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Balancing swinging & parenthood

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By *amsamsam90 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Anyone on here a parent? We're having a baby this year and I'm wondering whether people still manage to practice ENM/the lifestyle while having young kids at home or if we have 18 years of boring sex ahead haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on here a parent? We're having a baby this year and I'm wondering whether people still manage to practice ENM/the lifestyle while having young kids at home or if we have 18 years of boring sex ahead haha "

20 years together and never been boring!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why boring?

Baby sitters are the way forward

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
over a year ago

rochester

We have 6 children and tbh our sex life just had to take a back seat, mostly due to a lack of time and energy.

But once the youngest reached a teenager, that's when we re-connected on another level and started down this road.

Congratulations by the way and good luck with everything.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

When my first wife and I had two small children, we enjoyed sex with friends downstairs whilst they were asleep upstairs. That lasted until we moved away and the oldest was 10. Risky but it worked. The gap was after that when they went to bed later and didn't sleep so soundly!

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

It’s actually worse when they get older, start to question where you are going and don’t quite believe you

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

There are tonnes of parents on ‘the scene’. You just make it work however best fits your home life. I just try to get to a club once a month and that suits me fine. X

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Congrats on your baby first if all.

You have been in Fab as a couple for more than 1 year and no verifications. Does not seem your sex life outside your partnership is up to much anyway, so having a child may not make much of an impact. Your profile says hotwife, so can't see why the Mrs can't get out now to have sex while Mr. stays home with baby for 18 years waiting for hotwife to come back and tell him how it all went.

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By *iscretefuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

Blackheath

It takes a bit more patience and planning! First couple of years are easy. Once they go to school, it’s daytime fun with like minded friends.

Congratulations on your pending parenthood ??

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

As most of our family lived overseas whilst we were in London, we found swinging to be almost impossible. Only met once or twice after we started our family (and then the joy of COVID)

We decided to try ENM, which was a revelation to our sex life, however fab doesn't cater to that so well (and is non existent here in the US)

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"It’s actually worse when they get older, start to question where you are going and don’t quite believe you "

We get that, and it's even more difficult when the adultchild at home gets a ring doorbell (and the app!)

We go and visit 'friends' a lot and go away for nights in hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem just have to plan a bit more

Sex life is still as good as before

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have 2 little ones, I was on here when I was pregnant (was not meeting for all you judgy Jane's)

It's hard but doable it's a fine balancing act, we have to plan sometimes far in advance but I'd people are put off by that they aren't our people.

Mrs

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

just me who doesnt know what enm is?

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

just me who doesnt know what enm is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just me who doesnt know what enm is?"

Ethical non monogamy

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