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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion.. "There is definitely a technique required. | |||
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"It's a dying art according to Micky Flanagan! "Now there’s a man who would probably know | |||
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"Have said before, finger fucking is so under rated  "Yes it is. But it requires both parties to be in tune, don’t you think? | |||
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"Does anyone not get their fingers involved? " This was my first reaction too! Long before the main event there will be fingers getting involved. Often while we are still fully dressed and I'm cooking dinner. It's all part of the build up. Mr C | |||
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"I suspect that far too often not enough time is spent exploring with fingers. Eagerness to get down to the “main event” takes over. Maybe?" Taking time with this part or foreplay take things to a whole new level | |||
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"I love fingering… takes me back to the simple days where a night wasn’t complete unless you’d fingered a girl in the club, on the train, in the cinema etc … kids these days are too busy choking girls and doing anal to appreciate the lost art…!" There you go. Have things become too “technical” ?  | |||
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"I love fingering. If I get a women to cum on my fingers before anything else then I know she's satisfied " But don’t you find that this also needs her to make an effort and get into it too? | |||
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"Does anyone not get their fingers involved? This was my first reaction too! Long before the main event there will be fingers getting involved. Often while we are still fully dressed and I'm cooking dinner. It’s a good bit of foreplay. But for how long? It's all part of the build up. Mr C" | |||
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"I suspect that far too often not enough time is spent exploring with fingers. Eagerness to get down to the “main event” takes over. Maybe? Taking time with this part or foreplay take things to a whole new level " Yes, but at what point do things transition to tongue play and then full sex? | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required. "What’s your technique OP? | |||
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"This is a skill that I have mastered and take proud in fingering two women at the same time aka Mittens. Making sure that both parties climax together and are fully satisfied. "That’s pretty impressive ambidextrous stuff. | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?"Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips. Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation | |||
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"This is a skill that I have mastered and take proud in fingering two women at the same time aka Mittens. Making sure that both parties climax together and are fully satisfied.
That’s pretty impressive ambidextrous stuff. "Thanks, it's my party trick. | |||
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"One of our favourites quotes: The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have "Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then? | |||
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"One of our favourites quotes: The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then? "Imagination is key | |||
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"One of our favourites quotes: The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then?
Imagination is key "Well yes! Sensual touching (of any part) can be such a turn on. It makes sense to explore with fingers. | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation "So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience. | |||
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"I love fingering. If I get a women to cum on my fingers before anything else then I know she's satisfied But don’t you find that this also needs her to make an effort and get into it too?" Of course but I always like to make sure she wants more afterwards | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience. "I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant  | |||
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"One of our favourites quotes: The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then?
Imagination is key
Well yes! Sensual touching (of any part) can be such a turn on. It makes sense to explore with fingers. "Spikey gloves and a Rhino can take things to a whole new level. A rhino is a metal thimble that has two spikes on it. | |||
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"One of our favourites quotes: The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then?
Imagination is key
Well yes! Sensual touching (of any part) can be such a turn on. It makes sense to explore with fingers.
Spikey gloves and a Rhino can take things to a whole new level. A rhino is a metal thimble that has two spikes on it."Nice tools of the trade I suppose | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant "Sorry, I must have misunderstood then, my mistake. | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant "We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood "Exactly. Mood and situation dependent. Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though? | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though? "Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm "Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type? | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?"Again, dependent on mood and intensity of play | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
Again, dependent on mood and intensity of play "Nice. The variety in the situation makes the outcome so much more pleasurable for both parties. | |||
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"Used to finger her everywhere, car ,club ,home, taxi she always gave me a bj and took every drop xxx" I would love to finger her wet pussy xx | |||
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"Think I must be the odd one out, I don’t like it at all quickest way to turn me off. Go dryer than the Sahara Desert " That’s partly my point, it’s not for everyone. Do you prefer oral to get you going? How do you make yourself cum? | |||
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"Used to finger her everywhere, car ,club ,home, taxi she always gave me a bj and took every drop xxx" Does that imply that you don’t finger her anymore? | |||
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"There are a couple of videos of Ruth being fingered on our profile" Hot to watch when it’s someone else doing it to her too. | |||
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"As a cuck nothing better than to see a guy kissing your hotwife and his hand wandering up her dress between her thighs to finger her pussy." How does Dee like to be fingered? | |||
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"Love feeling of wet pussy on my fingers. Mrs can come multiple times by me playing with her clit and then fingering her g-spot after. " Does it always lead on to full sex? | |||
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"As a cuck nothing better than to see a guy kissing your hotwife and his hand wandering up her dress between her thighs to finger her pussy. How does Dee like to be fingered? " Nice gentle working of her pussy to get her nice and wet. | |||
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"Love feeling of wet pussy on my fingers. Mrs can come multiple times by me playing with her clit and then fingering her g-spot after. Does it always lead on to full sex?" It usually does, but not always | |||
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"I love fingering, using a variety of techniques and movements. Finding out what she likes, feeling her responding. Opening up, getting wetter, moaning appreciation, the build up to her climax. And oh, the magical moment you know you have given her a full on orgasm. Continuing to give more and more, losing herself in pleasure. What's not to love!!" Is that enough or does it then lead on to full sex or oral? | |||
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"I love fingering, using a variety of techniques and movements. Finding out what she likes, feeling her responding. Opening up, getting wetter, moaning appreciation, the build up to her climax. And oh, the magical moment you know you have given her a full on orgasm. Continuing to give more and more, losing herself in pleasure. What's not to love!! Is that enough or does it then lead on to full sex or oral?" For me I would choose to move to oral, a mix of fingers/mouth/tongue to keep her cumming, hopefully getting much wetter/gushing.. ultimately though it would be up to her. My wife often "just needs me inside her" at this point. | |||
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"Define fingering nothing better than gently tease a woman with your fingers. But if your hammering her pussy with your fingers like a jack hammer right much prefer to finger her sensually seems to give a much better orgasm for the lady in my humble opinion. " my lady tends to prefer a mixture, slow and rythmic at times and then a frenzy with her g spot (with tongue on clit) at others, giving her a variety of sensations and orgasms. | |||
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"I love fingering, using a variety of techniques and movements. Finding out what she likes, feeling her responding. Opening up, getting wetter, moaning appreciation, the build up to her climax. And oh, the magical moment you know you have given her a full on orgasm. Continuing to give more and more, losing herself in pleasure. What's not to love!! Is that enough or does it then lead on to full sex or oral? For me I would choose to move to oral, a mix of fingers/mouth/tongue to keep her cumming, hopefully getting much wetter/gushing.. ultimately though it would be up to her. My wife often "just needs me inside her" at this point." The communication (verbal or otherwise) is important | |||
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"Define fingering nothing better than gently tease a woman with your fingers. But if your hammering her pussy with your fingers like a jack hammer right much prefer to finger her sensually seems to give a much better orgasm for the lady in my humble opinion. my lady tends to prefer a mixture, slow and rythmic at times and then a frenzy with her g spot (with tongue on clit) at others, giving her a variety of sensations and orgasms. " Important to know what she likes. And important to find out what she likes when it’s someone new too, I suppose. | |||
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"Fingers are all part of the fun for us " All part of the build up to a “main event”? Or can fingering be enough? | |||
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"Some guys are too rough and the goal is squirting. It can be sore. " If it gets to the point of discomfort what do you do? Do you push their hand away or manoeuvre onto something else? I like gushing and squirting but for me it’s never the aim of fingering. | |||
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"This is a skill that I have mastered and take proud in fingering two women at the same time aka Mittens. Making sure that both parties climax together and are fully satisfied. "I can confirm the Mittens is amazing, shame they don't happen often. And yes, both spikey gloves, and the Rhino, are very sensual, great at waking up the senses. | |||
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"Fingers are all part of the fun for us All part of the build up to a “main event”? Or can fingering be enough? " When we're together we never stop at fingering but when she's by herself fingers can do | |||
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"This is a skill that I have mastered and take proud in fingering two women at the same time aka Mittens. Making sure that both parties climax together and are fully satisfied.
I can confirm the Mittens is amazing, shame they don't happen often.
And yes, both spikey gloves, and the Rhino, are very sensual, great at waking up the senses. "Good first hand testimony  | |||
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"Fingers are all part of the fun for us All part of the build up to a “main event”? Or can fingering be enough? When we're together we never stop at fingering but when she's by herself fingers can do " Love watching a woman pleasure herself with her fingers | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion.. "My finger inside you hooked around and dojng a come here type motion feeling the ridge skin and teasing it as my thumb is gliding over your clit and then pausing and putting a bit pressure on it | |||
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"I love fingering... "Being fingered by someone else or fingering yourself? Do you prefer playing with the clit and labia or penetration of the fingers? | |||
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"Think I must be the odd one out, I don’t like it at all quickest way to turn me off. Go dryer than the Sahara Desert That’s partly my point, it’s not for everyone. Do you prefer oral to get you going? How do you make yourself cum? " Yes I prefer oral, the right amount of pressure on my clit does it for me | |||
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"I (Mrs R) love being fingered, when done properly..... gets me off every time!! I’d be disappointed to have a meet and not have this pleasure. xx" Yes me too, I love it
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?"What about the floaty orgasms? | |||
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"If done properly it makes me squirt like a garden hose
Mrs W&W "Exactly! | |||
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But I also think some Women have bad experiences, Going in to rough etc so don't really like it, Similar with BJ'S | |||
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"If it's done well (communication and responsiveness) I'd take a fingering over receiving oral most days tbf. I like to lie back. Have my pussy inspected. Every inch of the vulva teased and massaged. Leading to gently stretching and building up of insertion. Clit play to make me cum. Oooooo yes please. " Lots of pussy attention needed | |||
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"I (Mrs R) love being fingered, when done properly..... gets me off every time!! I’d be disappointed to have a meet and not have this pleasure. xx" How do you make sure it happens? Do you direct their fingers to where you want them? | |||
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"Fingering is such an intrinsic part of sex, my fingers rubbing on wife's g-spot gets her so wet and horning. Licking her clit and making her cum as I rub guarantees a squirting orgasm. The fingers increased over time until I have my whole hand inside her. Fisting is a thing for us. Of course there's fingering her ass too, especially good if I'm inside her from behind and feeling my cock in her pussy through the walls." The full finger (and fist) experience | |||
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"There’s so many toys on the market now some are so powerful but I still think a good old fashioned fingering once in a while" | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?"The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away? | |||
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"I love it, love it, love it, can't get enough of it " How do you like the fingers to be applied? | |||
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"My most favourite thing to have ... amazing and love finger squirting so much ... bring back fingering "Did it ever go away? Do you cum easily? | |||
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Mrs W&W "Tell how it’s done properly | |||
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"Fingering isn't a dying art in my opinion, I love it, Something I'd love to try is fingering a Woman the same time as another Woman, Going to have to try it with gf next time we meet up
But I also think some Women have bad experiences, Going in to rough etc so don't really like it, Similar with BJ'S"You are probably right | |||
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"Fingering isn't a dying art in my opinion, I love it, Something I'd love to try is fingering a Woman the same time as another Woman, Going to have to try it with gf next time we meet up
But I also think some Women have bad experiences, Going in to rough etc so don't really like it, Similar with BJ'S"This is called mittens and I have the veris to prove it. get this little skill right and they will come back for more. Even remaining perfectly still, but applying some pressure to the G-spot will bring out the spasms of ecstasy. | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?
The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away?"LOl, no the ones that send ripples of warmth from the pelvis up through the waist and into the chest, almost like being caressed my invisble hands. | |||
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"My most favourite thing to have ... amazing and love finger squirting so much ... bring back fingering
Did it ever go away? Do you cum easily?"So quickly with 'come hither' finger motion ... like a tsunami lol | |||
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"My most favourite thing to have ... amazing and love finger squirting so much ... bring back fingering
Did it ever go away? Do you cum easily?
So quickly with 'come hither' finger motion ... like a tsunami lol "I'll update a vid | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?
The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away?
LOl, no the ones that send ripples of warmth from the pelvis up through the waist and into the chest, almost like being caressed my invisble hands."Yep! Know that feeling well. Mr Bump has amazing fingers | |||
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"One of our favourites quotes: The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then?
Imagination is key
Well yes! Sensual touching (of any part) can be such a turn on. It makes sense to explore with fingers.
Spikey gloves and a Rhino can take things to a whole new level. A rhino is a metal thimble that has two spikes on it.
Nice tools of the trade I suppose "Yes indeedy, check out my pictures. | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?
The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away?
LOl, no the ones that send ripples of warmth from the pelvis up through the waist and into the chest, almost like being caressed my invisble hands.
Yep! Know that feeling well.
Mr Bump has amazing fingers "Miss Devil, would most definitely approve. | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?
The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away?
LOl, no the ones that send ripples of warmth from the pelvis up through the waist and into the chest, almost like being caressed my invisble hands.
Yep! Know that feeling well.
Mr Bump has amazing fingers "Miss Devil, would most definitely approve. | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion.. "I always trim my nails | |||
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
I always trim my nails"Good advice! | |||
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"Good fingering and a massage gun makes my wife squirt more than anything " I know the massage gun very well | |||
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"Good fingering and a massage gun makes my wife squirt more than anything " I have both of these boxes ticked! | |||
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"I just love fingering if it’s done right. Unfortunately most men approach it like they’re trying to unblock a sink …..totally ruins the experience " No wonder that pottery scene in Ghost was seen as sexual. | |||
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"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt " Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though? | |||
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"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though?" Some guys don't want to learn. They don't seem to care about what making this particular woman tick, they're just going to use a trick they learned from watching porn as it worked so well there! If it doesn't make her gush, then she's just uptight. And some women don't have enough confidence to teach men what they like. | |||
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"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though? Some guys don't want to learn. They don't seem to care about what making this particular woman tick, they're just going to use a trick they learned from watching porn as it worked so well there! If it doesn't make her gush, then she's just uptight. And some women don't have enough confidence to teach men what they like. " What would be the solution? x | |||
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"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though? Some guys don't want to learn. They don't seem to care about what making this particular woman tick, they're just going to use a trick they learned from watching porn as it worked so well there! If it doesn't make her gush, then she's just uptight. And some women don't have enough confidence to teach men what they like. " In my experience everyone is different, I love to be guided/told how to give the most pleasure....it is a huge turn on for me, especially then to see how well it works! | |||
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"I just love fingering if it’s done right. Unfortunately most men approach it like they’re trying to unblock a sink …..totally ruins the experience " I can honestly say that I’ve never used a sink plunger on anyone’s pussy… | |||
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"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though? Some guys don't want to learn. They don't seem to care about what making this particular woman tick, they're just going to use a trick they learned from watching porn as it worked so well there! If it doesn't make her gush, then she's just uptight. And some women don't have enough confidence to teach men what they like. What would be the solution? x" She needs to be a squirter, just like not-all-men-are-repeaters: just ask! | |||
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"Guaranteed orgasms for me with combined fingering and licking. Bonus points if the free hand is pulling on some nipple clamps too "Hmmm that sounds perfect to me...I'd love to! | |||
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