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By *ixey and Copper OP   Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hi, a question for people who enjoy anal sex/play and preparing...

How long do you pop a plug in to help prepare before taking a cock or larger toy?

Do you spend a few hours, upping the size etc until ready?

Obviously not a question for those lucky enough to just go for it without preparing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a fairly new thing for us. We started out with just a finger during sex and did this a few times then introduced some small toys a few times, decided we liked it an got a set of but plugs. Lube is the key and definitely don’t try and rush it, we took maybe a month before we were confident enough that SC could take my dick and then I would just stay very still an sc would go at her own pace. Now it’s fairly easy to do and a big turn on for us both.

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By *ixey and Copper OP   Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"This is a fairly new thing for us. We started out with just a finger during sex and did this a few times then introduced some small toys a few times, decided we liked it an got a set of but plugs. Lube is the key and definitely don’t try and rush it, we took maybe a month before we were confident enough that SC could take my dick and then I would just stay very still an sc would go at her own pace. Now it’s fairly easy to do and a big turn on for us both. "

Lovely thank you x

We've enjoyed anal play for a long time, but never managed to get over the last hurdle (kate says my cocks quite thick)

We have a full day of naughtiness next Saturday so we're going to go for it...

A good clean...then start with the smallest plug, then gently go bigger over a few hours xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a fairly new thing for us. We started out with just a finger during sex and did this a few times then introduced some small toys a few times, decided we liked it an got a set of but plugs. Lube is the key and definitely don’t try and rush it, we took maybe a month before we were confident enough that SC could take my dick and then I would just stay very still an sc would go at her own pace. Now it’s fairly easy to do and a big turn on for us both.

Lovely thank you x

We've enjoyed anal play for a long time, but never managed to get over the last hurdle (kate says my cocks quite thick)

We have a full day of naughtiness next Saturday so we're going to go for it...

A good clean...then start with the smallest plug, then gently go bigger over a few hours xxx"

Good luck hopefully you let us know how it goes. X

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By *ixey and Copper OP   Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"This is a fairly new thing for us. We started out with just a finger during sex and did this a few times then introduced some small toys a few times, decided we liked it an got a set of but plugs. Lube is the key and definitely don’t try and rush it, we took maybe a month before we were confident enough that SC could take my dick and then I would just stay very still an sc would go at her own pace. Now it’s fairly easy to do and a big turn on for us both.

Lovely thank you x

We've enjoyed anal play for a long time, but never managed to get over the last hurdle (kate says my cocks quite thick)

We have a full day of naughtiness next Saturday so we're going to go for it...

A good clean...then start with the smallest plug, then gently go bigger over a few hours xxx

Good luck hopefully you let us know how it goes. X"

Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something that Alisha’s wants to do to… we also do the fingering up her arse and then have played with a few toys… but haven’t managed to go all the way yet

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Hi, a question for people who enjoy anal sex/play and preparing...

How long do you pop a plug in to help prepare before taking a cock or larger toy?

Do you spend a few hours, upping the size etc until ready?

Obviously not a question for those lucky enough to just go for it without preparing "

I usually insert a butt plug after I've showered before I get dressed/ready which usually takes an hour or so.

Hope you have fun xx

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"This is a fairly new thing for us. We started out with just a finger during sex and did this a few times then introduced some small toys a few times, decided we liked it an got a set of but plugs. Lube is the key and definitely don’t try and rush it, we took maybe a month before we were confident enough that SC could take my dick and then I would just stay very still an sc would go at her own pace. Now it’s fairly easy to do and a big turn on for us both.

Lovely thank you x

We've enjoyed anal play for a long time, but never managed to get over the last hurdle (kate says my cocks quite thick)

We have a full day of naughtiness next Saturday so we're going to go for it...

A good clean...then start with the smallest plug, then gently go bigger over a few hours xxx"

This is kind of how we approached it. We have a mix of dildos and plugs and worked up from the smallest one to Mr. Now we don't need to start quite at the smallest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We've enjoyed anal play for a long time, but never managed to get over the last hurdle (kate says my cocks quite thick)

We have a full day of naughtiness next Saturday so we're going to go for it...

A good clean...then start with the smallest plug, then gently go bigger over a few hours xxx"

This is a good plan. What I've also found works is going straight to the biggest plug, but taking my time working it in.

The other one is that 'room aromas' (Why on earth is that a censored word fab, they are common and completely legal!?) are popular on the gay scene for a reason as well. I'm not a huge fan - I find they make me intensely horny for about 10 seconds followed by another 10 seconds of having a splitting headache, but they do the trick of relaxing muscles and I find they sometimes help get over the initial hurdle if I'm with a guy who's otherwise a bit too big. Any adult store that caters to gay guys will probably have them, and weirdly I've noticed them behind the counter in a lot of news agents lately as well.

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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Aside from thoroughly douching, shaving, and showering, I don't spend too long 'stretching'. I have a set of three butt plugs - small, medium, and large - and will briefly use them in turn. And I have a dildo. When I'm comfortable riding the dildo to the balls, I figure I'm now ready for the meet, even if it is in an hour or so. Can re-relax at the time.

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By *eigh2019TV/TS
over a year ago

Chingford

I eat nothing for 24 hours a date, double enema to be clean enough to eat and then insert a lube capsule and plug. Depending on the guys cock its plenty of quality lube after that and let the fun begin.

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I eat nothing for 24 hours a date, double enema to be clean enough to eat and then insert a lube capsule and plug. Depending on the guys cock its plenty of quality lube after that and let the fun begin. "

Don't eat anything for 24 hours?!? . You must be bloody starving for all your meets.

Frank

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By *urringtiggraCouple
over a year ago

UXBRIDGE

Lube capsules!!?? Wow every day is a school day!! Must get some!!

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