days.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Just lacking in social graces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *he AlternativesCouple
over a year ago

Swingington

It's a one way ticket straight onto our ridiculously large blocked list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird isn't it, I get loads and when I message they get deleted or ignored!

I just delete them now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get them, we completely ignore them and leave them where they are that way they can't resend.. never delete them.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Something I’ve never done . Surely the only reason people do it is to chance there arm to see the friend only pics

Exactly this is why and it's not a big deal to either ignore or just bulk delete. Job done."

I would agree

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I find it weird…I just ignore the requests. I like to keep my friends only pics for people I’ve met.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

There are those that like a friends list a mile long because it makes them look popular. More friends they can enlist the better. Others are simply picture hunters, either looking fo wank pictures or more nefarious activities.

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By *yselfAndHer OP Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

"I'd have no problem someone sending a friend request. It's not something I do, but don't think it's worth getting in a flap over."

Not in a flap, but it is rather rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it fun. Accept them when they’re offline, check out the photos then unfriend them. Hotlist the ones you like and Bobs your uncle.

Smart! I vaguely remember receiving one once. Lol.

Why would anyone accept one without having conversations first though!?

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Without even a conversation first, what is that all about.

Are these people being rude ignoring profiles, or are they just really really thick and can't read words of more than three letters??"

Most likely both.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Straight in the bin. As always.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Straight in the bin. As always.

Agreed, we've held off sending one to both of you in the hope we can run into you at a club first and if we spark then send one x

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Just trying their luck to have a look at your friends only pics, I say on my profile I don't accept them and I still get them I just bulk delete them, its a feature on fab and people will use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s odd that people don’t look at the profile first. All the reasons above are great examples of why they do it. But I wonder how many people have done it. Got added then seen that the friends only were heavily into kinks and such.

Teach them to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty I did use to invite women as friends even with the one's I've never spoken to before but not anymore

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

I do not send them and never would.

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By *ertsalaughMan
over a year ago

RENFREW

I don't mind getting or sending,purely because Id like to see more of the profile that I sent 1 too and for them to check more of mine . It's easy enough not to accept, but the ones that do have at least shown some interest and for me that's a better time to send a message

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I don't mind getting or sending,purely because Id like to see more of the profile that I sent 1 too and for them to check more of mine . It's easy enough not to accept, but the ones that do have at least shown some interest and for me that's a better time to send a message "

But you are sending a cold friend request and have not even chatted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do not send them and never would."

Absolutely agree ... never send until had a meet, asked in message first then after getting a reply that gives permission to send would i then send request

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By *ertsalaughMan
over a year ago

RENFREW

But you are sending a cold friend request and have not even chatted to them. "

Most people are attracted to the look of someone, by accepting the request it gives both profiles a chance to see if they would be more or less attracted by seeing more of that person. Its not for all but I've had more chats this way so it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell you what and this is genuine, ive done it about 6 times tis week. Gone to hit send message or look at the gallery, cursor slips boom you've sent a wink... sorry

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

"I do not send them and never would.

Absolutely agree ... never send until had a meet, asked in message first then after getting a reply that gives permission to send would i then send request"

I meant I would never send a message or meet, but that is me I am not here looking but only to post.

But if I was to change my mind, I do it your way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell you what and this is genuine, ive done it about 6 times tis week. Gone to hit send message or look at the gallery, cursor slips boom you've sent a wink... sorry"

Ignore me I woke up and im dumb, disregard my completely off track post

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By *yselfAndHer OP Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

Why not do the polite thing and send a message first??

So we are guessing that your everyday social life is full of friends that you have never met??

Highly unlikely isn't it?

Have we lost the concept of "good manners" on here??

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Does my nut in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some want to wank over the pics.

Some think that you need to be Fab Friends before people will see /reply to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not do the polite thing and send a message first??

So we are guessing that your everyday social life is full of friends that you have never met??

Highly unlikely isn't it?

Have we lost the concept of "good manners" on here??"

I will always actively seek permission 1st... unless already talking in a thread where member publicly encourages that they are welcomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get loads daily

I don't even decline them just leave them there "

Same here. If you delete they can just resend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be hot if i was asked to receive the female version

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By *ompeyparty2Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Immediate block for us….. clear on our profile ??

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

"Without even a conversation first, what is that all about.

Are these people being rude ignoring profiles, or are they just really really thick and can't read words of more than three letters??"

I just delete them

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I usually just delete them. Occasionally I will double check with someone if we have met, if they are local. Most of the time we haven't.

Don't bother me too much, unless I've declined and they send multiple requests. Then I just block.

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By *tacy.TWoman
over a year ago

luton

I usually just delete them, only really accept them if we've actually met or on the odd occasion after chatting with someone for a while

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By *ilddukeMan
over a year ago

notts

Your all so damn gorgeous there's no wonder they want to add you but, I agree should talk if there is a vibe then add

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Why not do the polite thing and send a message first??

So we are guessing that your everyday social life is full of friends that you have never met??

Highly unlikely isn't it?

Have we lost the concept of "good manners" on here??"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh to actually get one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete from us , if they can’t be bothered to read our profile or if they do and chance it anyway why would we just add them as friends .

A guys 1 picture profile of a Cock along side a Sky remote isn’t going to entice us to share everything with them I’m afraid .

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

I wouldn’t do it now. I ask before I send, as I sent some early days and got some pretty pissed responses( probs rightly so)

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Something I’ve never done . Surely the only reason people do it is to chance there arm to see the friend only pics "

I think this too Mrs M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something I’ve never done . Surely the only reason people do it is to chance there arm to see the friend only pics

I think this too Mrs M x"

100%

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Instant delete

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By *aughtycheshirecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We don’t accept friend requests unless we’ve chatted with people and seen face pics generally

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent

We find it extremely bad manners, so we block and delete every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a clouds white lining. It’s unfortunate how many times this has happened to all of you. But the amount of stunning profiles in here I can’t blame people for trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just stick to fabbing and winking haha

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

I leave a lot hanging.

I find it rude without at least a message first. Obviously they just want to look at your pictures you don't want public. Strange behaviour to me.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I think they're just trying to see extra pics. We delete straightaway.

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

We get quite a lot of unsolicited friend requests. Most of them are from up north and Scotland. We just ignore them.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

We leave them unaccepted so they can't send another. We only have friends that we've met or that we've been in contact with and made a connection.

Had never thought about waiting until they were offline to look at their friends pics and then unfriend though lol...

Thanks for the tip

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We delete or block, definitely not an attractive trait to us.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

4 this morning alone!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s annoying. I let them build up.

Sometimes i’ll randomly accept one when the other person is offline, take a look, and then delete them.

But yeah I currently have hundreds that I haven’t responded to, because if you reject the request they just send another.

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Instant block if they can't be bothered to at least message.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We wait til they’re offline, accept then fab all their pics then remove from our friends list

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

"We wait til they’re offline, accept then fab all their pics then remove from our friends list"

Sneaky, but effective

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

lancs

If anoyone wants to send me one then go ahead haha

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By *mpierdoleMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Without even a conversation first, what is that all about.

Are these people being rude ignoring profiles, or are they just really really thick and can't read words of more than three letters??"
I've accidentally done it. I use the desktop version on my mobile because I prefer it and the wink/message button are right next to each other

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"We wait til they’re offline, accept then fab all their pics then remove from our friends list

Sneaky, but effective

Usually get a message afterwards moaning about it but I find it funny

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"We wait til they’re offline, accept then fab all their pics then remove from our friends list

Sneaky, but effective

Usually get a message afterwards moaning about it but I find it funny "

Do ne exactly that a few times..

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By *oomerangbobMan
over a year ago

stanhope

Remind me what a friend invite is?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Without even a conversation first, what is that all about.

Are these people being rude ignoring profiles, or are they just really really thick and can't read words of more than three letters??"

I think they usually just want to see private galleries. I ignore them.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

We clearly state will only friend people who we have met on the scene. Doesn’t stop them trying though.

Even when I told one guy the other day that our private gallery wasn’t really that different to what was out there in public more a place to put old pictures/vids, he still persisted with messages.

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

"We wait til they’re offline, accept then fab all their pics then remove from our friends list

Sneaky, but effective

Usually get a message afterwards moaning about it but I find it funny "

And you'd be disappointed if you didn't get the message, it's the final reward.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"We wait til they’re offline, accept then fab all their pics then remove from our friends list

Sneaky, but effective

Usually get a message afterwards moaning about it but I find it funny

And you'd be disappointed if you didn't get the message, it's the final reward.

Ha ha.. Be sure to Fab a few friends only pics before unfriending to really throw em..

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Ha ha.. Be sure to Fab a few friends only pics before unfriending to really throw em..

Ooft! Savage!

Hoping we can run into you sometime

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I think they are just chancing their luck to see the private stuff. I just ignore them.

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By *unandcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

Get deleted right away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they are just chancing their luck to see the private stuff. I just ignore them."

Worth a try I suppose

Don’t ask don’t get but there is something called mannors xx

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"I think they are just chancing their luck to see the private stuff. I just ignore them.

Worth a try I suppose

Don’t ask don’t get but there is something called mannors xx"

We don't friend wall any pics, yet we still get unsolicited friend requests

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

They wanna perve at the friend's only pics.

I just leave them in requests so they can't send another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just leave them there unanswered! So they can’t do it again.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's not the end of the world as long as they don't bug you with messages that require work

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I just delete the invite but if the send another it's an instant block

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"They wanna perve at the friend's only pics.

I just leave them in requests so they can't send another.

Mrs "

We'll be doing the same from now on

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By *race_cpl6665Couple
over a year ago

Solihull

I didn’t think of that I usually delete without reading but that’s a better option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately they guys who send unsolicited friend requests aren't reading profiles either.

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By *atthew 776Man
over a year ago

your town

Picture pervs that’s all lol

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By *andPextraCouple
over a year ago

North West

Dozens a day, usually after posting a pic. We just instantly block them now; if they are too ignorant to read a profile that has “dont” in bold letters there’s no other option really.

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By *andB130Couple
over a year ago

northampton

We get them and straight to block button.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

None

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Without even a conversation first, what is that all about.

Are these people being rude ignoring profiles, or are they just really really thick and can't read words of more than three letters??"

I think some see it like Facebook and others use it to try to see Friends Only photos.

Either way, we just ignore them.

Nita

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

It's well worth reading this entire thread. We just used to let them sit there. As others point out, it stops them sending further requests.

But, there is additional fun to be had during the odd dull moment, as pointed out by several people. You can periodically go through all your invites, finding ones who are offline, accept the invite, perv their friends only stuff, and then unfriend. Or, for extra spice, and to leave them with a mystery to solve, Fab all their friends only stuff. Great entertainment for a dull Saturday afternoon, thanks to some great posts above for suggesting

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I even get unsolicited friends request as a single guy, and usually from people with no verifications or friends pictures of there own

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By *mmaAndDavidHornyFuckersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We like a few messages first as a minimum

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
over a year ago

Thurrock

Been getting a lot lately all from single male profiles, our assumption is it’s just a numbers game try enough times and someone will accept it.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I just don't get WHY?

Well maybe I understand that people like a sneaky peaky into your freinds only content. However what makes people think anyone will just add unsolicited requests?

We ignore them. Plus it's likely something we'd veiw as a red flag.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I just don't get WHY?

Well maybe I understand that people like a sneaky peaky into your freinds only content. However what makes people think anyone will just add unsolicited requests?

We ignore them. Plus it's likely something we'd veiw as a red flag."

Just lots of chancers on fab, so they take the view that if they don’t ask they don’t get. You can be sure that you won’t be the only person they’ll be sending a request to.

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By *oiluvfunMan
46 weeks ago

Penrith

"It's well worth reading this entire thread. We just used to let them sit there. As others point out, it stops them sending further requests.

I like to accept the invite when they’re offline, check out their private pics, then unfriend. Don’t get mad; get even

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

"I like to accept the invite when they’re offline, check out their private pics, then unfriend. Don’t get mad; get even

That's brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

My thoughts why

1. They wanna see any private pics you have

2. They like a long "friends" list makes them appear popular

3. They have face pictures in their gallery for you to see if theres interest

4. Other reasons only they can answer

If you don't deletr the request they can't send another

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By *ondonCpl35!Couple
46 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Hi all,

This is a really interesting subject for us, as we are new to this and thinking of deleting our account as a lot of profile are photo collectors in our opinion.

It annoys us when we get a friends request and accept it on the basis of a potential good chat only to then get ghosted or get 1 or 2 messages, but when people have no public photos we have sent a random friends request as we do not want to get into lots of dialogue before seeing if there could be a potential physical attraction.

Interested in your views..

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
46 weeks ago

villiage

We have no problem with invites if we don’t like them we just say no .

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By *ealitybitesMan
46 weeks ago

Belfast

I used to get friend requests from women competing on hotpics.

I'd never spoken to any of them and some I'd never even heard of so I didn't accept any.

I rarely get them now but the last 10 or 12 have been unsolicited from complete strangers.

I don't delete any of them and that prevents them from sending another.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

"Hi all,

This is a really interesting subject for us, as we are new to this and thinking of deleting our account as a lot of profile are photo collectors in our opinion.

Interested in your views.. "

Don’t accept the requests. Have a conversation first

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By *andPextraCouple
46 weeks ago

North West

Drives

Insane

Wish people would read profiles (yes- i know they dont)

But what possesses someone to think, yes, of course they'll accept my random request without even speaking to them

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
46 weeks ago

doncaster

It’s annoying receiving them of people

We haven’t spoke to we now just wait for the blue dot to disappear add them have a look then remove them again

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By *oetic licenceCouple
46 weeks ago

Matlock

Sorry, why does it matter, it's easy to delete a request. Guys have it tough on here. I always try to reply to everyone that messages even a polite thanks but no thanks, if I get a request I'll have a wee looky, sometimes even start a conversation if I like what I see. It's not hard clicking delete if that person is not what you're looking for.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
46 weeks ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

I'll give the same answer as when this question arose some time ago and that is it's more a Fab problem than a member being ignorant. I think most friend requests are actually hotlist clicks in the wrong place so if Fab made the friend request an 'are you sure you want to do this' double click type section then false requests would probably be eliminated.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

why accept a friend request from someone you haven't met? Seems bizarre to me, I just delete them

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By *uri00620Woman
46 weeks ago

Croydon

"I'd have no problem someone sending a friend request. It's not something I do, but don't think it's worth getting in a flap over."

There's ALWAYS something to get in a flap over

There will be people that accept such invites just like they're those willing to reciprocate fake verifications. And to send 100 friend requests and only 5 people accept. That's still 5 people I guess? Just like faf messages 9/10 will get deleted but there's always that one person......

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
46 weeks ago

chichester

As other said just guys wanting to wank over pics

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
46 weeks ago

Lingfield

I'm not really sure what the benefit of having 'friends' is on here, I very rarely have any contact with most of them and the 'friends only' pics and videos are rarely any different from those in their public section.

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By *amesnplanesMan
46 weeks ago

Banbridge

As strange as this sounds, I've had numerous couples sending me invitations with zero communication first.

When I look more closely, the usual format is few or no prior verifications and almost all the photos are of a lady.

I'm sure most of you can draw an inference as to the type of member sending these out.

If fabs were to make these requests only possible for full members, and then to deduct say seven days membership for each request this problem would be corrected immediately

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
29 weeks ago

south coast IOW

I find it extremely rude given i expressly as people not to in my profile right near the top. I normally block.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes we've had the same.. annoying tbh but I guess it's chancers for you

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"They’re trying to be nosy and see your friends only pics. I never accept them unless it’s someone who I’ve been speaking with for a little while. "

Same for us

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
29 weeks ago

Colchester

Get plenty of those and they’re always deleted.

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By *awpleasureMan
29 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

I don't think it even needs to be said in a profile.

It's just rudeness to send a friend request before even chatting to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I get quite a few friend requests from couples for some reason even ones from those who say they aint looking for single men

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By *s2walesCouple
29 weeks ago

Gwent...

Males that send them to us get immediately blocked....

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By *ark n kimCouple
29 weeks ago

Durham

We get quite a few and just delete.but we do wait till they are not online and have a look at their friends only photos.

Would say that 95% of them don't have face pics on there either.

We do have face pics on our friends pics.

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By *rispyDuckMan
29 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Get these frequent!

Wait till they offline, add browse their friends only pics and delete

I perv them before they can perv on me lol

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By *igfun911Man
29 weeks ago

East Lancashire

Ignore a delete from me

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By *teveanddebsCouple
29 weeks ago

Norwich

"They want us to wait until they're offline, accept the request, look at their Friends pics (generally genitalia pics), then delete as Friends...don't they?

We think so

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By *raveltwoCouple
29 weeks ago

woburn

We aren’t a fan so usually just reject. If we have the time we’ll send them a wink first then block

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By *oxy jWoman
29 weeks ago

somerset

"Without even a conversation first, what is that all about.

Are these people being rude ignoring profiles, or are they just really really thick and can't read words of more than three letters??"

instant delete for me those that keep doing it then blocked ive only people ive met on my friends list people im interested in go on my hotlist

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By *heWelshCoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

Swansea

"I find it fun. Accept them when they’re offline, check out the photos then unfriend them. Hotlist the ones you like and Bobs your uncle.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

Picture collector's.

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By *oomerangbobMan
27 weeks ago

stanhope

Never had an invite

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
27 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Instant delete

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By *aughtyThreesomeCouple
27 weeks ago

Kent

"Instant delete "

Exactly this, we see them sigh and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I don't get why people get so worked up about friends requests, there is a deleted all button, the same works for winks.

It's a very easy fix.

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By *orkshirecouple69 returnCouple
27 weeks ago

doncaster

We must get 5 a day without any conversation first

All single guys of course

Don’t expect any friends request unless we know them , played with them or are seriously considering playing with them

No wonder people don’t take them seriously

I think the way forward is just to block them

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By *istr3ssWoman
27 weeks ago

Stockton-on-Tees

Most just want to see your friends only pics.

I routinely block anyone who sends me friends requests

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By *WB85Man
27 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It's desperate men wanting pictures to wank over.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
27 weeks ago

Merseyside

"Without even a conversation first, what is that all about.

Are these people being rude ignoring profiles, or are they just really really thick and can't read words of more than three letters??"

Most people say they wanna see friends only pics that’s why they do it

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
27 weeks ago

Leeds

I wait until their offline, accept them, nosy at their pics then unfriend again.

On our couples profile the Mr blocks everyone who sends one.

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
27 weeks ago

Dudley

Instant delete as it shows that they haven’t read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Instant delete as it shows that they haven’t read my profile "

Same. We don't just add anyone. We're not one of those that crave the fab likes when we post images.

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By *nly us 4448Couple
27 weeks ago

London

We have stated in our profile, that unsolicited friend requests will be deleted but still get them, so many times a week, sending a wink is not have a conversation we us both

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