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Difference between gays and females or lesbians and guys

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By *ovetolick68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Inverness and wherever else I get to travel

Hey everyone, just out of curiosity to see through different people eyes. I'm a straight guy, but I receive a lot of messages from guys telling me how hot I am and that they would like to have sex with me, but I don't get any messages from females. Can't even organise a meet since I have created a new account again. But I'm curious how do gays see guys and how do females see guys in attractiveness and vice versa. I know there's difference between male and female, but I'm just interested. Do guys see every guy as always attractive and females see every female always attractive as well? When I look at other guys they all look same for me and always look good??

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Funnily enough I (Ms) viewed your profile earlier and thought you was hot. You're far too far away though to send a message.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Sorry I realise that doesn't answer your question.

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By *ovetolick68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Inverness and wherever else I get to travel

Thanks it would been great being somewhere closer I appreciate your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone, just out of curiosity to see through different people eyes. I'm a straight guy, but I receive a lot of messages from guys telling me how hot I am and that they would like to have sex with me, but I don't get any messages from females. Can't even organise a meet since I have created a new account again. But I'm curious how do gays see guys and how do females see guys in attractiveness and vice versa. I know there's difference between male and female, but I'm just interested. Do guys see every guy as always attractive and females see every female always attractive as well? When I look at other guys they all look same for me and always look good??"

No one sees the whole of any one group as attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are very attractive so it could be that the men are showing their appreciation for a good looking guy without any ulterior motive

Also there are ALOT more men on here than women so that could be a factor as well

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I'm definitely straight in that I can look at a guy and put him in one of three groups... 1. Phowar, 2. Mmmm ok or 3.Eeeew! No!

When I look at a woman, it's more aesthetic, into body parts I love. So if she has an attractive face, or boobs or pussy, like I want to lie next to her naked and worship.

I know a lot of bi guys that look at guys the way I look at women... Kinda your body part... The hole rather than the whole? Lol

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

If I like the look of a woman I'll message after reading their profile to get more info

And a main thing is the mind of the person love a good conversation

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By *ovetolick68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Inverness and wherever else I get to travel

Thanks interesting opinion, but what kind of details you look at guy to see if he's attractive or not?

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Thanks interesting opinion, but what kind of details you look at guy to see if he's attractive or not? "

Not into guys

But I'd say a picture of someone smartly dressed would do better than the 50th dick pic

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By *ovetolick68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Inverness and wherever else I get to travel

I see, but I wasn't asking you this question, but the lady before appreciate the answer, I'm straight too so when I look at the guys they look all the same to me. Probably as you said then it comes to outfit

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

No issue just thought I'd give what advice I can

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By *ovetolick68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Inverness and wherever else I get to travel

Thanks, great answer

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By *ovetolick68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Inverness and wherever else I get to travel

It's all good man, I really appreciate it

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I am gay i find some guys attractive and not others.

It also works both ways gay/bi guys looking at straight men and fabbing /messages etc.

90% of messages i used to get was from guys saying how straight they was on profile and had no mention of looking to meet men.

If i did chat with any of them ,They would tell me how good looking i was etc, I am under no illusion about my looks or body and knew they was lying through their backteeth just to get a BJ.

Regardless of how good looking they might be they was all told not interested/ignored or blocked.

I can look at some women and think they are good looking while others are not.Just with them is no sexual desire.

Just for fun OP if i had to pic one of your pics to fab it would be the 30th may 2023 one.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"Hey everyone, just out of curiosity to see through different people eyes. I'm a straight guy, but I receive a lot of messages from guys telling me how hot I am and that they would like to have sex with me, but I don't get any messages from females. Can't even organise a meet since I have created a new account again. But I'm curious how do gays see guys and how do females see guys in attractiveness and vice versa. I know there's difference between male and female, but I'm just interested. Do guys see every guy as always attractive and females see every female always attractive as well? When I look at other guys they all look same for me and always look good??"

I am straight and am attracted to a guy as a whole - personality plus face, hair, shoulders, torso, legs, bum,cock. Cock really is pretty much the least important thing in deciding if I fancy a guy.

Bi guys I’ve been with seem to look for cock when checking out guys. Anything else might be a bonus or might be even be irrelevant.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Thanks interesting opinion, but what kind of details you look at guy to see if he's attractive or not? "

I very definitely have a type... Rugger buggers get to the front of my queue. A lot of my gay friends are super envious now I've transitioned, I'm getting the cream of the straight / bi guys crop...

If I saw your profile, I'd invite you to one of my orgy parties as I know the female of the M/F couple, or the stunning TV/TS I know would maul you...

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