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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well. I know im not the tallest of them all..but how much influence does height have in your choice of meeting?

Im comfortable in my own skin and i know i cant change my height (unless i have my yellow pages with me) but for me..height is not an issue. I like variety...tis the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None at all to me, not met a man smaller than me ......yet, I'm 4'11"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None at all to me, not met a man smaller than me ......yet, I'm 4'11" "

not for me either - have once or twice met women taller than me, but found it not really an issue once we got horizontal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None at all to me, not met a man smaller than me ......yet, I'm 4'11" "

I swung with a woman who was 4'11 once, she was lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None !

Having a toy box comes in handy

When meeting those that insist on guys being 6ft and over, it's great for standing on (just remember to wear a long coat)

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

actually sticking my head up, I like tall guys....and only like tall guys..sorry...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like we've got a short arse club forming here!

Its never been a factor for me but I did meet a guy last year who was 6ft 4" and tbh I did kinda feel the need to look for the bean stalk!

But as i'm a pretty active person...i managed to scale him quicker than the SAS!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks like we've got a short arse club forming here!

Its never been a factor for me but I did meet a guy last year who was 6ft 4" and tbh I did kinda feel the need to look for the bean stalk!

But as i'm a pretty active person...i managed to scale him quicker than the SAS! "

..my short arse is very lovely and pert lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an issue if they are a lot shorter but i can deal with a few inches shorter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my men taller.....I can cope with the same height, but I like to look up to a man.

Sorry...

Lasses I like any height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer tall sorry.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Im definitely height-ist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies. Dont apologise. Its your preference and your entitled to it. We respect that x

...im just gonna have to buy some shoes with subtle heels on lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Depends on where I am meeting them. At a club I have no problem with a shorty as they are just one of many, but a one on one meet would have to be same height or taller than me.

Unfortunately the adage 'we are all the same size when we are lying down' is not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was for men i don't mind women of any height x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a man to be taller than me, but you know what....? Size really doesn't matter

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By *istress ValeporcaCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Me too, I'm a sucker for a tall man, ironic as I'm so short, but shorter men sorry just doesn't do it for me x


"actually sticking my head up, I like tall guys....and only like tall guys..sorry..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only 5' 2" so with a very tall man i come up to their chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got a message from a man who was only 5ft4 and i am 5ft9 i wasnt sure about meeting him but i was glad i did.

now i dont bother about how tall men are so much, especialy if he is young and good looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i got a message from a man who was only 5ft4 and i am 5ft9 i wasnt sure about meeting him but i was glad i did.

now i dont bother about how tall men are so much, especialy if he is young and good looking. "

I like your angle

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

One of the first things I look for is the height.

I'm 5ft 7 and prefer men at least 5ft 10.

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

My OH is very slightly shorter than me but only by about 1/2 inch, great for snoggin ( no neck ache) and sex standing up as his legs are shorter than mine .......... However I don't think I could be with someone several inches shorter, just wouldn't seem right to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5'2 so not a problem for me.

I have, however, found that a foot higher is the perfect height for spooning

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Going purely on physical attraction alone then I much prefer men to be around 6ft or more.

I have no preference for hair and eye colour but I do have a definite body type which makes me drool.

Having said that, it doesn't matter how pretty a man is, a twat is still a twat and that is a major turn off.

The thing about swinging is that we are generally looking for our fantasies to be fulfilled. So if all your fantasies are full of a particular type then that is what you pursue. If your fantasies are full of particular activities then that's what you go for.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am 6ft and not keen on short short guys... mt perference is taller than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 6ft and not keen on short short guys... mt perference is taller than me. "

This lady is tall, but definitely carries it off And hey Miss you'd be fine horizontally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 6ft and not keen on short short guys... mt perference is taller than me. "

That's a shame, you could be missing out on what's made up for in length

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I am 6ft and not keen on short short guys... mt perference is taller than me.

This lady is tall, but definitely carries it off And hey Miss you'd be fine horizontally "

Hahaha awww thanks... No I know we are all the same lying down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well. I know im not the tallest of them all..but how much influence does height have in your choice of meeting?

Im comfortable in my own skin and i know i cant change my height (unless i have my yellow pages with me) but for me..height is not an issue. I like variety...tis the spice of life

"

To answer you though OP, I am taller than you, and that is vaguely important to me..but as I just said, not the bee and end all.

When I was younger I used to think I wanted a really tall man and then my first boyfriend was 6ft 4" and it didn't really work (height wise), so I can see why a taller lady would want someone of a similar height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 6ft and not keen on short short guys... mt perference is taller than me.

This lady is tall, but definitely carries it off And hey Miss you'd be fine horizontally

Hahaha awww thanks... No I know we are all the same lying down... "

Lol yeah I am not sure though on reflection, just joking with you, because I did find I had to strain my neck just kissing, I am almost 5ft 5, go me, and someone of 6ft + can be difficult!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Im 5'7 and would not choose to meet anyone under 5'9" guess i'm sizeest

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I am 6ft and not keen on short short guys... mt perference is taller than me.

This lady is tall, but definitely carries it off And hey Miss you'd be fine horizontally

Hahaha awww thanks... No I know we are all the same lying down...

Lol yeah I am not sure though on reflection, just joking with you, because I did find I had to strain my neck just kissing, I am almost 5ft 5, go me, and someone of 6ft + can be difficult!"

Haha I have been out with guys shorter because I liked the person so over looked the height.. However my perference is taller me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Main reason i like taller guys and cant go much shorter is i love doggy and at 5ft 11 if the guy is too short it can be hard work

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

I'm 5ft1 but for some reason I love tall men! No idea why! Different strokes and all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am 6"2 but quite like short women although tall ones are lovely too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am 6"2 but quite like short women although tall ones are lovely too "

I like it, hedging your bets haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest i prefer men taller than my, i dont think it would be a deal breaker unless they was really short tho, i met a guy who was 5ft2 once and if im totally honest i did find it very off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH is 6ft3 and I am 5ft5.... Nothing better than snuggling in those big arms and I love how he calls me little one

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

Love tall men. It's the first part of a profile that I look at!

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By * tallguyMan
over a year ago

near horsham


"Love tall men. It's the first part of a profile that I look at!"
I should be ok then lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been told a few times am too tall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well. I know im not the tallest of them all..but how much influence does height have in your choice of meeting?

Im comfortable in my own skin and i know i cant change my height (unless i have my yellow pages with me) but for me..height is not an issue. I like variety...tis the spice of life

"

im 5 ft 9 so i usually go for guys taller than me,but if the guy was really hot and i liked him i wudnt let his height put me off

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"been told a few times am too tall "

nope...6 ft 9 is just getting too tall...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make it a rule never to trust a man who's brain is too close to his cock.

Can't go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None at all to me, not met a man smaller than me ......yet, I'm 4'11" "

Me too

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By *eekenderzCouple
over a year ago

London

I much prefer men taller than me but that rules out most of them. What I really hate is the little guys going on and on and on and on and on about how tall I am. If they are not cool about it then I'm finding it off putting.

You would not expect if you are a fatty to go into a club and get people shouting out "Blimey she's fat!!!" Or "wow I feel so thin standing next to you!" But I get comments all the time like "wow I feel so short standing next to you!" And "What's the weather like up here?"

I can't change my height and I won't stop wearing 5" heels either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5'2 so not a problem for me.

I have, however, found that a foot higher is the perfect height for spooning "

Oooo...you're so right about that...some of the best cuddles i've had was with my bf whose 5'3" and i'm 5'1"

Perfect fit, every manly bulge nestled neatly into warm...wet womanly curves!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a problem for me .. i'm 5'2 just

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By *ittlebitWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

Most people are my height or taller, at 5ft1 that's not so hard tho one of my mates friends is 6ft11!! He is as tall as me whilst sitting down haha

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Don't want em too tall. I don't want em burning their bum on the bedroom lightbulb

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's a huge difference between short men and short women... tends to be more 'acceptable' for tall guys to date short women, but not the other way around.. or seen as weird

Only being 5'3 myself.. I'm one of the shorter guys.. but hey, most my gfs/partners have been taller than me... didn't seem to bother them.

Yes, I get my fair share of knock backs (sometimes with nasty comments).. but hey, I say its them that are missing out

Just be comfotable with who you are.. thats how I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I'm fairly tall.and do like tall men but doesn't put,me off meeting,people smaller I just wear flats or get on my knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually sticking my head up, I like tall guys....and only like tall guys..sorry..."

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me at all. I have had playmates shorter than me in past and weve still had a great time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good thing we have strong arms to carry you ladies..you can wrap your legs around my body..TWICE!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been told a few times am too tall "

Mmmm 6f6... That along just makes me drool..

I just love a talk man. I'm 5f7 and love wearing heels. So 6ft is usually where I say min.

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By *arkchestCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Must admit....the first thing I look at is height....prefer tall men....at least a few inches taller than me....on saying that I have met men same height or smaller and wld meet them again. The ones I met I met in a social setting which led to a meet, however, if I was arranging a meet on here I wld prob not meet someone smaller or same height as me.

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

I am 6'6" and use it with no shame at all, it's great

And I am available for changing light bulbs if anyone loses their step ladder

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Depends on where I am meeting them. At a club I have no problem with a shorty as they are just one of many, but a one on one meet would have to be same height or taller than me.

Unfortunately the adage 'we are all the same size when we are lying down' is not the case."

Er... should I wear big boots then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on where I am meeting them. At a club I have no problem with a shorty as they are just one of many, but a one on one meet would have to be same height or taller than me.

Unfortunately the adage 'we are all the same size when we are lying down' is not the case.

Er... should I wear big boots then? "

Hahaha thats what i do. Get my nice 'heely' footwear out

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm 6ft 2in tall and don't mind how tall the lady is. It would be an experience to stand tall and kiss the 6ft 1in lady back up the thread without bending down and if she wore her 5inch heels, I'd be looking up! Never had that before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer people my own height but I never ask when I am meeting someone as its not an issue

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Prefer guys as tall or taller than me in my heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

height isnt an issue altho i find myself more drawn to the shorter guys.. i dunno why.. nicer body shapes i think

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Being a shortarse I don't have any minimum height preferences. I do for some reason always seem to end up with tall guys, but I do prefer a guy not to be over 6ft cos i feel more like a munchkin. I guess my preferred height for a guy would be about 5,7 to 5,10 but it's not really something I consider too much to be honest.

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

I am only 5' and have not so far met or been contacted by any male shorter than me. I like them tall but I also like them small so I can throw them around a bit . . . .

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am only 5' and have not so far met or been contacted by any male shorter than me. I like them tall but I also like them small so I can throw them around a bit . . . .

Jane x"

You can throw me around any time..but just not off that mountain lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like tall guys... Over 6' if poss, have had two bf's that were 6'5" just love the height difference, love big men.

In girls, I prefer fems who are about my height, so 5'3" ish, maybe a bit bigger when you have heels on.

Never been with a tall bird. Cant imagine falling headfirst into a pair of boobies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Jimp1 is 6' tall but much more when she wears heels.

I am a much more modest 5'5" so clearly she isn't bothered about the height thing.

Over the years however most women I have dated (& there were sooo many!) at some point commented that they normally didn't date guys as small as me - clearly it must have been my animal magnetism

Its apparent that most woman prefer tall guys however in my experience it is not always a deal breaker.

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By *eekenderzCouple
over a year ago

London


"I'm 6ft 2in tall and don't mind how tall the lady is. It would be an experience to stand tall and kiss the 6ft 1in lady back up the thread without bending down and if she wore her 5inch heels, I'd be looking up! Never had that before! "

Actually, I've checked and most of my shoes are 6" so we'd better not - you'd get a crick in your neck...

I recently met a guy who is 6ft7, I was wearing my heels and I think he found it quite strange to be completely level when he looked me in the eye.

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