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"Was reading some sex facts and it's actually in the top 10 kinky things that people like.....just thought I'd ask for your opinions" ....and that is what you are getting. | |||
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"Was reading some sex facts and it's actually in the top 10 kinky things that people like.....just thought I'd ask for your opinions" did it say who they had asked and how many of them and how do you know they are facts? Like I said I have read of people on this site who do like this but it is an unhealthy practice, smacks of degradation to me and the very thought makes me heave. | |||
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"I will sometimes nibble gently on the cheeks of a woman's arse.. But that is about it " For some reason this made me laugh, I imagine you with a linen napkin and a knife and fork lol | |||
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"The thought of a roughy anal session, pulling out about to cum and the woman just grabbing hold of you and wanking and sucking till you empty in her mouth is so horny" best keep it a thought, fantasies are great because you can do anything in them and no one gets hurt | |||
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"I will sometimes nibble gently on the cheeks of a woman's arse.. But that is about it For some reason this made me laugh, I imagine you with a linen napkin and a knife and fork lol" Well I do like to try and take care with the ladies I am with. And I have been asked to use some toys to play with in the past but never a knife and fork. I don't think... "Please excuse me while I take out my picnic set" will work when I are getting more relaxed and comfortable in club then? lol | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum." hmmm to be fair you make a valid point | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum." I would never go near anyone's anus with my mouth...end of. However as I understand it there are far more germs high up in your back passage than there are around your anus so the risk of disease is greater. | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum. hmmm to be fair you make a valid point" | |||
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"The thought of a roughy anal session, pulling out about to cum and the woman just grabbing hold of you and wanking and sucking till you empty in her mouth is so horny" This was kinda how mine happened. It was just very spur of the moment and hot and oh yes it was good | |||
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"I will sometimes nibble gently on the cheeks of a woman's arse.. But that is about it For some reason this made me laugh, I imagine you with a linen napkin and a knife and fork lol Well I do like to try and take care with the ladies I am with. And I have been asked to use some toys to play with in the past but never a knife and fork. I don't think... "Please excuse me while I take out my picnic set" will work when I are getting more relaxed and comfortable in club then? lol" | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum." Unless the ladyhas a tongue like Linda Blair when possessed by the devil in The Exorcist i'm not sure it would reach quite as far as a cock... | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum. hmmm to be fair you make a valid point" What an ass kisser u are mate | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum. hmmm to be fair you make a valid point What an ass kisser u are mate" I thought that was your territory | |||
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"just when I thought it was safe to post in the forums again" lol. | |||
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"The thought of a roughy anal session, pulling out about to cum and the woman just grabbing hold of you and wanking and sucking till you empty in her mouth is so horny This was kinda how mine happened. It was just very spur of the moment and hot and oh yes it was good " | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum." Well pointed out!....have done it with an ex partner in the heat of the moment a few times...Of course some things aren't for everyone including the very act of anal sex itself, but surely if it is clean enough for intercourse with the right preparation, it's clean for oral contact...logical really. Just not sure hygiene really is a valid reason here! | |||
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"HELL to the NO!!! - Amy. x" | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum. Well pointed out!....have done it with an ex partner in the heat of the moment a few times...Of course some things aren't for everyone including the very act of anal sex itself, but surely if it is clean enough for intercourse with the right preparation, it's clean for oral contact...logical really. Just not sure hygiene really is a valid reason here! " But you'd be using a condom for anal sex wouldn't you? Even if you weren't the logic doesn't really stand scrutiny, a penis would find it fairly difficult to ingest anything that was potentially harmful but putting it in your mouth must be more risky. | |||
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"Personally I think A is overated .. but sometimes in the right moment with the right person ... it may happen ... but the basic rules are this ... just know the A and P ... behind the anal sphincter is the rectum , which stretches to accomodate ... this is nothing more than a holding chamber and is only full before we number 2 .. behind the rectum is another sphincter that leads to the descending sigmoid colon ... this is where you dont want to be ... if you douche ... before , sometimes during and always after ... the A , ATM or even ATV should be ok ... of course ....its all a matter of choice and sensibilities and trust ... unfortunately the rise of Gonzo porn didnt help as the guys , are always trying to outdo and outgross each other ... donkey puches , licking toilets , getting the girls to chuck ... bizarre ... in this lifestyle there are always lines to be drawn .... and we take chances all the time .. I suppose you just have to outweigh the pros and cons .... personally it would not be in my list of must do ... but then I wouldn't castigate someone either who it interests .. wrong place to have double standards ... and all very confusing ..." I don't understand why would people who don't like or want to do anal to mouth have double standards? | |||
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"I would never plan to do it. The thought makes me pull faces. However I have done it with my ex. It just kinda happened. It was very very hot. And I'm still here and it didn't smell, nor was it covered in anything else but cum. " How rank is that?????? Yew!!!!!!! | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum. Well pointed out!....have done it with an ex partner in the heat of the moment a few times...Of course some things aren't for everyone including the very act of anal sex itself, but surely if it is clean enough for intercourse with the right preparation, it's clean for oral contact...logical really. Just not sure hygiene really is a valid reason here! But you'd be using a condom for anal sex wouldn't you? Even if you weren't the logic doesn't really stand scrutiny, a penis would find it fairly difficult to ingest anything that was potentially harmful but putting it in your mouth must be more risky." I didn't mean to say it's ok to do it with for instance a one night stand with or without condoms... Of course it goes without saying that there is risk involved, but i don't think that applies when you have intercourse with a trusted partner. Whether it is ATM or ATV, as far as i am aware / experienced, the warnings we hear don't seem to be backed with statistical evidence at all (none that i have seen anyway)...i have heard far too many people warning about specially ATV but good personal hygiene eliminates all the risks with a trusted regular partner! | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum. Well pointed out!....have done it with an ex partner in the heat of the moment a few times...Of course some things aren't for everyone including the very act of anal sex itself, but surely if it is clean enough for intercourse with the right preparation, it's clean for oral contact...logical really. Just not sure hygiene really is a valid reason here! But you'd be using a condom for anal sex wouldn't you? Even if you weren't the logic doesn't really stand scrutiny, a penis would find it fairly difficult to ingest anything that was potentially harmful but putting it in your mouth must be more risky. I didn't mean to say it's ok to do it with for instance a one night stand with or without condoms... Of course it goes without saying that there is risk involved, but i don't think that applies when you have intercourse with a trusted partner. Whether it is ATM or ATV, as far as i am aware / experienced, the warnings we hear don't seem to be backed with statistical evidence at all (none that i have seen anyway)...i have heard far too many people warning about specially ATV but good personal hygiene eliminates all the risks with a trusted regular partner! " I have actually read that the risks are minimal anecdotally too but only anecdotally... | |||
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"I would never plan to do it. The thought makes me pull faces. However I have done it with my ex. It just kinda happened. It was very very hot. And I'm still here and it didn't smell, nor was it covered in anything else but cum. How rank is that?????? Yew!!!!!!!" If I'd planned it then I may have agreed. Although I'd have done it anyway if told to abut that's another topic That fact is it was not rank, it was super sexy and lead to me getting fucked again even harder and was amazing I only do anal with a long term partner so it tends to be different. It wasn't even planned anal it just happened due to how horny we both were. But right moment and right person I would most likely do it again Cali | |||
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"Do women really enjoy this. Just I've never tried this but seems so dirty and is actually quite filthy in a good way" Would you snog her after with tongues in deep? I would pass on the whole thing myself | |||
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"Do women really enjoy this. Just I've never tried this but seems so dirty and is actually quite filthy in a good way" I've had a word with the Mrs and she has never done anal. But she says if you can bend your neck enough to self suck, you are welcome to come round and do her up the shitter if you want to try arse to mouth that much. | |||
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"I really don't see what the issue is?!! If the condom is removed, and you are "clean" then what is the problem?!! " Surprised no ones mentioned this! Surely once the condom is discarded its no different to vagina to mouth? Or am I missing something? | |||
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"I really don't see what the issue is?!! If the condom is removed, and you are "clean" then what is the problem?!! Surprised no ones mentioned this! Surely once the condom is discarded its no different to vagina to mouth? Or am I missing something? " Now I'm excited Obi Wan | |||
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"think its just a porn thing" I'd agree with that - ass to mouth makes for a great submissive visual in a porn movie, but personally its not something I'd ever feel the need to do with a woman, I've no need nor desire to break down and dominate my sex partners. | |||
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"think its just a porn thing I'd agree with that - ass to mouth makes for a great submissive visual in a porn movie, but personally its not something I'd ever feel the need to do with a woman, I've no need nor desire to break down and dominate my sex partners." How is it domination or "breaking down" if the lady does it of her own accord? I don't see it as dominance at all..?! Do you go down on a woman after fucking her?- does that make you sub? | |||
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" How is it domination or "breaking down" if the lady does it of her own accord? I don't see it as dominance at all..?! Do you go down on a woman after fucking her?- does that make you sub? " I'd still call it an act of submission on the womans part even if she decides to perform ATM willingly, simply because the anus is hardly the most hygienic of locations. | |||
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" How is it domination or "breaking down" if the lady does it of her own accord? I don't see it as dominance at all..?! Do you go down on a woman after fucking her?- does that make you sub? I'd still call it an act of submission on the womans part even if she decides to perform ATM willingly, simply because the anus is hardly the most hygienic of locations." Id say that would be more of your issue if you feel that way. Anal sex can feel amazing and slightly naughty. A blow job is a blow job. The order of events can be off the cuff, and in the heat of the moment.. I personally don't see it as a dominant/degrading act whatsoever. And certainly am not a "sub". Each to their own! | |||
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"Am I missing something here? Is everyone assuming the OP is referring to porn style bareback fun? If condoms are used there will be no direct contact between cock and anus. If the condom is discarded - there will be no direct contact between mouth and anus. Does everyone who indulges in anal during fun stop and have a shower before indulging in further play? I've never noticed during any of my meets with couples who like DP or at parties /clubs. Or like most - do they simply ensure a fresh condom is applied before vaginal penetration? " Made me think bareback too but yeah that's probably to do with what u see in films either way its a no thanks here lol | |||
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"Why dont you try sucking your bog brush let us know what you reckon" Made me laugh | |||
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"Did you kiss her after?" Of course! | |||
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"I don't get this, plenty of women say they are happy to stick their tongues up partners bums but wont touch a cock with their mouth after it's been up their own bum." | |||
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"this has been an interesting read, because probably 95% of men I've had messaged off on here ask if I do anal, now if I did and we were in the moment I suspect that after they had fucked my ass they probably would want a blow job and stick there cock in my mouth after or while playing and mixing it up and I don't think they would be worrying about this fact at that time while they are having a hot bj ..... and majority of guys saying ewww no, they wouldn't be the ones having to do it are they it's the girls unless your in a bi game !.... ?? and suppose it depends if your into the whole rimming licking game does it .. if u are what's the difference ?? just my opinion x " Very well said Why are all the guys saying eew no. They arnt the ones doing it after all | |||
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